The Truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 2

  

This article is part 2 of the channeled message about obsession, longing and taboo with the help of my angels and Arch. Sandalphon. ♥

                         Elements of obsession: 

1.  Longing, desire and strong attraction for someone who don`t belong to you or is unreachable. In many cases it is related to forbidden love, someone who is taboo.

2. Periods of silence and withrowl, in which the obsession becomes stronger and spirals -dissipates and starts again.

3. Constant need to imagine or be close to the object of desire.

(As this is rather painful experience, in most cases the person who is obsessed is attached to his pain, like in masochism).

4. Idealisation of the object of obsession.

5. The person can have uncontrollable thoughts and feelings of sexual desire to object of obsession. He can look at memories or have little objects (fetishes) of the person, like hair, clothes, photos or anything else.

             ♥ The principle of taboo and prohibition 

The obsession is ruled by the principle of the “forbidden fruit is the sweetest”, so the feeling is fuelled by the inability and prohibition to be close to the object of desire. That means, there is always a wall standing between the person and his object of obsession. If this wall is broken, the person who is obsessed can feel confused, vulnerable and don’t know how to react.

(Note that again even if it is painful and related to something forbidden, doesnt mean it is not love. Scenarios can be multiple.)

In other cases he may start a new spiral of obsession, as the object is still “prohibited” even looking closer.

                             ♥ Emotional projection

Another element of obsession is projection of the feelings and thoughts onto the object of obsession. In this point the person can start (sub-consciously) to send energy cords to his object and entangle his whole body, which will affect his energy. In such way the object of obsession may be open to these feelings and create the mirror effect, where he projects the same emotions back.

The object of desire can also feel the same feelings which are projected onto him, and accept it as his own. (That means, it is possible he is confused about his own feelings, and thinks the obsession belongs to him).

This is actually a fake “obsession” and it is called absorbtion”.

The person who is obsessed will have contradictions in his thoughts and behaviour, as he won`t have valid” explanation for his feelings.

In the next part I will look into the question is obsession love...

Read part 3 here ....

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

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The truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 1

 

This article is a channeled message with the help of my guides and angels and archangel Sandalphon on the deep and controversial topic of obsession ,from angelic perspective. Note that this is not related to psychology, but it can include elements of it. 

                  ♥ What is romantic obsession?

Here I will observe the basic elements of obsession and how it can be defined, although there is not one way of interpretation.

Obsession is a strong feeling of longing and desire to be closer to someone, or “possess” someone who is in a way restricted, far from you, or taboo. The feeling of longing and desire for someone who is impossible to have is called “limerance” as term in psychology.

You believe this person, who I will call “object of desire” or obsession, can`t be completely yours.

Here are some very specific details about obsession *

- The feeling of longing in obsession seems constant, it can increase or decrease in intensity and may go in spirals.

- The feeling of obsession is not fading even without connection to the object of desire

- You have fantasies and day dreaming about the person which gives you pleasure

Romantic obsession can feel strong exactly because its permanent, unwilling to remove from the object of desire and adds fantasies about him.

Moreover, there can be an emotional trap in obsession, because the desire will increase by the impossibility to be with the person. That creates emotional craving and loop.

                        ♥  What is at the core of obsession?

At the core of almost all obsessions to a person is unfulfilled soul realization, desire for expansion, a childhood emotional trauma and/ or past life relationship which was not closed, past life that you have experienced strong bond, intense love and emotions.

Obsession is linked but not entirely, to the painful experiences in your relationships, dissatisfaction and something missing. This is longing to be expanded and fulfilled with the object of desire, as he possess something that you desperately need (at this time).

If you find out that a person has the qualities and gives you feelings that you were needing (consciously or sub-consciously), then you imagine that only this person can fullfill the need. From this moment your mind is able to create energetic cords with the mind of the other person. In this way you will be connected more strongly with your mind, and could have even telepathy and empathy for each other.

(That means you can feel what he feels too, as you become a mirror of each other. If he is in pain or feels desire, longing, need to be with you, you will feel it. But the time frame here can be different. )

There are different kind of romantic obsessions – the most important to understand is that they can be reciprocated (mirrored back), or not.

When you feel obsession for someone who you know is in a state of taboo or restriction, this makes the obsession “isolated” and spiralling within itself.

Any obsession can be connected with feelings of emotional attachment, addiction, memories and fantasies, sensual fantasies, desire for closeness, which can trigger fetishism or masochistic tendencies in the person at one point. 

  Obsession is triggered by the position of the object as “taboo”, forbidden, unreachable, in state of impossibility, or being behind the closed door. This is quite important to understand.

The person who is obsessed is almost in painful bliss, blindness or romantic hypnosis, which he likes and indulges in.

Pay attention that the fact someone is obsessed doesnt mean he is not also deeply in love or hasnt romantic feelings. Just at some point the inense feeling of longing when they dont reach fulfillment (permission), or remain hidden, then obsession is created. 

(Example of such kind of obsessions can be: student and teacher, member of the family, like cousin, anyone who is social or family taboo, colleague, person who is married…)

When this obsession become constant the person feels like he can`t live without the state of hypnosis, as it opens the door for pleasure on emotional and then physical level. This pleasure is like a loop of addiction to someone, but it is felt like energy dissonance which pulls you in direction to something in order to fill in a space of void within yourself. 

Please continue to read part 2 here > 

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

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