How to Reclaim your Divine Masculine Energy (for men -channeled) part 3

 

  This is a channeled message with the help of my angels and Archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel about the state of divine masculine energy on the planet and what are main principles for men to reclaim it back.

This is part 3 (final) of my article, you can read part 2 here...

   6.  The sixth principle of masculine energy: use sexual energy for transformation and growth 

   Sexual energy is different in men and women. Men are by nature more connected to “primal instincts and desires, while women have more complex and sophisticated ways to be attracted. But you need to understand that generally in this level of reality sexual energy is primal in itself, it is what makes you close to your animal instincts and to low levels of reality. 

So, there is indeed a clash between the primal sexual energy of a man, who desires to go higher with the sexual energy of the goddess. Through act of sexual connection a man takes energy from woman and women gives her most special jewel. 

   Women receive positive energy only from a man with whom she feels safe and secure. She needs to feel loved and appreciated first, she needs you to prove your worth first.

   Unhealthy feminine energy will give all things too easily, and so she becomes unattractive, she will lose her value slowly. 

High value women know when to say No to any pursuit from a man, and knows how to keep her sexual energy in state of purity.

Women who have self respect can not give her most precious self to any person who desires her. That destroys her value.

If a man really wants to be with a woman he needs to use his initial sexual energy for self-growth and inner transformation. He needs to understand what are his weak points, not her weaknesses and how to use them. He doesn’t need to use manipulative tactics, but he gives from his heart.

7. Seventh principle of masculine energy: being Trustworthy

Being trustworthy is one of the most important things in a relationship. A man needs to prove he can be trusted by showing consistent efforts and taking actions. By showing in any way his intentions and love. Being trustworthy means you know your own self worth, you are confident and you have healthy Solar plexus chakra.

Men who have trust and control issues, who are too jealous, usually have problem to believe in their own power.

All men need to activate and work on their centre of power -Solar Plexus chakra – and their centre of truth and authenticity – Throat chakra. Men who have very balanced energy in these chakras will be by trustworthy.

A real man is honest and open, without to feel vulnerable. He is not weak, controlling, manipulative or too demanding and critical. He let the woman see his worth through his honesty, kindness, compassion and his behaviour.

With men actions speak much more than words.

So, as a man pay attention to what are your words and intentions and how they match with your actions. You will understand much about yourself and the way you love.

Conclusion: to be a man with a healthy masculine energy at this time is a challenge -as it requires you to be stable and to have your own self esteem and self worth first. If you want to reclaim your lost masculine energy you need to be protector and provider in your relationship, you need to be consistent and prove you are trustworthy, you need to find solutions and take actions at the right time, you need to take responsibility for your actions at any time, you need to not avoid or reject your emotions or emotions of others, you need to have self-respect and respect women, you need to be able to overcome obstacles and take risks without being weak or desperate….

You need to control your sexual energy and direct it to self growth and transformation. You need to be very self aware and understand your motives for taking action.

All of these are healthy masculine qualities which men have”, but they should work on them to be empowered.

In such way all women need to work on their feminine qualities, as they are essential for long term happiness and fulfilment in a relationship.

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell 

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine Masculine Energy (for men -channeled) part 2

 

This is a channeled message with the help of my angels and Archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel about the state of divine masculine energy on the planet and what are main principles for men to reclaim it back.

This is part 2 of my article, you can read part 1 here...

I give seven principles for healthy masculine energy *

4. the forth principle of masculine energy: Respect, self-respect

   Healthy masculine energy not only is able to provide and prove his worth, but also have self-respect. If a man doen not respect others, he will not respect himself too. Some women don’t have healthy boundaries so they can let in a man they like too quickly, or have low confidence. But a man should respect womens boundaries even more. In this way he shows that he feels and understands her.

   Many people think more about love, attraction, seduction and passion in a relationship, which is true and valid. But its not enough – as we know the principle of fast burning fire. One of the most important feelings that man needs to have is respect -which is also self-respect. This comes when they see a woman as precious and valuable, not an object of his desires. 

The way you respect others shows much about your self worth.

A man who does not respect woman can`t love her and can`t value her. She has no value in his eyes. So, think about respect first.

Questions for a man:

What are the things you respect and value in the woman in your life?

What are the things you respect about yourself?

   Showing respect to your beloved can be in many ways: ask her what she likes, notice how she feels, take care of your words, know her boundaries and don’t cross them, show consistency in your actions, let your words be followed by actions, don’t speak empty promises, don’t show you value, like or are attracted to other women, don’t take decision for yourself which involves her too, don’t show any aggressive behaviour – anger or rage…

    5. Fifth principle of masculine energy: Providing and managing

   Men who really are in love always want to provide for the woman, they genuinly care about her well being. Such men will not just stand by and don’t ask her if she needs anything. The healthy masculine energy is wanting a woman you love to feel good, to have all her needs met, to be comfortable and have space to be in her feminine energy. 

Dont think that the modern days women, who are working hard, taking care of children, having countless home obligations, can be in their feminine power. Thats not possible, as we see that`s how the masculine and feminine dynamic is destroyed. Woman needs to take care of herself and then she is able to happily give love to the man, she can be free to take care of home or pay attention to children. Woman needs free time to reflect on herself, for self-love and self-care, to grow in healthy environment, to be authentic and not manipulative, to have hobbies and be fulfilled.

The man needs to provide resources, material comfort, support and emotional support. Many men cant do that at this time as they have weak masculine energy.

This is part 2 of my article, read part 3 here ...★

Nina Nour Bluebell 

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine Masculine energy (for men -channeled) Part 1

 

This is a channeled message with the help of my angels and Archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel about the state of divine masculine energy on the planet and what are main principles for men to reclaim it back.

                           I. What is masculine energy *

   Masculine and feminine energies are totally interconnected in this level of reality and higher levels. For that reason we can`t have unhealthy and damaged masculine energy and expect healthy and flowing feminine energy.

Any blockage and trauma in the masculine will imminently affect the feminine, and visa versa. And we talk here about masculine and feminine in a separate human, not the Yin -Yang flow in a single individual.

   Today on the planet masculine energy is almost completely destroyed, blocked and has a lot of trauma, and it appears in its weakest form. Men are becoming more and more far from their healthy masculine power, which affects women in very significant way. As very few men have returned to their healthy masculine, we need to understand the suffering of all women, who struggle to get in themselves the missing masculine energy. This is inevitable.

And there is a vicious cycle – the more women go into their masculine qualities, as they want to provide for themselves, the more men go far away from their real power. The harmony between Yin and Yang is broken. 

But in the time of new Earth we are slowly returning back the power of divine Feminine energy. This will take much time and karmic lessons to be learnt. Most of the relationships on the planet are in unhealthy state, they struggle to survive with compromises and being inauthentic. Which is detrimental to all humans, as each relationship affects the collective consciousness.

Healthy masculine energy is in its highest state of providing safety, security, comfort, care, giving resources, finding solutions, being active, being passionate and protective.

Masculine energy needs to take action, to move, in its unhealthy state it feels stuck or changeable and inconsistent.

         1. Principle of the masculine energy: Protection

    All men are by nature protective as they want to give sense of safety to women and to their family. This sense of protection is what we can call “containment” or providing a safe space for another person to feel good. If a woman in a relationship is too protective and always worrying about the man, she takes his role – which happens many times with the mother instinct. Women need to separate the feeling of being a mother from the feeling of being feminine , which is essential for a healthy balance in a relationship.

   If a woman don’t give a man space to prove his masculine energy, this will slowly destroy their relationship. The worst thing a woman can do is to be the “leader", the provider and take the function of a man. Many women do that simply because they lack knowledge and self awareness how to be in their feminine energy. 

A man needs to prove he is capable to provide for a woman in any way and form – home, comfort, resources. Otherwise his energy will become blocked and turn to unhealthy habits. Men cheat and lie not because they have excess of sexual energy, but because of they feel unworthy in themselves, because their energy is blocked, or they have unresolved trauma. 

2. Second principle of the masculine energy is: provide solutions, take inspired actions

   Women are naturally connected to their feelings and emotions. So, men need to understand more about what women needs in the relationship in order to provide for her in the best possible way.

If you are stuck in your feelings, or if you are abandoning your emotions and don’t want to understand them, you will struggle in any relationship. Men are by nature more connected with their mind, thats why they can struggle to express emotions (even there are different type of men). A man needs to feel and understand his own emotions first before he understands emotions of others.

   Many relationships suffer from the lack of empathy or lack of emotional support from the mens side. Which is the role of a man to provide emotional containment, because in this way the feeling of safety expands.

If you are in your healthy masculine energy, you will not just talk or give promises, but you will take action to prove your words.  Men who only speaksand give empty promises has weak masculine energy.

Masculine energy is connected with the elements Air and Fire – mind, thinking, solutions, intentions and actions. When you are much in your head and only thinking without to take action, you don’t prove your value as a man. Also, you can become restless, inconsistent, weak, and stuck in a place you don’t want.

Healthy man is able to find solutions and answers to the problem and then take steps. In todays world that may seem very difficult, but men are wired to face difficult situations and to protect the woman in their life.

Think what are your priorities in the relationship and what steps did you take to change something you don’t like.

3. Third principle of masculine energy: Pursuing what you want

   Men love to pursue what they feel is out of their reach. As men are hunters by nature they love the experience and excitement of taking risks and proving their abilities. That means – men shouldn’t be too emotional or discouraged if he faces challenges, or if he didn’t succeed at once. He just takes his power back, reflects on his mistakes and starts again. He is not wired to be too much affected by his losses. But many men start to be affected by the object of their obsession.

   Men are more impulsive by nature and their passion and desire is stronger. But as fire it`s also easier to be extinguished faster. The principle of fire is – “The flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long”. This is very valid for the obsession of the men – especially if they get “what they desire”.

   Therefore, the unhealthy masculine energy can be also inconsistent, changeable, and not grounded. Memory of the man and women are very different from each other. Men are inclined to remember even the hard and painful times, or times when he was challenged more than times when he was very comfortable. Thats in the men`s nature – as he thrives in the energy of taking risks, being challenged and overcoming obstacles. Women thrives in environment of safety, security and being provided, so she can feel in her power.

This is a bit strange dynamic, but it works if both partners understand their roles, be self aware and give themselves space to exist.

Thank you for tuning in!

This is part 1 of the article, please read part 2 here...

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine feminine Energy - 6 Principles (part 5)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved.

This is part 5 of the article, to read part 4 click here...

The 5 principle of the divine feminine is being natural and authentic

Divine feminine is connected with element earth and water in their highest form. So, any woman is connected with all earth elements, even with elemental kingdom, fairies, forest nymphs, mermaids, water fairies and elves. Because of that she needs to connect with nature every day to gain her inner power. 

All things in nature - plants, flowers, trees, crystals, animals give a woman energy boost and enhance her feminine qualities. 

Women`s beauty is natural, it doesnt masks, it doesnt need pretence or validation. It needs realisation of its own power and magnetism. When a woman is natural she draws things to herself with ease, without trying hard. That means she is in the flow. 

Woman who is natural radiates innocence, purity and beauty. She doesnt need to pretend, to cover up her flaws. 

 People will know and feel when a woman is natural and authentic, when she radiates confidence without being arrogant. They can sense when woman is cold or distant, or when she is trying to “play games”. What you do is obvious in your aura, if you show your fake self, this is repelling. Honesty, together with calmness and softness is very attractive. Being authentic and honest does not mean being too direct or rude, or saying that “this is who I am”. Woman can be honest while also being soft and feminine.

Who you are as a woman is show by the way you behave, by the way you talk, by the way you walk, by your values and self-respect.

Women who are smoking, drinking alcohol, being addicted to substances, who are not taking care of their look, who are always in a rush, who are always tired...will attract exactly theses kind of men who match their frequency.

Also, women need to put self-care and self-love priority, but that doesnt equal expensive cosmetic or products full of harsh ingredients, or plastic surgeries to change your face. These things are on the surface, they can change part of your "programming", but they cant make your soul different. Whenever a woman protects nature, she will be protected by nature and earth too. 

Women who disrespect themselves, humiliate themselves, have low self esteem and no values, will attract exactly this kind of men. (You need to understand this and examine your past relationships. Ask yourself: What kind of men did I attract until this point?)

This is so obvious but many women don’t seem to see it.

How you behave with others and how you let others treat you tells everything.

If you are insecure and weak woman who doesn’t know her values and without boundaries, you will attract insecure men. (and this is what actually happens today.

We need to understand that very big part of women have forsaken themselves for just being “not alone” and sacrifice for a man, because they think he is the “only option”. This mindset is detrimental and lowers your value and self-esteem further more.

When you meet a man, or date observe him and ask yourself: What are his values and believes? How he treats me? Is he jealous and possessive? Does he act like a playboy? Does he show respect, does he pay the bill? All of these will show you much about the man.

6 principle of the divine feminine energy: Absence, creating space

One of the worst things woman can do in a relationship is to be too available, to be clingy and give the impression of pursuing. This is valid for all relationships. 

Constantly asking for attention, approval, being too available to a man, being jealous -all of these destroy your attractiveness and value.  Be the opposite – take time for yourself, make your special man miss you and approach you first. 

Don not be available, don’t reply too fast. Thats how you show you have priorities and values. 

Doing too much for a man signals your own insecurity and fear that you will lose him. And that men can sense perfectly. Thats why being detached and having your own life is very crucial for a relationship.

Woman needs to be like a flower that opens when the time is right and closes after, then opens again. A flower does not follow the bees to be pollinated, but the bees are going to flower.

In the same way women should just be in their beauty and glow and open up to receive.

As woman thrives when she is calm, relaxed and in her power, so she can give to others. Women are very different by temperament, like flowers have different scent and colour. Some can be more visible, confident, others can be shy, mysterious, introverted, soft, but all of them have the divine feminine energy which needs to be nurtured.

For all women these principles are valid, they will need time alone, time with other girl friends, time for self-care, nurturing, meditation, rest, spa, sleep, hobbies…

Only by having this special time of absence a woman can create space which is needed for the good balance of masculine and feminine energy.

Woman cant give from an empty cup.

Also, for many women who feel alone, or have fear of abandonment, remember that you don’t need to just be with any man, you don’t need to attract all men, but you need to attract the right one for you.

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell 

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026

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How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 Principles (Part 4)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved. 

       This is part 4, to read part 3 click here  ...

   The 4 principle to be in your divine feminine energy is to develop your intuition and psychic senses

Most women are psychic by nature, they are born with many amazing abilities and have higher senses. But the conditioning of the society and the false matrix has successfully destroyed their psychic abilities. They became totally separated from their power. Understand that intuition and connection with higher realms is a feminine power. Always listen to your intuition, but first connect with your Third eye and inner core and heart. 

By being too active, logical, restless, pursuing anything, you are losing your psychic senses and your feminine power. You abandon yourself. You need to have masculine energy, but make it balancing, not dominating your feminine. 

You can start to nurture this energy by having time alone, time in meditation or nature walking.

It may sound strange, but women doesn’t need to think too much, analyse much, as she becomes restless. She needs just to be in her power and attract without effort.

Its detrimental for a woman to think like: Does he love me? Why he didn’t send me message? What did I do wrong? Or to say: he is not so bad, finally he takes care of the children”, or “at least he is not violent towards me” ( !) That shows how much you have lower yourself.

Instead she needs to ask simple questions:

How do I feel with him? Do I feel valued, and respected?

- Do I feel myself in my energy of glow when I`m with him?

Does his words match his behaviour?

- What value does he add to my life?

For that she needs to use her intuition and discernment.

Connection between women and men is between not in the words but in the silence. How do you feel in this silence? Do you feel your true self? If not, you need to go away immediately.

5 Principle of the divine feminine is the power of slowing down, pause and rest  ♥

To be a woman is divine gift and divine power. To be slow is being in your power, to have time to connect with the void you need to slow down.

   All things in nature take time to grow and the process of growing a tree is very slow. This is exactly how divine feminine works. When you connect with element of earth, it gives you power of feminine energy.

You can create by attracting.

To be away from rushing and hustle of the world is feminine. To be present and feel your power is feminine. A woman connected to her feminine enegrgy feels calm, grounded, relaxed and undesturbed regardless of what happens around her, and regardless of the reactions of the masculine energy. She is always connected to the element of earth and water within herself. 

Some things that show anyone you have high value:

- When you dont always agree with a man

- When you dont always disagree or argue with him

- when you don’t always apologise or feel guilty

- when you don’t share too much about yourself

- when you do not share things that are too intimate

- when you dont give him what he wants right away, without effort

- when you dont give too much, don’t make sacrifices or put efforts to impress him;

- when you don’t respond to him immediately, but wait instead

- when you don’t reveal all your hidden sides or secrets, personal life

-  when you dont reveal your insecurities and weak points

- When you are kind, but not pleasing

- when you have boundaries and know your self worth

- when you stay calm and composed in any situation.

- when you are not demanding or accusing, but observe

- when you  let him always feel that you are a mystery

Thank you for tuning in!

This is part 4 of the article, for part 5 click here...

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 principles (Part 3)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved.

This is part 3 of the article, please read part 2 here...

        The 3 principle of divine feminine energy: self-love ♥

Woman who is self loving can only be a magnet of more love.

Self love is felt in your aura. When you love yourself in the first place before anyone else, this is attractive, this is feminine. Men feel this energy. When you don’t love yourself you radiate insecurity, fear and start to please others. This is unhealthy wounded feminine.

   And self-love is not equal to selfishness and egoism, just the opposite – egoism is seen when you are too controlling, jealous, or want too much for yourself. Self-love is pure divine feminine, it is quality of receiving for yourself, nurturing yourself, regardless of anyone elses opinion. 

Egoism comes from ego and the need to act, be seen, be aggressive. Self love comes from the heart and authentic self.

The women in today`s society struggles to attract not just love and healthy masculine protection, but also joy and abundance. Because they cant receive, they can not let go, they always feel lack” of something.

Feminine energy is enough in and of  itself. Even we always need the polarity to feel our difference. Relationships can be seen as different puzle pieces, which we try to match. 

Woman in her feminine energy is self-loving, because her priority is to take care of her energy every day. But self-love does not equal self-care, even it may include it. When you love yourself its about elevation of your energy, its about inner glow and the mystical attractiveness. Its about being totally assured and calm in yourself without seeking approval and validation from others.

If the man doesn’t appreciate you, this has nothing to do with who you are, it `s always about him. He is not at your level, he can be filled with insecurities, as many men these days suffer from damaged masculine energy. Therefore, you don’t need to be surprised if it takes time to attract the exact man who is match for your energy, who can be caring, devoted and protective. Who can give you the feminine glow that you need.

Pay attention that there are many men who have blocked masculine energy, especially in the chakras Solar Plexus, Root and Throat. That means, they have low self-esteem, they are not in their power, they don’t have positive values and behaviour about women, they don’t know how to communicate. Therefore, as a woman don’t blame yourself for anything that men is not able to do for you.

  Just the opposite, have higher standards and higher energy, don’t accept anything like its too much for you. 

Self-love is to take your time alone, to reflect on yourself, to be patient and present in the moment, to focus on your spiritual growth, to cultivate inner peace, to connect with your emotions, to nurture your inner child, to practice gratitude and journal, to have inner joy.

   And also, self-love is to understand deeply what do you want and why, to know why you choose a man to be with, to evaluate him and what he gives to your life.

When you love yourself you put your priorities and well being first. Not anyone else (and totally not your man). You can start to take care of your body, mind and soul, have a healthy food habits and regime, devote time for rest, sleep, meditation, add supplements to nourish yourself, play sport, do yoga, chi gong or any kind of body movement. This is how the divine feminine is more loving, grounded and attractive. Take care of your home, plants or animal, have things that nurture your soul as a woman – create art, write, play music, or develop your psychic connection with Tarot cards, crystals, meditation. All of these are divine feminine practices.

Woman can not give back love if her cup is not filled. She is strong and fragile at the same time, this is magnetic.

Thats why it is pitiful to see women who have unrequited love for someone. This is a self-pity in disguise. It is pity to see women who do all and sacrifice themselves for just a man.

Do not look up to men, but look up to yourself, you are the goddess.

Thank you for tuning in!

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Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine feminine Energy - 6 Principles (Part 2)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved. 

  ♥ This is part 2 of my article, to read part 1 click here...

  The divine feminine energy is connected with the power of womb, with the creation process, with the Cosmic egg, with the ocean of nothingness, with the black holes, with the space and stars. Feminine is eternal, cosmic, self-loving, expanding beyond all. 

If the sun is the provider of life (masculine) ,the moon and the dark space between the stars is expansion (feminine).

If you are a woman you should be familiar with the void and empty spaces. In our world that means to be familiar and comfortable to be alone with yourself, to be self-knowing.

(Because of the destruction and dismantling of the divine feminine energy from the dark powers, we have fake, primitive and very imbalanced relationships between men and women.

They are related to the dynamic of power, control, humiliation, violence, manipulation, playing games, cruelty…This is how unhealthy our relationships are at this time.

But if you dedicate time to work on your divine feminine energy and take her back, all things will shift gradually on the planet.

From the poisoned waters of fake “feminine” energy, there is suffering and unhealthy masculine. 

You can return back to your feminine power of softness and calmness by being in the present moment, placing boundaries and knowing your VALUE. This is the key to feminine energy.

Then you will be able to attract healthy masculine energy to provide and care for you.

                      Principle 2: Attract, don not chase  ★

Chasing and pursuing is the opposite of being magnetic. You are out of balance with your feminine energy if you pursue. When you chase someone you are saying to the universe that you are desperate to have him in your life.

But remember, the one thing all women are “desperate” about is not a man but the LOVE itself. Women in their healthy feminine energy needs feeling of love, protection, care, safety. 

If you feel you need only a specific man this is result of your mind programming and karmic lessons you have with exactly this person. At this level of reality most women need multiple karmic lessons, which are usually very painful. 

A man in their healthy masculine needs a WOMAN and her energy. Exactly because of her way to give him love, not to sacrifice herself for him.

   There is nothing more pitiful and ridiculous than a woman who is chasing a man, or obsessing over someone. Then she has lost her divine feminine and she has lost the game. She is able only to push away what she needs. 

         The 3 Principle of feminine energy : Letting go

   Let go of old wounds, offences, pains and scars, let go of heart brake, judgement of her, criticism, let go of the harsh reality, the need to be perfect, and mostly let go of need to “chase someone who you think you love. Let go of fear of being alone, of abandonment and embrace them instead. Let go of her ego (but not dignity), of someone else.

This is the way to healthy detachment, creating boundaries and being in your feminine power.

You need to master the art of letting go as a woman. In reality men struggle to let go even more – but women don’t realise that. They struggle more with obsession and why? Because a man feels and is attracted to energy through his physical senses mostly : seeing her, hearing her voice, touching her, smelling her scent...All of these are attributes of divine masculine. But feminine is higher psychic senses – so women actually needs the energy of Love, safety and protection more than a specific physical man. (and thats total true).

He needs her real presence through connection, dating, seeing her, listening to her, touching and intimacy...while the woman needs mostly his energy of providing and pursuing.

They are like two magnets that pull together from the opposite side.

But most women did not master the art of letting go. They are clinging so much to the person they feel is safe” and the right for them, that they become not attractive, repelling, and without dignity.

Then this is the way to lose their VALUE and self worth.

When you stop loving yourself, taking care of yourself in all levels, being in your feminine energy and receiving, then you become like “object” and can be easily humiliated and manipulated.

To be able to let go, first you need to know in yourself that you are already beautiful, unique, special and precious as you are now. No need to do anything or prove anything to anyone.

You are a prise and a jewel, you are the pearl that others desire.

And more – to let go and detach you need to work with your fears from the past, fear of being alone, being seen, being vulnerable, being strange, being abandoned…This is the first step to divine feminine.

Know that beauty is always internal and energetic, not external.

But what is on the inside is reflected in your physical presence.

Women who are too active, controlling, restless, in their masculine energy, over giving, without emotional connection, not calm, can not attract men. (or not healthy masculine men).

You need to know how to let go of people (places, situations, past drama), that don’t resonate with your own level of vibration, and who are not valuable to you.

So, don’t ask the question : do I love this man? Or how much do I love him? Better ask the question: what value this man brings to me? How he makes me feel? Do that for each person in your life who you actually know.

Moreover, a woman in her healthy feminine energy does not afraid of being alone or being abandoned. She is afraid more of losing herself, or losing her value. This is the drama of the woman.

But the man is afraid of losing the woman more.

If you are too pleasing, too available, submissive, sacrificing, over giving, active, then she loses her natural feminine magnetism.

She will lose her value.

So, one of the most important qualities of divine feminine is self-respect and self-worth.

This is shown in knowing your values, believes and principle, don’t letting anyone to cross your boundaries. (especially without consequences). Knowing your self-worth. Then you will be wanted and pursued.

Thank you for tuning in!

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Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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