This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and feel loved.
How to be in your feminine energy?
Feminine energy is rising on the planet at this time of turbulence, big energy transformation is happening, which will affect all relationships and also Divine masculine energy.
Feminine energy is not weak, submissive, too passive, accommodating as many people may think. Just the opposite, this energy has huge creation power within.
Feminine energy is about softness, calmness, gentleness, receptivity, inner peace, self-love, self-care, nurturing, grounding, loving, giving love, soothing.
Divine feminine is in each woman, as each woman is here as representation of the goddess, Lunar goddess, maiden, priestess, mother. She is so deep and multifaceted, she is complex. (much more complex than the masculine energy) so it is not easy to be understood.
Divine feminine is mysterious, attractive, seductive, and in the same time soft and authentic. She is magnetic without pretence and arrogance, without explaining herself. She is the creation of the world from the void within the cosmic egg.
Understand her and feel her in yourself, and know -you embody divine feminine. This energy has qualities of water moving and shaping the stones around in soft and persistent way.
Every woman is like different source of water, holding power of the nature and universe – the laws of attraction and laws of unity. One can be felt like lake, peaceful and serne, other can be like sea, ocean with big waves of emotions and depth, one can be like a river (flowing freely through obstacles of life), other can feel like snow - holding power of purification and detachment, true winter.
To embody the feminine energy you need to let go of principle of constant "doing” and embody the being and presence.
If feminine is about letting go, masculine energy is about fire – transformation and destruction, total change.
To understand this energy look closely to the elements of water and Earth. Both are calm, nourishing, accepting, being in themselves.
They don’t rush to change, but they accept change through letting go.
Here are some feminine qualities which you can observe:
Soft, gentle, more passive, calm, receptive, self-loving, soothing, letting go, nurturing, emotional, flexible, changeable, psychic, intuitive, slowing down, attracting, seducing.
The masculine energy from another side has the qualities of fire and air – quick, active, explosive, restless, sharp, transformative, providing, passionate, activating, protective, logical, giving love, supportive, creating change.
The masculine energy is pursuing, the feminine is being pursued.
Feminine is like a pearl or a gem – shining and enough in itself.
In this list of qualities there are no oppositions, but different modalities – of the spectrum Yin and Yang.
Softness and how to be soft and calm
One of the most attractive qualities of the divine feminine is softness (calmness). Anything that is soft doesn’t need to fight or to prove itself – it just attracts protection and care. Most women sadly have lost their softness in the world of constant fast movement and false matrix models of how “feminine” should look like, which is fake and untruth.
But feminine energy is empowered through softness not through being sharp. Calmness is not being dull, indifferent, or being taken for granted. Calmness is being totally assured in your own inner peace, your own power to get what you need, your power to be vulnerable without losing yourself.
Softness means many things on many levels. You let your emotions flow like water, your are calm and you don’t resist or reject your emotions. Just the opposite – you validate them and you observe why do you feel so? You understand your emotions because they are beautiful messages of your body and heart. They should not be avoided but accepted and seen.
When you feel your emotions you can observe from higher level and not react. (which shows losing control).
There is no more ugly sight than a woman (or man) who has lost control over her emotions. It looks repelling.
So, in order to be magnetic and attract love, you need to be calm, present, collected, grounded. You need to release all inner fears and doubts, don’t react to anything and be in your power.
But that needs a self-training and need for self-development for every woman. That required self awareness which doesn’t happen overnight.
Ask yourself these questions:
- What triggers my emotions?
- What triggers this specific feeling of (anger, anxiety, sadness)?
- can I remove myself from the source of this emotions?
- How can I return back to my calmness and softness?
The feminine energy is related to the great Void. Its mystical, magnetic, pulling, seductive. It contains the darkness of the unknown, its unresolved puzzle. Therefore, she cant be easily known or possessed. She is like siren and mermaid.
This is part 1 of my article, please read part 2 here ..>
Nina Nour Bluebell ©
medium, psychic, healer
August 2026
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