Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Friends - weeds III

   Now another question I want to ask: who is guilty if in a garden there are many weeds – the weeds or the gardener?
    You can understand what I mean. You are guilty and only you are to blame for growing weeds in your spiritual garden. Not the weeds. They live so as their nature is, maybe they will change also in the future. You who should care for your own personal qualities. You are who should pay attention and keep clean your lake of Soul. You are responsible only for growing weeds in your Spirit garden, so do not complain! Don’t blame the weeds. Just remove them, you`ll do much favor for both of you.

   The weeds will be happy to go to another garden, as this is their role –if they continue on the same path.
Be grateful for your own garden and don’t worry about gardens of others. This is another important thing. Don’t look to your friends gardens saying –what nice flowers, I don’t have this…if you want, you can have much more. People, as plants grow from inside –out. From roots to the branches and blooms. We have our seasons – spring of inspiration, free energy flow and joy, summer of peace, love exchanging, connections, autumn of peace, tranquility, memories, melancholy, letting go of past, winter of wisdom, realizing, understanding, feeling the life mission, preparing for the new blooms; Let your flowers grow in freedom and love.
Don’t be sad for the weeds, don’t be sad for the thorns. They always will be there, but when you cleanse space from them –all space will become much beautiful.
And I don’t say weeds are only “people”. Actually with this words I can seem much rude and overbearing. I mean the true – negative and dark qualities of people. That can include also your own qualities! So look well what is needed to be removed?

Don’t be sad for anyone, who left your life. He never meant to stay in it. As we are travelers and we also not meant to stay in this earth plane. We can be left by multiple ways. The fear to be “alone” and “left” is one of the basic fears in human nature. Baby and child is afraid to be alone –left from his mother and father. Husband is afraid to left by his wife; mother is afraid to be left by his child; friend is afraid to be left by another friend; lover to be left by his lover; daughter to be left by his mother…so many connection and sadness. Only because we didn’t understand, we don’t belong to anyone here, nor anyone belong to us. We have this relation given as lessons, given as priority, like student books; they come and go. Even strongest relationship wont stand the storm of time and death. Parting can be –emotional, physical and in all levels. We need to accept that so we can leave in peace. When you experience and overcome the saddest event, being left by someone close to you, then you become stronger and out of fear to lose.
Remember – as I said before – you cant lose something, which never belong to you.

That’s why, dont be sad for any friend, lover, friend-weed who left your life in any way (except taken to the next angel realms). Be content, you were saved from bad spirits, bad events, consequences in the future by this shift. You were saved from being fake and dishonest, and from many more negative qualities. Everything has a reason, but not everyone sees it – similar to what Confucius said about “beauty”.

Only time can reveal our blooms, and time can reveal our weeds – the same as blooms and weeds of others.  

The last thing I want to say: do not share with someone, who doesn’t share to you back. Then you`ll lose much from your good qualities, and this sharing will be already waste of time; the same –don’t trust someone, who distrust you, don’t give love to someone who dislikes you (envy you), don’t throw not only your pearls, but also your crystals, your quartz, your roses to someone who wont appreciate them and trample them.
Again Confucius: “Respect yourself and others will respect you”. The same is valid about love.


(* next entry I`ll concentrate on what signs to look for finding the real Love –mate? Is your current relationship example of real love-relation?) 

Abide in divine Light!

[ nina Lea-nura * ]
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