The truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing (channeled message) ♥ part 3

 

This article is channeled message with the help of my angels and archangel Sandalphon about Obsession, longing and love. To understand the whole picture please read part 1 and part 2 first. 

                               ♥ Is obsession love?

This is very important question, which I can answer only as: yes and no. There are different kind of obsessions, most of them include deep feelings, emotions and love. Most obsessions can be mistaken for deep love, as they have many common elements. The problem is that obsession is more relevant to addiction and longing than to love. But that does not mean you can`t be obsessed and love in the same time. (Here comes the different between being “in love”, or sexually attracted by someone, and loving someone).

   🍦 You can read the article about addiction here...

  Obsession is complex feeling that can be triggered by emotional and psychological factors, trauma from the past (and past lives), and karmic relationships, emotional wounds and sub-conscious fears.

Also, obsession is related to intense thoughts and projections of emotions to you and from you to another person. The intensity creates energy vortex or spiral which can make it very hard to let go. 

    The feeling of obsession is related to desire to dominate and be close to (so you can be fulfilled), while love seeks more freedom, and need for reciprocity. In this way obsession is more equivalent to the masculine energy and men as they expand by dominion. (women expand by nurturing).

Obsession can have sense of restrained devotion”, being in love regardless of the object feelings or taboo, being fully committed to this person.

             Other important facts about this feeling:

1. it can increase and spiral by memories in your mind, by places and objects belonging to the other person. The person who is obsessed remembers everything related to his object of desire.

2. Obsession can be linked to feeling of lost love, trauma in love, or inability to be in a relationship. That creates level of distrust in yourself and your ability to be with person you want. That s why your mind will create loops with imagination and fantasies about the person you desire. (including sexual fantasies).

There can be mixed feelings to the object, as obsession and love are complex. For example, if you were in need of older brother in your childhood, who could take care of your, defend you and love you unconditionally, this feeling can be projected onto someone who fulfill these qualities, but then in your mind (subconscious) you mix the love to your imaginary brother” with romantic love. So, your object of obsession can be someone who is in state of taboo, but has the qualities of that “brother” you were in need in the past.

In a way, obsession can feel more like love, or more like addiction -depending on past experiences and trauma of the person.

                           ♥ Obsession, illusion and taboo

The feeling of obsession can be illusionary at its core, as its strong principles are longing for someone who is prohibited, impossible for you. It holds the patters of karmic loop and karmic lessons in relationship, and it always wants to reveal something about you and your mind. But obsession is not equal to illusion! Just it can have elements of illusion or delusion, as part of being in state of "hypnosis". 

    Obsession is also not random, but always related to something that you lack in your love, or something you have deep longing for.

The feelings of longing, desire, need, pain, lust, need for closeness, will be mixed with sense of guilt and shame (as person will wonder why he feels this to the forbidden object).

You need to pay attention to your heart and Sacral chakra -orange, as there can be energy cords from the other person.

Constant feeling of obsession will form an energy bond in the second chakra, which can become even a vortex of light, connecting you.

In this case you need to be careful about the object of obsession as the bond will take time to be removed (or it can stay constantly or for a long time).

Thank you for tuning in! 🍒

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

Tarot reader 

April 2026 ©

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The Truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 2

  

This article is part 2 of the channeled message about obsession, longing and taboo with the help of my angels and Arch. Sandalphon. ♥

                         Elements of obsession: 

1.  Longing, desire and strong attraction for someone who don`t belong to you or is unreachable. In many cases it is related to forbidden love, someone who is taboo.

2. Periods of silence and withrowl, in which the obsession becomes stronger and spirals -dissipates and starts again.

3. Constant need to imagine or be close to the object of desire.

(As this is rather painful experience, in most cases the person who is obsessed is attached to his pain, like in masochism).

4. Idealisation of the object of obsession.

5. The person can have uncontrollable thoughts and feelings of sexual desire to object of obsession. He can look at memories or have little objects (fetishes) of the person, like hair, clothes, photos or anything else.

             ♥ The principle of taboo and prohibition 

The obsession is ruled by the principle of the “forbidden fruit is the sweetest”, so the feeling is fuelled by the inability and prohibition to be close to the object of desire. That means, there is always a wall standing between the person and his object of obsession. If this wall is broken, the person who is obsessed can feel confused, vulnerable and don’t know how to react.

(Note that again even if it is painful and related to something forbidden, doesnt mean it is not love. Scenarios can be multiple.)

In other cases he may start a new spiral of obsession, as the object is still “prohibited” even looking closer.

                             ♥ Emotional projection

Another element of obsession is projection of the feelings and thoughts onto the object of obsession. In this point the person can start (sub-consciously) to send energy cords to his object and entangle his whole body, which will affect his energy. In such way the object of obsession may be open to these feelings and create the mirror effect, where he projects the same emotions back.

The object of desire can also feel the same feelings which are projected onto him, and accept it as his own. (That means, it is possible he is confused about his own feelings, and thinks the obsession belongs to him).

This is actually a fake “obsession” and it is called absorbtion”.

The person who is obsessed will have contradictions in his thoughts and behaviour, as he won`t have valid” explanation for his feelings.

In the next part I will look into the question is obsession love...

Read part 3 here ....

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

All rights are reserved