This article is part 2 of the channeled message about obsession, longing and taboo with the help of my angels and Arch. Sandalphon. ♥
Elements of obsession:
1. Longing, desire and strong attraction for someone who don`t belong to you or is unreachable. In many cases it is related to forbidden love, someone who is taboo.
2. Periods of silence and withrowl, in which the obsession becomes stronger and spirals -dissipates and starts again.
3. Constant need to imagine or be close to the object of desire.
(As this is rather painful experience, in most cases the person who is obsessed is attached to his pain, like in masochism).
4. Idealisation of the object of obsession.
5. The person can have uncontrollable thoughts and feelings of sexual desire to object of obsession. He can look at memories or have little objects (fetishes) of the person, like hair, clothes, photos or anything else.
♥ The principle of taboo and prohibition
The obsession is ruled by the principle of the “forbidden fruit is the sweetest”, so the feeling is fuelled by the inability and prohibition to be close to the object of desire. That means, there is always a wall standing between the person and his object of obsession. If this wall is broken, the person who is obsessed can feel confused, vulnerable and don’t know how to react.
(Note that again even if it is painful and related to something forbidden, doesnt mean it is not love. Scenarios can be multiple.)
In other cases he may start a new spiral of obsession, as the object is still “prohibited” even looking closer.
♥ Emotional projection
Another element of obsession is projection of the feelings and thoughts onto the object of obsession. In this point the person can start (sub-consciously) to send energy cords to his object and entangle his whole body, which will affect his energy. In such way the object of obsession may be open to these feelings and create the mirror effect, where he projects the same emotions back.
The object of desire can also feel the same feelings which are projected onto him, and accept it as his own. (That means, it is possible he is confused about his own feelings, and thinks the obsession belongs to him).
This is actually a fake “obsession” and it is called absorbtion”.
The person who is obsessed will have contradictions in his thoughts and behaviour, as he won`t have valid” explanation for his feelings.
In the next part I will look into the question is obsession love...
Read part 3 here ....
Nina Nour Bluebell ©
medium, psychic, healer
April 2026
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