Observation on Page of Cups (T.Portions -XV)

Page of Cups *

Dreaming way Tarot

It reflects the pure feminine energy of Water element (Cups), meaning:

-        connect your inner child with divine Love, self-love;

-        feeling attractive and loved, admired

-        longing for love, romance and sharing

-        new friendships

-        emotional sharing, closeness

-        Inspiration and psychic opening

-        Clairvoyance, clairaudience, intuition

-        Expressing freely your emotions

-        Journey to a place near the sea of water

-        Feeling self-sufficient, enjoying being alone

-        Cut ties with old relationships, emotional freedom

-        Beginning of a new friendship or relationship 

Pages can mean also freedom, quest and spiritual journey, that you are travelling alone. They can also indicate finding a true friend or a soul mate with that qualities. It is reflection of Self, introvert and focus inward.

Nina Lea-Nour *

Angel`s Medium

Reiki master

Intiutive 

Finding your Soul mate - Puzzles -I

   In this article I`ll observe some of the simple mechanics how you can find person from your soul group, how to recognize them? What are the roles of the relationship players? What you can do to avoid energy attachments and Karmic debt? What is the dynamic of attraction in the relationships?

I.             Is it spiritual truth that the partner you attract has the same qualities of you in the present moment?

    The first question is quite important as it is well spread in spiritual circles and transpersonal psychology. What do you think? Is it truth that the partner you attract mirror the same qualities that you have? This is complex topic, so the answer to this question is not one-sided. Yes and No. First of all here we need to understand – people are unique and have unique Spirit stamp in their energy. That’s why no one can mirror exactly the same qualities that you have.

      What each relationship (friend, soul mate) reveals are different aspects of your Self in your souls Journey. In this sense, the desire to know and meet another stems from the desire to understand, meet and reflect on different aspects of your own soul (taken in progression of Past-Present-Future).

Something we need to feel and understand deeply is that we are already COMPLETE beings. No part is missing (or should be found in another). We don’t need to stick to a person in order to be complete. No any other reflection can make us more whole, or more fragmented. What we need is to dive into our inner world and to seek aspects of ourselves, including in our sub-consciousness.

The relationship and commitment play” are related to inner work, awakening and higher awareness of the world around.

Similar to travel and return, meeting different souls and being in relationships helps us in process of personal growth and expansion.

A relationship, that is an intimate bound between two souls will reveal hidden aspects of our Selves and our spiritual mission here.

II.           What are the basic aspects to look for when you have relationship with someone? Why do you attract specially this person?

      Some of the main things to be aware in relationship, is that it is like a puzzle game. Your partner could be a missing puzzle piece to complete you, but he will complete just one (or two) particular side of you. No piece of puzzle can be fixed totally just from one side or one relationship. That’s exactly the situation with humans. That’s why during our life journey we have many relationships, including with family, children, friends, soul mates, intimate. We cant find all aspects that we need for our soul only in one puzzle piece, only in one relationship. Here I want to clarify what kind of special aspects we can expect to find or what are different combinations when we speak about love relationships.

-          Sometimes we can attract person who represents our fears in that moment. That has the aim to feel what we fear, to realize them and work on eliminating our hidden fears, through the presence of another. In this case presence will be felt as sharp or harsh.

-          Sometimes we are attracted to person, who reflects our desires and inner wishes to fulfil in reality. That’s one very positive and light aspect of another. Then we can feel motivated and inspired through another in relationship. While the fears will bring us the shadow Self.

-          We can feel attracted to person, that has qualities or elements that we are missing and need to work on or manifest in our reality. I`ll give an example below -for example we are missing strength and determination, so we find these qualities in our partner.

-          Another person in relationship can possess very similar qualities to us, with that we feel in alignment, and to help our union to be based on nurturing these qualities. That’s also very light aspect of relationship.

-          Also we attract mostly very complex relationships, that are combination of all. Our partner can reflect in the same time our fears, our weaknesses, and our positive qualities. That is what happens in multiple relationships, to make us realize what we need to work on.

    What we need to remember is that a partner will not represent the completeness of relationship or “perfect love”. That means he is never a perfect match. He can be reflecting more or less our positive qualities and inspiration, and give light to the soul. But in all cases he is making the “gap” of something that needs to be found, quality or situation that we need to work out in this life.

That’s how relationships are far from human understanding about love.

Thank you for tuning in! Stay on the way of Light and abundance!

nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium

Page of Cups

The energy of all Pages is the one associated with the card Fool ( 0) – innocence, new start, new energy to begin, inspiration, very positive energy, seeing the world with eyes of child, discovering new things, connecting with inner child, immaturity. This is the card more or less of “surface” level, but very uplifting. Page has the psychological attributes of little child and usually a girl, maiden, not grown woman. This card could mean also attraction to much younger woman (girl), sisterhood, very close girl friend. Page in many spreads is source of revealed messages –could bring meaning of new friendship, news delivered from someone close to you (or about him), or gossiping.

Page of cups signifies the element Earth of water (earth of emotions). He abides in world of new emotions, desire for love, being loved, falling in love or feelings of the first love. Page also could have meaning of new creative project, inspiration, bliss, connecting with the nature, exploring different arts: dance, writing, painting.

The ultimate energy of the page (sometimes seen as Princess) appears in image of Page of pentacles, connecting all earth element together in strong bound.

Spiritual message of Page of cups is: be open to the unexpected, stay with optimistic approach, think about meaningful dreams and signs, its safe to trust others, be open. 

nina Lea-nour *

Angel`S medium

The Lovers -VI

      VI. The Lovers – (world of Unity, sphere of love)

The card represents love, union, harmony in relationships, and appears in sign of Gemini. Lovers also can have meaning of choice between two possible options, when you need to be clear and look deeper in your heart for the answers. Many Tarot decks have symbol of snake depicted in cards of Lovers – it represents the temptation and the possible falling in crossroad where person has to make decision. Depiction of snake also can be associated with story of Adam and Eve – their falling from grace of heaven into the material earth life, symbolized by earthly” love – physical aspects of love, desire, need passion. (not platonic love or friendship). Variations of this card are:

-         Physical attraction, love, harmony

-         Very intimate relationship, based on trust and mutual understanding

-         Deep desire, love, passion between couple/ marriage

-         Becoming clear with your own values, be true to yourself

-         Need to find the perfect soul mate, lover who will complement you

-        You need to take important decision in your life – on a crossroad, in that you need to take care of personal values and unconditional love

-        Examine your feelings, motives, personal values, before you take any decision.

-    Expect changes in your love life, or painful separation; let your heart guide you. 

Archangels: Chamuel, Zadkiel

Spiritual message: be open to unconditional love and forgiveness

Spiritual quality: forgiveness, inner strength 

nina Lea-nour *

angel`S medium 

Love tree & Lovers -I

   This entry is the third part of my friendship introductions. It is focused on topic of Love-mates, which is so wide topic to discuss. Love in general, in all kind of relationships, is unique feeling, that is one of the main causes of heart opening, expansion and spiritual development. Love –lessons are so big variety and so colorful, like the stars in all universe, the same as people themselves are unique individuals. Everyone brings with him from past lives his private love-lessons (and love mirrors), that continue throughout the time until the lesson is learned. It`s not easy to learn a love lesson, and usually –if we like it or not –it happens with painful experiences, overcoming fears, broken heart and standing for ones values.

   Love is from one side very complex and complicated feeling. Here I speak about the romantic love and attraction; even in this attraction there are plenty of shades and colors –the many shades are in color red – green –blue – the same are included in the love feeling. We can feel amazing variety of emotions to one person, even amazing combinations like – attraction and hatred, sympathy and contempt…That’s caused from the unique combinations of different people in one. From another side love is very simple feeling – implementing the past –present and future experiences on a soul level, developing qualities like forgiveness, compassion, trust. Love is the creating force of the universe.

Here I want to speak more about love-mates, or love connections, relationships and unions we have with people around. Then I`ll observe some kind of relations and kind of people – compared with animal and insect world.

I want to determine – regardless of the relationships colors and feelings – the basis of all love-mates should be friendship. That doesn’t mean you have to marry your best friend –not at all; it means that you need to develop friendship qualities in your perfect love relationship. Without that basis the whole building will fall down sooner or later.

If we see the love-relationship as growing beautiful tree (I love this comparison), then the roots are the friendship basis of this tree. All relationships – love or friendship –need many kinds of Care, love and sacrifice in order to grow. The friendship roots for the love-tree are shown in the qualities (which I discussed in previous parts) – sharing – honesty – trust.

The first component of all relationship-trees is sharing. Without it no closer connection can be accomplished. Sharing is the basis of the open heart, attachment, seeing the other with eyes of love, accepting another as yourself.  To find out if your love-mate tree has strong roots, answer the following questions:

1. Do you share your feeling and emotions with your partner in any time without fear of judgment? Do you feel free to share if you feel negative emotions sadness, anger, disappointment? Are you free to share with him joy, happiness, love?
2. do you share common interest with your love-mate? Do you have at least 3 common hobbies or passions together? Do you devote time together for that interests?
3. Sharing music – as the music is one of the most universal love-languages – do you like to share music with your partner? Do you like the same style music or different? How many times do you listen to music together? Dance together? What do you think about music style he enjoys?
4. Sharing joyful moments in social situations; This is quite important for the good relationship. We all can have lovely moments of intimacy together – but in front of people you can feel very different with your love-mate. Do you feel proud walking with your beloved in front of others? Do you feel calm, happy and free with him in social places like restaurant, café, cinema, exhibition? Do you feel uncomfortable with him and why? Do you both enjoy being together between many people and how do you feel?  Do you take children from kindergarten together? All that moments are related to the friendship root –how do you interact if you are in social situations. If you have often feelings like – uncomfortable, fearful, jealous, not calm, restless, angry, anxious –then its sign something is wrong in your love tree.
5. Honesty – are you always honest with your partner? Even in little things –do you feel free to tell him the truth, to express your thoughts, ideas, feelings without fear? Do you hide “little things” from him and how often?

* the same questions above you can ask about your love-mate – and see if you`ll guess his answers.

These aspects - sharing moments, honesty and trust – are in the root of the tree. Without them no real relationship can grow, and if it grows somehow will be too weak and easy to destroy from any outside factors. 

(* Continue to the second part - Love tree & Lovers II  ) 

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

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Friends - weeds III

   Now another question I want to ask: who is guilty if in a garden there are many weeds – the weeds or the gardener?

    You can understand what I mean. You are guilty and only you are to blame for growing weeds in your spiritual garden. Not the weeds. They live so as their nature is, maybe they will change also in the future. You who should care for your own personal qualities. You are who should pay attention and keep clean your lake of Soul. You are responsible only for growing weeds in your Spirit garden, so do not complain! Don’t blame the weeds. Just remove them, you`ll do much favor for both of you.

   The weeds will be happy to go to another garden, as this is their role –if they continue on the same path.

Be grateful for your own garden and don’t worry about gardens of others. This is another important thing. Don’t look to your friends gardens saying –what nice flowers, I don’t have this…if you want, you can have much more. People, as plants grow from inside –out. From roots to the branches and blooms. We have our seasons – spring of inspiration, free energy flow and joy, summer of peace, love exchanging, connections, autumn of peace, tranquility, memories, melancholy, letting go of past, winter of wisdom, realizing, understanding, feeling the life mission, preparing for the new blooms; Let your flowers grow in freedom and love.

Don’t be sad for the weeds, don’t be sad for the thorns. They always will be there, but when you cleanse space from them –all space will become much beautiful.

And I don’t say weeds are only “people”. Actually with this words I can seem much rude and overbearing. I mean the true – negative and dark qualities of people. That can include also your own qualities! So look well what is needed to be removed?

Don’t be sad for anyone, who left your life. He never meant to stay in it. As we are travelers and we also not meant to stay in this earth plane. We can be left by multiple ways. The fear to be “alone” and “left” is one of the basic fears in human nature. Baby and child is afraid to be alone –left from his mother and father. Husband is afraid to left by his wife; mother is afraid to be left by his child; friend is afraid to be left by another friend; lover to be left by his lover; daughter to be left by his mother…so many connection and sadness. Only because we didn’t understand, we don’t belong to anyone here, nor anyone belong to us. We have this relation given as lessons, given as priority, like student books; they come and go. Even strongest relationship wont stand the storm of time and death. Parting can be –emotional, physical and in all levels. We need to accept that so we can leave in peace. When you experience and overcome the saddest event, being left by someone close to you, then you become stronger and out of fear to lose.

Remember – as I said before – you cant lose something, which never belong to you.

That’s why, dont be sad for any friend, lover, friend-weed who left your life in any way (except taken to the next angel realms). Be content, you were saved from bad spirits, bad events, consequences in the future by this shift. You were saved from being fake and dishonest, and from many more negative qualities. Everything has a reason, but not everyone sees it – similar to what Confucius said about “beauty”.

Only time can reveal our blooms, and time can reveal our weeds – the same as blooms and weeds of others.  

The last thing I want to say: do not share with someone, who doesn’t share to you back. Then you`ll lose much from your good qualities, and this sharing will be already waste of time; the same –don’t trust someone, who distrust you, don’t give love to someone who dislikes you (envy you), don’t throw not only your pearls, but also your crystals, your quartz, your roses to someone who wont appreciate them and trample them.

Again Confucius: “Respect yourself and others will respect you”. The same is valid about love.

(* next entry I`ll concentrate on what signs to look for finding the real Love –mate? Is your current relationship example of real love-relation?) 

Abide in divine Light!

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

1213 

Friends -weeds -II

    Out of these cases of friends-weeds –there are more; As you may know, all people develop spiritually in different times, so they are on different levels of their evolution, as well as have different soul-connections. So we can have in one life stage people, who are close to us, because our vibrations are matching in that particular time. After years –or months – these people will change their position for us (it will be from both sides), and we may feel them no longer the same as before, we`ll feel the following: lack of sharing, lack of compassion, lack of free expression, lack of love, lack of forgiveness, lack of interest, finally –lack of time spend together. First sign is that we don’t spend time together with them so often as before, second is that we don’t miss this time, and they too.

Nothing is wrong in that.

Here is why: we all seem to stick and cling to one friend-connection or any relationship –as long as we can, even forever, without considering the changes of our life, mind, energy, and so on. We think we should” be friends forever, and if we are not we “betray” another. Its simply not truth.

    We also think that our love partner should be one forever, friend should be forever –its wrong. Life is an endless flow and change. As Lao Tzu says : “Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them, that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward…” we need to accept changes and love them. The worse thing to do is to stick to temporary things –people, connections, objects, properties, so on. The best thing is to go with the flow and enjoy the changes. That doesn’t mean you are not true to yourself! As we said before, your best friend is yourself –so you want to learn all good qualities from spirit and masters, to become higher in spirit. But its useless to cling to something, someone who is imperfect apriori, who has his own path and levels to pass.

You are here not just to enjoy, but to study lessons. These lessons are best learn from others and in connection with others. Some people though have more lessons from spirits and god, but they are rarely in society today. By learning lessons, you are growing more and more; you reveal your weakness and become stronger. This is the way –of pitfalls and falls. In this regard friends-weeds wont be with you all the time. They were maybe flowers, who turned to weeds, or wilted in your garden.

What advise I can give : be good gardener of your garden, sprinkle the flowers, grow the trees, remove weeds!

There is no need to pretend or play “fake” friendships when you feel your connection is gone –wilted long time ago. Or you are happy, sharing joy, sadness, love, compassion, helping to grow the good in each other, or not. You cant be not only friend to everyone and liked by everyone, but also cant be forever friends with your own friend circle. We all have different ways. That doesn’t mean we should consider someone as “enemy”, or behave bad with him, when we feel we are not in the same relations anymore. Not at all. We just have to be kind and honest, thankful for his lessons and love given, for all good and bad, and not consider him as a friend. Just be connected, if you would like; but if your ways and life paths are separated, if your energies don’t match, the connection will fail already. Don’t keep yourself in fake relations, just because you want to prove something, or to be “kind”, or to be “like before”. People are moving, and flowers are growing too. If you do not remove the weeds from it, the new flowers wont have place to be planted. And the existing ones will also be out of energy soon! Be careful, look well. 

* Continue to the part III 

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

1213 

X Obligations : III. Brothers & Sisters in Spirit

3. Obligation to your Brothers and Sisters in Spirit. In other words –your friends. The basic obligations you have are: 

1. speak the truth by any kind of communication (take note that here comes : do not put mask on your face in front of them, be yourself, and show your real feelings, do not hide the truth for yourself, feelings, actions and others) 

2. Be helpful and compassionate : That means realize what your friends suffer and try to help them in any way. Advise, action, love, care. Be ready to help first and not to criticize first! 

3. Share: sharing means much, as if you have friends and sisters in Spirit, that means by itself that they are “chosen” and not by chance with you! Spend time with them. That is not equal to calling them on the phone or online chatting, or sending message. Signs of real and life communication are appreciated when this is possible of course. If not dont lose the person, who is valuable to you. 

You are together by purpose to help and study together and achieve higher levels of Consciousness and awareness. They need you, as you need them, and its interactions between equals. Not to mention, you cant be a sister and bother in Spirit with someone on a different level (on a different wave), as that’s impossible for the vibration match. That’s all in all what you should do. Do not hide from them, but opposite – reveal the truth self to them and your knowledge, so they will do the same!