The truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing (channeled message) ♥ part 3

 

This article is channeled message with the help of my angels and archangel Sandalphon about Obsession, longing and love. To understand the whole picture please read part 1 and part 2 first. 

                               ♥ Is obsession love?

This is very important question, which I can answer only as: yes and no. There are different kind of obsessions, most of them include deep feelings, emotions and love. Most obsessions can be mistaken for deep love, as they have many common elements. The problem is that obsession is more relevant to addiction and longing than to love. But that does not mean you can`t be obsessed and love in the same time. (Here comes the different between being “in love”, or sexually attracted by someone, and loving someone).

   🍦 You can read the article about addiction here...

  Obsession is complex feeling that can be triggered by emotional and psychological factors, trauma from the past (and past lives), and karmic relationships, emotional wounds and sub-conscious fears.

Also, obsession is related to intense thoughts and projections of emotions to you and from you to another person. The intensity creates energy vortex or spiral which can make it very hard to let go. 

    The feeling of obsession is related to desire to dominate and be close to (so you can be fulfilled), while love seeks more freedom, and need for reciprocity. In this way obsession is more equivalent to the masculine energy and men as they expand by dominion. (women expand by nurturing).

Obsession can have sense of restrained devotion”, being in love regardless of the object feelings or taboo, being fully committed to this person.

             Other important facts about this feeling:

1. it can increase and spiral by memories in your mind, by places and objects belonging to the other person. The person who is obsessed remembers everything related to his object of desire.

2. Obsession can be linked to feeling of lost love, trauma in love, or inability to be in a relationship. That creates level of distrust in yourself and your ability to be with person you want. That s why your mind will create loops with imagination and fantasies about the person you desire. (including sexual fantasies).

There can be mixed feelings to the object, as obsession and love are complex. For example, if you were in need of older brother in your childhood, who could take care of your, defend you and love you unconditionally, this feeling can be projected onto someone who fulfill these qualities, but then in your mind (subconscious) you mix the love to your imaginary brother” with romantic love. So, your object of obsession can be someone who is in state of taboo, but has the qualities of that “brother” you were in need in the past.

In a way, obsession can feel more like love, or more like addiction -depending on past experiences and trauma of the person.

                           ♥ Obsession, illusion and taboo

The feeling of obsession can be illusionary at its core, as its strong principles are longing for someone who is prohibited, impossible for you. It holds the patters of karmic loop and karmic lessons in relationship, and it always wants to reveal something about you and your mind. But obsession is not equal to illusion! Just it can have elements of illusion or delusion, as part of being in state of "hypnosis". 

    Obsession is also not random, but always related to something that you lack in your love, or something you have deep longing for.

The feelings of longing, desire, need, pain, lust, need for closeness, will be mixed with sense of guilt and shame (as person will wonder why he feels this to the forbidden object).

You need to pay attention to your heart and Sacral chakra -orange, as there can be energy cords from the other person.

Constant feeling of obsession will form an energy bond in the second chakra, which can become even a vortex of light, connecting you.

In this case you need to be careful about the object of obsession as the bond will take time to be removed (or it can stay constantly or for a long time).

Thank you for tuning in! 🍒

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

Tarot reader 

April 2026 ©

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The Truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 2

  

This article is part 2 of the channeled message about obsession, longing and taboo with the help of my angels and Arch. Sandalphon. ♥

                         Elements of obsession: 

1.  Longing, desire and strong attraction for someone who don`t belong to you or is unreachable. In many cases it is related to forbidden love, someone who is taboo.

2. Periods of silence and withrowl, in which the obsession becomes stronger and spirals -dissipates and starts again.

3. Constant need to imagine or be close to the object of desire.

(As this is rather painful experience, in most cases the person who is obsessed is attached to his pain, like in masochism).

4. Idealisation of the object of obsession.

5. The person can have uncontrollable thoughts and feelings of sexual desire to object of obsession. He can look at memories or have little objects (fetishes) of the person, like hair, clothes, photos or anything else.

             ♥ The principle of taboo and prohibition 

The obsession is ruled by the principle of the “forbidden fruit is the sweetest”, so the feeling is fuelled by the inability and prohibition to be close to the object of desire. That means, there is always a wall standing between the person and his object of obsession. If this wall is broken, the person who is obsessed can feel confused, vulnerable and don’t know how to react.

(Note that again even if it is painful and related to something forbidden, doesnt mean it is not love. Scenarios can be multiple.)

In other cases he may start a new spiral of obsession, as the object is still “prohibited” even looking closer.

                             ♥ Emotional projection

Another element of obsession is projection of the feelings and thoughts onto the object of obsession. In this point the person can start (sub-consciously) to send energy cords to his object and entangle his whole body, which will affect his energy. In such way the object of obsession may be open to these feelings and create the mirror effect, where he projects the same emotions back.

The object of desire can also feel the same feelings which are projected onto him, and accept it as his own. (That means, it is possible he is confused about his own feelings, and thinks the obsession belongs to him).

This is actually a fake “obsession” and it is called absorbtion”.

The person who is obsessed will have contradictions in his thoughts and behaviour, as he won`t have valid” explanation for his feelings.

In the next part I will look into the question is obsession love...

Read part 3 here ....

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

All rights are reserved

The truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 1

 

This article is a channeled message with the help of my guides and angels and archangel Sandalphon on the deep and controversial topic of obsession ,from angelic perspective. Note that this is not related to psychology, but it can include elements of it. 

                  ♥ What is romantic obsession?

Here I will observe the basic elements of obsession and how it can be defined, although there is not one way of interpretation.

Obsession is a strong feeling of longing and desire to be closer to someone, or “possess” someone who is in a way restricted, far from you, or taboo. The feeling of longing and desire for someone who is impossible to have is called “limerance” as term in psychology.

You believe this person, who I will call “object of desire” or obsession, can`t be completely yours.

Here are some very specific details about obsession *

- The feeling of longing in obsession seems constant, it can increase or decrease in intensity and may go in spirals.

- The feeling of obsession is not fading even without connection to the object of desire

- You have fantasies and day dreaming about the person which gives you pleasure

Romantic obsession can feel strong exactly because its permanent, unwilling to remove from the object of desire and adds fantasies about him.

Moreover, there can be an emotional trap in obsession, because the desire will increase by the impossibility to be with the person. That creates emotional craving and loop.

                        ♥  What is at the core of obsession?

At the core of almost all obsessions to a person is unfulfilled soul realization, desire for expansion, a childhood emotional trauma and/ or past life relationship which was not closed, past life that you have experienced strong bond, intense love and emotions.

Obsession is linked but not entirely, to the painful experiences in your relationships, dissatisfaction and something missing. This is longing to be expanded and fulfilled with the object of desire, as he possess something that you desperately need (at this time).

If you find out that a person has the qualities and gives you feelings that you were needing (consciously or sub-consciously), then you imagine that only this person can fullfill the need. From this moment your mind is able to create energetic cords with the mind of the other person. In this way you will be connected more strongly with your mind, and could have even telepathy and empathy for each other.

(That means you can feel what he feels too, as you become a mirror of each other. If he is in pain or feels desire, longing, need to be with you, you will feel it. But the time frame here can be different. )

There are different kind of romantic obsessions – the most important to understand is that they can be reciprocated (mirrored back), or not.

When you feel obsession for someone who you know is in a state of taboo or restriction, this makes the obsession “isolated” and spiralling within itself.

Any obsession can be connected with feelings of emotional attachment, addiction, memories and fantasies, sensual fantasies, desire for closeness, which can trigger fetishism or masochistic tendencies in the person at one point. 

  Obsession is triggered by the position of the object as “taboo”, forbidden, unreachable, in state of impossibility, or being behind the closed door. This is quite important to understand.

The person who is obsessed is almost in painful bliss, blindness or romantic hypnosis, which he likes and indulges in.

Pay attention that the fact someone is obsessed doesnt mean he is not also deeply in love or hasnt romantic feelings. Just at some point the inense feeling of longing when they dont reach fulfillment (permission), or remain hidden, then obsession is created. 

(Example of such kind of obsessions can be: student and teacher, member of the family, like cousin, anyone who is social or family taboo, colleague, person who is married…)

When this obsession become constant the person feels like he can`t live without the state of hypnosis, as it opens the door for pleasure on emotional and then physical level. This pleasure is like a loop of addiction to someone, but it is felt like energy dissonance which pulls you in direction to something in order to fill in a space of void within yourself. 

Please continue to read part 2 here > 

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

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Heart chakra - center of Healing (Overview)

 

Heart chakra, in Sanscrit Anahata is a as glowing emerald green sphere in the area of your Heart. Its ethereal stamp (star) is 6 pointed star – Hexagram in golden and pink light. It`s expression of Higher love and healing. This is the main chakra generator of energy of the whole body –it heals and synchronises the energy of all other chakras. Anahata is expression of Divine principles of Love, compassion, forgiveness and healing on higher level. ★

 

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-        Colour vibration is emerald green/ pastel pink

★       Opening mantra: Yang

-        Responsible for: Love, self-love, healing, compassion

★       Connects with: all living beings, nature, trees, people you love, fairies and tree spirits, angels

★       Physical imprints in 3D: plants, trees, garden, crystals, abundance

-        Negative imprints when blocked: hatred, fear to love, distrust, unforgiveness, cruelty, suppressed emotions, depression

★       Realizing trauma or negative cords from a relationship –control, jealousy, abuse, and how you react to it.

-        Energy in the higher levels: angels, faeries, mermaids, spirits

★        Karma cleansing: Karma in relationships, people you love

-        How to heal: Meditation, walk in nature, gardening, connecting with angels, faeries, yoga, doing what you love, taking care of others, outdoor activities, swimming, jogging, giving and receiving gifts, playing, sea, water viewing.  

★       Archangel to call on: Raphael, Chamuel, guardian angels

-        Crystals: emerald 444, green quartz, green jade, malachite, green aventurine, green fluorite, pink quartz, pink opal, kunzite, rhodochrosite, mangano calcite, morganite.

★        In human body it relates to: Heart, veins, skin, arteries, blood flow.

-        Essential oils: rose, lavender, chamomile, neroli, melisa, eucalypt, geranium, palmarosa

★     Divine quality: Love, trust, care, compassion, healing, recognising emotions

-        Sephira: Chesed/ Loving Kindness

★        Opening by: Yoga, breathing exercise, walking in nature, music, doing what you are passionate, gardening, animal care

-        Feng shui and home energy: The heart and the sector of Health and abundance is in the East direction of your home; You can place here green plants, green candles, green crystals, emerald, malachite, sphere of rose quartz, green jade, books about health, green or pink mandala, nature landscape, picture of flowers, mountain view...

★        Sacred Geometry: six pointed star in pink light in golden circle

-        On ethereal levels cleanse: lungs, air in the body, cells of heart and lungs, Thymus gland

★       Emotional imprint: love, gratitude, forgiveness to: all people in the past, people you have loved, people you didn’t love.

-        Affirmation: I am love, I give and receive love. I`m a powerful healer and unique being of Light.

★       Mantra: I know how to give and receive love. I love myself and I love others unconditionally.

 

                               image - art by Nicoletta Ceccoli

     Heart chakra is one of the main energy centres within the body, which gives us intuitive messages from nature, elementals world, angels and archangels; we connect to our Divine soul imprint. Anahata is connected to the Astral body – that travels, flies and wanders in the non-physical realities during the time of sleep or meditation. This beautiful chakra makes the connection, balances and aligns all other chakras below and above it as they spin in the right direction. All chakras in the body are aligned to the spinning of Anahata and the Crown chakra, therefore the condition of these main centres is quite important.

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Nina Lea-Nour ©
Angel`S Medium 

Sept. 2022 ★

 

Message from arch. Chamuel for the Ascension -07.01

 

Greeting children of Earth and Light,

We are so happy to be here and assist you as you go through the multiple layers to the 5D plane. We are happy to see all beautiful souls and straseeds awakening in this time on earth.

The Earth is now gradually integrating the new vibration of 5D reality and higher frequencies. You need to be aware that happens in multiple stages, not at once. Because you need to accept, to be open and willing, to give time for the new Cellular upgrade in your bodies (physical and energy). You are chosen to be here now, and you chose it by yourself also. The higher frequencies will need time to be anchored, as you are now (specially in these months January and February), receiving the light codes of higher Dimensions.

You need to be aware that is not an easy process, sometimes it can be painful as you are purging and releasing old energy from your soul and body. For many people it may feel very uncomfortable, painful, related to fear and resistance.

But you don’t need to resist this change, it is happening for your highest Good.

Be open to the downloads of the amazing healing light from the Source. All angels and galactic beings are supporting you now. You need to be prepared for this healing. You should release and get rid of all past wounds, all past expectations, all traumas, all attachments in the 3D world – to whatever it is. Because now you will live and thrive in a totally different upgraded system in your body.

Yes, you will still experience and live in the 3D reality, but you will know what is true and what is false. You will be aware of the fake agenda, fake people, masks and people with implants, as they exist.

The most important things now you need to be aware of are your Feelings and emotions: your fear, anxiety, depression. They need to be acknowledged so to serve their purpose.

Many souls are now starting to move and awaken. They will be even more later in 2022. But it may seem at times like moving against the flow. When you are totally open to heal your emotions, and soul, then your will be ready to let go of fear, which has imprints deeply in your system (energy).

(The Power and social order on Earth was designed to create fear, to implant fear in all structures. Why do you wonder?)

Only when you release fear completely you will be able to heal your physical body and mind. 

Be sure to take care of your physical shell –your body, as it is holder for your Soul. Get enough sleep, rest, meditate, be in nature, drink clean water, turn attention to your emotions, exercise, breath. All of these will give you amazing gifts in the future. Now is your time!

 

With love and pink light codes,

Archangel Chamuel 

channeled by 

© Nina Lea-Nour 🟊
 Angel`s medium 

Faeries guide 

Archangel Michael Channelled message - for the Full moon (October)

 [ message is encoded with Light of arch. Michael  ✪] 

Dear children of Earth,

We want to send you greetings, love and congratulate you for going so far on your journey of Ascension. 

     Now we are riding the 3 wave of awakening on the planet. The energy that you may feel in this time may be in 2 different directions – unconditional love, receiving guidance from higher realms, feeling your real purpose and passion; and from another side there is much of the energy of fear, anxiety, resistance, tiredness, feeling emptiness in your heart, not being able to find strength. Now is the time when these polarities will increase within you and in the world as collective.

     Pay attention that to feel these 2 polarities is part of the process and it`s quite normal. In order to release negative emotions, fear and be resistant you need to feel it. In order for the Light to prevail it needs to meet the darkness. In order for us to strive for the Light, we need to go through the dark tunnels of lower realities.

Know that you are always loved and protected and you have our support, if you open your heart to receive it.

I, Archangel Michael am sending you influxes of Blue and Purple light in this Ascension to help you to integrate your higher Self to the higher dimensions. We are now in the NEW reality. The speed will become faster, as you may feel. That’s not just “in your mind”, that is real – as the magnetic field was changed and you made the shift, you may feel your chakras spinning faster. There will be changes in your chakra system, they may have different patterns, become more expanded and filled with light.

You will know that, if you are a Light worker. Be sure that this is a process and don’t be hard on yourself in this time. Give your physical and energy body respect with all needed – good food, supplements, exercises and walking in nature.

We are divided in many ways on the planet now, but we need that. Humans purpose is not to be united, but to find unity in the waves of polarization, to find love in the waves of chaos and fear, to find balance in the world of limiting believes.

Therefore, don’t be afraid to face conflict, don’t be afraid to speak your truth. There is no problem in conflict, because it gives you clarity where you stand and shows others who you are. Don’t restrain from standing in your power by speaking up. Even if that causes a negative reaction, that is fine. Because we should find our soul family and soul mates by feeling the reaction and voice of others. If you are silent and closed up, you cant expect others to understand you. So, I encourage you to be bold, with kindness, and stand your ground.

I encircle you with spheres of blue and purple light of protection, with love.

 

Archangel Michael

channelled by 
Nina Lea-Nour

Angel`s medium 

Faeries guide

© Oct. 2021

Archangel Ariel Channelled message - Stay in your Authentic Power!

 

From 11 September I was guided to meditate with arch. Ariel and Pink and golden light of abundance and self-love. ✪

If you need to know more about how to create Abundance, please read my article here What is Abundance -I

Archangel Ariel is Angel of bliss, joy, abundance and self-love, also she is known as angel of manifestation of your desires. But no matter how much you pray, or meditate or make rituals for abundance, it wont happen if you are not aligned and true to your heart.

So I channel a message with pink light codes of archangel Ariel for everyone who feel drawn to read it. ✪ ✪

Dear children of Earth & Light,

We are happy and delighted to assist you with your Ascension process on earth. Please let go and release all negative and old patterns –they are not serving you anymore. They are not who you are. First of all remember who you really are, that means connect with your authentic true self. Not with the image that others want you to be, not something that is a mask or illusion, this is a lie to yourself. ✪ ✪

You need to be authentic, so the first thing to do is: 1. follow your hearts desire. Ask yourself what you love to do? What are you passions, what is your life mission and most valuable things for you? That is what matters most. Not the drama of someone who is insignificant on your path, but maybe like a torn in your feet. You cant ignore him. So stand your ground, feel your power, and USE your power in the proper moment. ✪

What is the need of a golden keys, if you have them, but you can`t use them? What is the use of fresh fruits on your table, if you don’t eat them with pleasure and nourish your body?

It`s the same with power, which is also your passion, your truth, your authenticity. You are here to act, to create, to do wonders. Not to follow the path or ides of others, not to fit into someone else expectations. You are here to love your life and enjoy it, and be sure you are unique, you are not just being that is put in chain and controlled by monsters of power.

That’s why, you need to be authentic. Then be loving, be receptive, be filled with self-love. There is no need to push yourself to do anything you don’t want! That’s in the old patterns that are covered with spider nets on energy level. ✪ ✪

Release your fears of darkness, or fears of failure, or fear of being alone, or to not succeed. You are already powerful.

But only if you acknowledge your light, if you want to share your Light with the world.

Also remember – you are not here to live for someone else, you are not here to please others.  ✪ ✪ 

(Ariel was holding a brilliant pink rose that has thorns).

See, you are this rose, hold your rose higher, as you are beautiful, as you are. The rose needs its thorns to defend from unwanted creatures that would be harmful. If not anyone could come to pick up the rose and it wont survive.

Why do you want to be rose without thorns? You need to have defence, you should not be afraid of your thorns, as they are part of you. They help you to stand strong, and protect you with armour. You are beautiful, but you are also a warrior, a goddess or god. (as your inner goddess is creator).

The 3 thing to know when you want to step in your power – love yourself. When you love yourself first, you honour the power you have, you feel your Value is unlimited high. So don’t give your power to other people by all means. (As Jeshua have said:)

Realizing your endless value and having self-love is the key for miracles in your life. Then your will thrive, then you will manifest anything.

Always in any challenging situation ask yourself: What I` m here to do, what is my mission? What I really want to focus on? 

Sending you Pink Light codes and blessings of Love. 

Archangel Ariel 

Channeled by 

Nina Lea-Nour ဢ
Angel`s medium ഌ
Faeries Guidance 

© Sept. 2021

Full Moon in Scorpio -Portal of violet lotus [27]

 

 ✪  Energy of Scorpio moon brings high sensitivity, intuition and clairvoyance. The theme of this powerful Moon portal is love, emotions, relationships, spiritual connection and what we need to let go.

This energy comes with sparkling indigo and violet colours, opening and infusing your Third eye, and right hemisphere of the brain.

In this full moon you may have special signs, dreams and visions, given as angelic guidance.

 

Exercise: Try to acknowledge your feelings and reactions with different people and different situations. Write in a journal how do you feel in certain event, or how someone makes you feel and why?

The energy of this Full moon invites you to cleanse your aura, heart and mind, to let go of the past, and specially of past emotional wounds.

     It`s suitable time for connecting with your Divine feminine, meditation for cords cutting, past lives, and astral travel. Connect with angels of Astral plane, archangel Haniel and Muriel; the focus is inward to self.

This energy is not suitable for: starting new work, signing contracts, movement and changes or investing money in something big.

Take care of water in your body, your Sacral chakra, Third eye, kidneys, ovaries, womb, or pelvis.

Now is the perfect time for rituals for cleansing and nourishment of body, self love and wellness; take any method to enhance your feminine power –by taking bath with sea salt, or walking near river, lake or sea shore.

Moon in Scorpio releasing ✪

This moon will help you to release, cleanse and let go of fears and opening psychic abilities, clairvoyance, intuition and connection to Astral levels. There is –profound psychic awareness, opening of Third eye chakra, clarity of mind; Letting go of old wounds in love and relationships of past and present, cord cutting with people from past.

    The date of the moon is on 27 [9] in Kabbalah tree of life, corresponds to Sefira Yesod [Foundation] and to human sexual organs (womb). It refers to connecting with outer realties, creating something, and new beginning. As it`s in Sefer Yetzira: “The end is enwedged in the beginning, and the beginning in the end”. (inner.org) The spiritual state of this Sefira is one of emet (truth), to achieve true self-fulfilment in life.

Archangel to call on in this moon is Jeremiel, Raziel

Crystals: tanzanite, lapis lazuli

Healing plants: blue, white lotus

Thank you for tuning in! ✪

Nina Lea-Nour ❂
Angel`s medium 
© Apr. 26-21

Sun in Taurus sign - 20.April (Green, Diet, Health)

 

   Sun in Taurus awakens our desire to be connected with the Earth, to feel more stable, secure, to make certain changes and cleaning of home; to pay attention to your body, healthy diet and exercises in open air. Special attention in this energy is food and diet. Earth element tends to have some heaviness and culinary skills; they like to eat delicious foods, sometimes tend to forget fruits in their daily diet. That’s why in this season angels encourage you to eat more healthy fruits and vitamins and exercise, have walks outside in nature.

    ✪  With this season of Taurus energy we are invited to heal, and take care of our healthy habits. The qualities we need to activate and use are persistency, organization, self-discipline, acceptance. Practices that will help you very much to achieve what you want are: meditation for grounding and meditation for gratitude with arch. Ariel. This is perfect time to add more green vegetables and green fruits to your diet! (like lettuce, cucumber, avocado, spinach, broccoli).

      Use some plants and herbs in your daily routine to cleanse and detoxify, or flower essences. Crystals of Taurus that will help you to uplift and rejuvenate are: malachite, jade, green moss agate, emerald. All beautiful green colours are very nice with this energy of nature healing.

Now is the time also to plant some seeds – of real plants or of something you want to achieve in the future.

Wear green accessories, cardigans, bracelets or jewellery to accelerate the energy of Earth.

Chakras: Heart, you can work on your back, muscles, bones flexibility. Specially make exercises for back pain and arms, as now is time for you to gain strength and remove stagnant energy.

    ✪ Tarot card corresponding of Taurus from Major arcana is V. The Hierophant (High Priest), this is teacher and mentor, and religious leader, who holds the keys to success, knowledge and new ways.

 Say the following affirmation of Hierophant each morning, to be integrated with the energy:

I m connected with others, I learn new lessons every day. I m guide and spiritual teacher, filled with respect, self-discipline and persistency. I know what my goal is and how to achieve it in long term. I read, write, create and gain higher knowledge. I receive Divine inspiration.

 The court card representing Taurus is Knight of Pentacles: don’t forget success will come with persistency, hard work and focus in one direction.

      ✪ Earth element is related to home, money management, material possessions, home decoration; family and children, as well as healing and boundaries. Pay attention to this aspects of life. Indulge in making delicious meal, experiment and feel joy in tasting something new.

Thank you for tuning in! ✪

Nina Lea-Nour ✪
Angel`s medium 

© Apr. 18-2021