This article is a channeled message with the help of my guides and angels and archangel Sandalphon on the deep and controversial topic of obsession ,from angelic perspective. Note that this is not related to psychology, but it can include elements of it.
♥ What is romantic obsession?
Here I will observe the basic elements of obsession and how it can be defined, although there is not one way of interpretation.
Obsession is a strong feeling of longing and desire to be closer to someone, or “possess” someone who is in a way restricted, far from you, or taboo. The feeling of longing and desire for someone who is impossible to have is called “limerance” as term in psychology.
You believe this person, who I will call “object of desire” or obsession, can`t be completely yours.
Here are some very specific details about obsession *
- The feeling of longing in obsession seems constant, it can increase or decrease in intensity and may go in spirals.
- The feeling of obsession is not fading even without connection to the object of desire
- You have fantasies and day dreaming about the person which gives you pleasure
Romantic obsession can feel strong exactly because its permanent, unwilling to remove from the object of desire and adds fantasies about him.
Moreover, there can be an emotional trap in obsession, because the desire will increase by the impossibility to be with the person. That creates emotional craving and loop.
♥ What is at the core of obsession?
At the core of almost all obsessions to a person is unfulfilled soul realization, desire for expansion, a childhood emotional trauma and/ or past life relationship which was not closed, past life that you have experienced strong bond, intense love and emotions.
Obsession is linked but not entirely, to the painful experiences in your relationships, dissatisfaction and something missing. This is longing to be expanded and fulfilled with the object of desire, as he possess something that you desperately need (at this time).
If you find out that a person has the qualities and gives you feelings that you were in need (consciously or sub-consciously), then you imagine that this person only can fullfill this need. From this moment your mind is able to create energetic cords with the mind of the other person. In this way you will be connected more strongly by mind, could have even telepathy and strong empathy for each other.
(That means you can feel what he feels too, as you become a mirror of each other).
There are different kinds of romantic obsessions – the most important to understand that it can be reciprocated (mirrored back), or not.
When you feel obsession for someone who you know is in a state of taboo or restriction, this makes the obsession “isolated” and spiralling within itself.
Any obsession can be connected with feelings of emotional attachment, addiction, memories and fantasies, sensual fantasies, desire for closeness, which can trigger fetishism or masochistic tendencies in the person at one point.
Obsession is triggered by the position of the object as “taboo”, forbidden, unreachable, in state of impossibility. This is quite important to understand.
The person who is obsessed is almost in painful bliss, blindness or romantic hypnosis, which he likes and indulge in it.
Pay attention that the fact someone is obsessed doesnt mean he is not also deeply in love or has romantic feelings. Just at some point the inense feeling of longing when they dont reach fulfillment (permission), or remain hidden, then obsession is created.
(Example of such kind of obsessions can be: student and teacher, member of the family, like cousin, anyone who is social or family taboo, colleague, person who is married…)
When this obsession become constant the person feel like he can`t live without the state of hypnosis, as it opens the door for pleasure on emotional and then physical level.
You can read part 2 here >
Nina Nour Bluebell ©
medium, psychic, healer
April 2026
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