This article is channeled message with the help of my angels and archangel Sandalphon about Obsession, longing and love. To understand the whole picture please read part 1 and part 2 first.
♥ Is obsession love?
This is very important question, which I can answer only as: yes and no. There are different kind of obsessions, most of them include deep feelings, emotions and love. Most obsessions can be mistaken for deep love, as they have many common elements. The problem is that obsession is more relevant to addiction and longing than to love. But that does not mean you can`t be obsessed and love in the same time. (Here comes the different between being “in love”, or sexually attracted by someone, and loving someone).
🍦 You can read the article about addiction here...
Obsession is complex feeling that can be triggered by emotional and psychological factors, trauma from the past (and past lives), and karmic relationships, emotional wounds and sub-conscious fears.
Also, obsession is related to intense thoughts and projections of emotions to you and from you to another person. The intensity creates energy vortex or spiral which can make it very hard to let go.
The feeling of obsession is related to desire to dominate and be close to (so you can be fulfilled), while love seeks more freedom, and need for reciprocity. In this way obsession is more equivalent to the masculine energy and men as they expand by dominion. (women expand by nurturing).
Obsession can have sense of restrained devotion”, being in love regardless of the object feelings or taboo, being fully committed to this person.
Other important facts about this feeling:
1. it can increase and spiral by memories in your mind, by places and objects belonging to the other person. The person who is obsessed remembers everything related to his object of desire.
2. Obsession can be linked to feeling of lost love, trauma in love, or inability to be in a relationship. That creates level of distrust in yourself and your ability to be with person you want. That s why your mind will create loops with imagination and fantasies about the person you desire. (including sexual fantasies).
There can be mixed feelings to the object, as obsession and love are complex. For example, if you were in need of older brother in your childhood, who could take care of your, defend you and love you unconditionally, this feeling can be projected onto someone who fulfill these qualities, but then in your mind (subconscious) you mix the love to your imaginary brother” with romantic love. So, your object of obsession can be someone who is in state of taboo, but has the qualities of that “brother” you were in need in the past.
In a way, obsession can feel more like love, or more like addiction -depending on past experiences and trauma of the person.
♥ Obsession, illusion and taboo
The feeling of obsession can be illusionary at its core, as its strong principles are longing for someone who is prohibited, impossible for you. It holds the patters of karmic loop and karmic lessons in relationship, and it always wants to reveal something about you and your mind. But obsession is not equal to illusion! Just it can have elements of illusion or delusion, as part of being in state of "hypnosis".
Obsession is also not random, but always related to something that you lack in your love, or something you have deep longing for.
The feelings of longing, desire, need, pain, lust, need for closeness, will be mixed with sense of guilt and shame (as person will wonder why he feels this to the forbidden object).
You need to pay attention to your heart and Sacral chakra -orange, as there can be energy cords from the other person.
Constant feeling of obsession will form an energy bond in the second chakra, which can become even a vortex of light, connecting you.
In this case you need to be careful about the object of obsession as the bond will take time to be removed (or it can stay constantly or for a long time).
Thank you for tuning in! 🍒
Nina Nour Bluebell ©
medium, psychic, healer
Tarot reader
April 2026 ©
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