How to Reclaim your Divine Masculine Energy (for men -channeled) part 3

 

  This is a channeled message with the help of my angels and Archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel about the state of divine masculine energy on the planet and what are main principles for men to reclaim it back.

This is part 3 (final) of my article, you can read part 2 here...

   6.  The sixth principle of masculine energy: use sexual energy for transformation and growth 

   Sexual energy is different in men and women. Men are by nature more connected to “primal instincts and desires, while women have more complex and sophisticated ways to be attracted. But you need to understand that generally in this level of reality sexual energy is primal in itself, it is what makes you close to your animal instincts and to low levels of reality. 

So, there is indeed a clash between the primal sexual energy of a man, who desires to go higher with the sexual energy of the goddess. Through act of sexual connection a man takes energy from woman and women gives her most special jewel. 

   Women receive positive energy only from a man with whom she feels safe and secure. She needs to feel loved and appreciated first, she needs you to prove your worth first.

   Unhealthy feminine energy will give all things too easily, and so she becomes unattractive, she will lose her value slowly. 

High value women know when to say No to any pursuit from a man, and knows how to keep her sexual energy in state of purity.

Women who have self respect can not give her most precious self to any person who desires her. That destroys her value.

If a man really wants to be with a woman he needs to use his initial sexual energy for self-growth and inner transformation. He needs to understand what are his weak points, not her weaknesses and how to use them. He doesn’t need to use manipulative tactics, but he gives from his heart.

7. Seventh principle of masculine energy: being Trustworthy

Being trustworthy is one of the most important things in a relationship. A man needs to prove he can be trusted by showing consistent efforts and taking actions. By showing in any way his intentions and love. Being trustworthy means you know your own self worth, you are confident and you have healthy Solar plexus chakra.

Men who have trust and control issues, who are too jealous, usually have problem to believe in their own power.

All men need to activate and work on their centre of power -Solar Plexus chakra – and their centre of truth and authenticity – Throat chakra. Men who have very balanced energy in these chakras will be by trustworthy.

A real man is honest and open, without to feel vulnerable. He is not weak, controlling, manipulative or too demanding and critical. He let the woman see his worth through his honesty, kindness, compassion and his behaviour.

With men actions speak much more than words.

So, as a man pay attention to what are your words and intentions and how they match with your actions. You will understand much about yourself and the way you love.

Conclusion: to be a man with a healthy masculine energy at this time is a challenge -as it requires you to be stable and to have your own self esteem and self worth first. If you want to reclaim your lost masculine energy you need to be protector and provider in your relationship, you need to be consistent and prove you are trustworthy, you need to find solutions and take actions at the right time, you need to take responsibility for your actions at any time, you need to not avoid or reject your emotions or emotions of others, you need to have self-respect and respect women, you need to be able to overcome obstacles and take risks without being weak or desperate….

You need to control your sexual energy and direct it to self growth and transformation. You need to be very self aware and understand your motives for taking action.

All of these are healthy masculine qualities which men have”, but they should work on them to be empowered.

In such way all women need to work on their feminine qualities, as they are essential for long term happiness and fulfilment in a relationship.

Thank you for tuning in! ♥

Nina Nour Bluebell 

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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The Truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 2

  

This article is part 2 of the channeled message about obsession, longing and taboo with the help of my angels and Arch. Sandalphon. ♥

                         Elements of obsession: 

1.  Longing, desire and strong attraction for someone who don`t belong to you or is unreachable. In many cases it is related to forbidden love, someone who is taboo.

2. Periods of silence and withrowl, in which the obsession becomes stronger and spirals -dissipates and starts again.

3. Constant need to imagine or be close to the object of desire.

(As this is rather painful experience, in most cases the person who is obsessed is attached to his pain, like in masochism).

4. Idealisation of the object of obsession.

5. The person can have uncontrollable thoughts and feelings of sexual desire to object of obsession. He can look at memories or have little objects (fetishes) of the person, like hair, clothes, photos or anything else.

             ♥ The principle of taboo and prohibition 

The obsession is ruled by the principle of the “forbidden fruit is the sweetest”, so the feeling is fuelled by the inability and prohibition to be close to the object of desire. That means, there is always a wall standing between the person and his object of obsession. If this wall is broken, the person who is obsessed can feel confused, vulnerable and don’t know how to react.

(Note that again even if it is painful and related to something forbidden, doesnt mean it is not love. Scenarios can be multiple.)

In other cases he may start a new spiral of obsession, as the object is still “prohibited” even looking closer.

                             ♥ Emotional projection

Another element of obsession is projection of the feelings and thoughts onto the object of obsession. In this point the person can start (sub-consciously) to send energy cords to his object and entangle his whole body, which will affect his energy. In such way the object of obsession may be open to these feelings and create the mirror effect, where he projects the same emotions back.

The object of desire can also feel the same feelings which are projected onto him, and accept it as his own. (That means, it is possible he is confused about his own feelings, and thinks the obsession belongs to him).

This is actually a fake “obsession” and it is called absorbtion”.

The person who is obsessed will have contradictions in his thoughts and behaviour, as he won`t have valid” explanation for his feelings.

In the next part I will look into the question is obsession love...

Read part 3 here ....

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

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The truth about Romantic Obsession and Longing ♥ (channeled message) part 1

 

This article is a channeled message with the help of my guides and angels and archangel Sandalphon on the deep and controversial topic of obsession ,from angelic perspective. Note that this is not related to psychology, but it can include elements of it. 

                  ♥ What is romantic obsession?

Here I will observe the basic elements of obsession and how it can be defined, although there is not one way of interpretation.

Obsession is a strong feeling of longing and desire to be closer to someone, or “possess” someone who is in a way restricted, far from you, or taboo. The feeling of longing and desire for someone who is impossible to have is called “limerance” as term in psychology.

You believe this person, who I will call “object of desire” or obsession, can`t be completely yours.

Here are some very specific details about obsession *

- The feeling of longing in obsession seems constant, it can increase or decrease in intensity and may go in spirals.

- The feeling of obsession is not fading even without connection to the object of desire

- You have fantasies and day dreaming about the person which gives you pleasure

Romantic obsession can feel strong exactly because its permanent, unwilling to remove from the object of desire and adds fantasies about him.

Moreover, there can be an emotional trap in obsession, because the desire will increase by the impossibility to be with the person. That creates emotional craving and loop.

                        ♥  What is at the core of obsession?

At the core of almost all obsessions to a person is unfulfilled soul realization, desire for expansion, a childhood emotional trauma and/ or past life relationship which was not closed, past life that you have experienced strong bond, intense love and emotions.

Obsession is linked but not entirely, to the painful experiences in your relationships, dissatisfaction and something missing. This is longing to be expanded and fulfilled with the object of desire, as he possess something that you desperately need (at this time).

If you find out that a person has the qualities and gives you feelings that you were needing (consciously or sub-consciously), then you imagine that only this person can fullfill the need. From this moment your mind is able to create energetic cords with the mind of the other person. In this way you will be connected more strongly with your mind, and could have even telepathy and empathy for each other.

(That means you can feel what he feels too, as you become a mirror of each other. If he is in pain or feels desire, longing, need to be with you, you will feel it. But the time frame here can be different. )

There are different kind of romantic obsessions – the most important to understand is that they can be reciprocated (mirrored back), or not.

When you feel obsession for someone who you know is in a state of taboo or restriction, this makes the obsession “isolated” and spiralling within itself.

Any obsession can be connected with feelings of emotional attachment, addiction, memories and fantasies, sensual fantasies, desire for closeness, which can trigger fetishism or masochistic tendencies in the person at one point. 

  Obsession is triggered by the position of the object as “taboo”, forbidden, unreachable, in state of impossibility, or being behind the closed door. This is quite important to understand.

The person who is obsessed is almost in painful bliss, blindness or romantic hypnosis, which he likes and indulges in.

Pay attention that the fact someone is obsessed doesnt mean he is not also deeply in love or hasnt romantic feelings. Just at some point the inense feeling of longing when they dont reach fulfillment (permission), or remain hidden, then obsession is created. 

(Example of such kind of obsessions can be: student and teacher, member of the family, like cousin, anyone who is social or family taboo, colleague, person who is married…)

When this obsession become constant the person feels like he can`t live without the state of hypnosis, as it opens the door for pleasure on emotional and then physical level. This pleasure is like a loop of addiction to someone, but it is felt like energy dissonance which pulls you in direction to something in order to fill in a space of void within yourself. 

Please continue to read part 2 here > 

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

April 2026 

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What is energy Alignment? Types of alignment (Part II)

 Part I 📚

What you can do if your emotional body is out of alignment? 

You may feel multiple times like in a rollercoaster, depression, anxiety, insomnia, you can feel stagnant emotions, anger, inability to speak and express, inability to feel or understand others.  

Your emotional body relates to everything around you. It has connection to your physical, mental, spiritual body. It connects to the environment, home and especially people around you and your relationships. Therefore, emotional body alignment is crucial for your wellbeing.  

In these social structures and way of being, most people have emotions out of alignment. That’s totally normal. But the first thing to understand and do when you have such emotions is to acknowledge and accept that state. That means learn how to feel and accept your feelings without denying them! If you feel sadness, anger, or inability to speak, be quiet in yourself and say: I feel anger, I'm sad, I`m unable to speak. That simple acknowledgement of emotions takes you one step further in understanding how to balance them. 

In order to bring your emotional body in alignment you need

1. to balance and bring in alignment your physical body.

2. to accept and acknowledge your emotions.

3. To observe and understand the main reason for your emotions

4. To do energy work or to remove the negative influences from your way.  

 

I will give simple examples here. Imagine you are in a relationship that is very conflicting and you experience constant anger, anxiety, conflict, misunderstanding, you feel often alone, isolated and unloved. This relationship definitely is out of alignment for your soul (even it will be part of your karma or lessons). The state of people around you, their emotional body and reactions affect you constantly. Their energy connects and bonds with your energy and emotional body. So, you can`t have healthy emotional body, if your relationships are out of alignment. One leads to the other, by default. To have healthy and flowing emotions, you need to understand your relationships – and if they are toxic or too negative, you need to remove yourself.  

 

The same is valid also for your home and environment.  

But emotional body is not so simple, it works in very complex way. We can have stuck, blocked and negative imprints in our emotional body from many other PAST sources like childhood trauma, past life karma, and karma with your children or spouse. All these makes the emotional body picture much wider and colourful.  

That’s why it is so important to work regularly to cleanse and clear your energy cords with other people and places, to meditate on healing your inner child, to connect with your Akashic records and see your past lives. That will give you deeper understanding why certain places, people and events repeat in your life. 

 

Repetition is the Master of Study. Through this you achieve mastery, but in a more painful way.  

 

There is another much better way to achieve mastery and that is AWARENESS. Emotional and mental awareness need practice, as all things do. When you are aware of your emotions and life, you are also aware of your environment, people and situations and have deeper understanding about WHY things happen.  

 

Alignment of your home space

It`s so simple and easy – your home and environment (or place you are currently in) reflects your emotions, thoughts and believes, as well as reflection of your childhood and past life emotions, thoughts and believes. That means – if your home is out of alignment, or there is any negative factor in your place, you need to make balance first in your emotional and mental bodies. 

 

Your home reflects who you are as a soul. What is your aesthetic sense, your goals, desires, mission, what is your energy. This is all reflected by your home. If your home and environment is dark, without light, or full of clutter, unclean, unorganised, then that is reflection of your Soul and all your energy.  

Therefore, if you live in a place, which is not your home, but you are there by chance, that will immanently affect your energy and emotions. You need to focus strongly on cleansing your space and make energy protection regularly. If you live in a place more than a month, then that can be considered as your “home” even if it is not, or you don’t feel it as such. In that case, you need to bring cleanness and elements that are in harmony with your soul, to align with the place you are in.  

Any home environment that is out of alignment will affect your energy, emotions, thoughts in a negative way. Then the work you should do is only –to do both –to bring your home space back to harmony, cleanness and abundance, 2. to bring your emotions and thoughts back to harmony, balance and peace. This requires again awareness, acceptance and self-discipline.  

 

Thank you for tuning in! 🍂

🍂 Continue to the final part 3 here..... *

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, crystal healer

Sept. 2023

New moon - Lotus lake Portal (Scorpio, 15 Nov. -observing relationships) I

 Part I 

    New moon on 15th November holds the keys of activation, cherishing your inner space and listening to new guidance about your life path.

  15 can be read as 6 from numerology perspective, and it brings the energy of divine Love and harmony. This New moon is celestial Gateway of Lotus lake. It brings the intention for rejuvenation and new beginning in all spheres, specially connected to love, relationships, family.

       After activation of the New moon portal (each New moon is a portal of energy), you can make steps to achieving your goals in this areas of life. Maybe you are in a point in your relationships where you need to make a decision, or to bring clarity, more love, care and gentleness to your relationships. Angels guide you in this time of chaotic and underlying dark energies.

    This new moon defines the elemental energy of the month –which is Water, and Lotus lake, as it falls in zodiac sign of Scorpio (water). As we start the month with new moon, it shows the main theme of the month is about rejuvenation, conscious choices and deeper understanding about our emotions.

That Celestial gateway is of the Lotus lake, where we dive deep into our subconscious patterns in relationships and love that we give. We are also under influence of the Portal of Water (Samhain, 1. November).

       First step is to take a look and observe the patterns of your relationships. No matter if that concerns a family member, brother, sister or your partner or child. See what things trigger your negative emotions in this relationships. What is the thing you want to change in them? Do some things repeat in your relationships? Just write down things that you would like to change, and how you like to improve your connection with others. Maybe you are too noisy, or critical to others, but don’t feel your own mistakes? Maybe you are too distant and silent, and don’t show much love and affection? Just see what is your main pattern, observe it without judgement.

      Any close person in your life is here for you not by chance. If he is your partner, husband, father, brother, mother, cousin, friend. We are always interconnected with souls that we need to master more lessons, and with souls that we need to work together. That “work” means so many things, but mainly we work to support and help each other, to give people around us love; and to show them what are the best traits and character they can achieve. We need to expand, change and become better in all levels.

Nina Lea-Nour *

Angel`s medium 

Reiki healer