How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 principles (Part 3)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved.

This is part 3 of the article, please read part 2 here...

        The 3 principle of divine feminine energy: self-love ♥

Woman who is self loving can only be a magnet of more love.

Self love is felt in your aura. When you love yourself in the first place before anyone else, this is attractive, this is feminine. Men feel this energy. When you don’t love yourself you radiate insecurity, fear and start to please others. This is unhealthy wounded feminine.

   And self-love is not equal to selfishness and egoism, just the opposite – egoism is seen when you are too controlling, jealous, or want too much for yourself. Self-love is pure divine feminine, it is quality of receiving for yourself, nurturing yourself, regardless of anyone elses opinion. 

Egoism comes from ego and the need to act, be seen, be aggressive. Self love comes from the heart and authentic self.

The women in today`s society struggles to attract not just love and healthy masculine protection, but also joy and abundance. Because they cant receive, they can not let go, they always feel lack” of something.

Feminine energy is enough in and of  itself. Even we always need the polarity to feel our difference. Relationships can be seen as different puzle pieces, which we try to match. 

Woman in her feminine energy is self-loving, because her priority is to take care of her energy every day. But self-love does not equal self-care, even it may include it. When you love yourself its about elevation of your energy, its about inner glow and the mystical attractiveness. Its about being totally assured and calm in yourself without seeking approval and validation from others.

If the man doesn’t appreciate you, this has nothing to do with who you are, it `s always about him. He is not at your level, he can be filled with insecurities, as many men these days suffer from damaged masculine energy. Therefore, you don’t need to be surprised if it takes time to attract the exact man who is match for your energy, who can be caring, devoted and protective. Who can give you the feminine glow that you need.

Pay attention that there are many men who have blocked masculine energy, especially in the chakras Solar Plexus, Root and Throat. That means, they have low self-esteem, they are not in their power, they don’t have positive values and behaviour about women, they don’t know how to communicate. Therefore, as a woman don’t blame yourself for anything that men is not able to do for you.

  Just the opposite, have higher standards and higher energy, don’t accept anything like its too much for you. 

Self-love is to take your time alone, to reflect on yourself, to be patient and present in the moment, to focus on your spiritual growth, to cultivate inner peace, to connect with your emotions, to nurture your inner child, to practice gratitude and journal, to have inner joy.

   And also, self-love is to understand deeply what do you want and why, to know why you choose a man to be with, to evaluate him and what he gives to your life.

When you love yourself you put your priorities and well being first. Not anyone else (and totally not your man). You can start to take care of your body, mind and soul, have a healthy food habits and regime, devote time for rest, sleep, meditation, add supplements to nourish yourself, play sport, do yoga, chi gong or any kind of body movement. This is how the divine feminine is more loving, grounded and attractive. Take care of your home, plants or animal, have things that nurture your soul as a woman – create art, write, play music, or develop your psychic connection with Tarot cards, crystals, meditation. All of these are divine feminine practices.

Woman can not give back love if her cup is not filled. She is strong and fragile at the same time, this is magnetic.

Thats why it is pitiful to see women who have unrequited love for someone. This is a self-pity in disguise. It is pity to see women who do all and sacrifice themselves for just a man.

Do not look up to men, but look up to yourself, you are the goddess.

Thank you for tuning in!

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Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 Principles (Part 1)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and feel loved.

                     How to be in your feminine energy?

Feminine energy is rising on the planet at this time of turbulence,  big energy transformation is happening, which will affect all relationships and also Divine masculine energy.

   Feminine energy is not weak, submissive, too passive, accommodating as many people may think. Just the opposite, this energy has huge creation power within. 

Feminine energy is about softness, calmness, gentleness, receptivity, inner peace, self-love, self-care, nurturing, grounding, loving, giving love, soothing.

Divine feminine is in each woman, as each woman is here as representation of the goddess, Lunar goddess, maiden, priestess, mother. She is so deep and multifaceted, she is complex. (much more complex than the masculine energy) so it is not easy to be understood.

 Divine feminine is mysterious, attractive, seductive, and in the same time soft and authentic. She is magnetic without pretence and arrogance, without explaining herself. She is the creation of the world from the void within the cosmic egg.

Understand her and feel her in yourself, and know -you embody  divine feminine. This energy has qualities of water moving and shaping the stones around in soft and persistent way.

Every woman is like different source of water, holding power of the nature and universe – the laws of attraction and laws of unity. One can be felt like lake, peaceful and serne, other can be like sea, ocean with big waves of emotions and depth, one can be like a river (flowing freely through obstacles of life),  other can feel like snow - holding power of purification and detachment, true winter. 

To embody the feminine energy you need to let go of principle of constant "doing” and embody the being and presence.

If feminine is about letting go, masculine energy is about fire – transformation and destruction, total change.

To understand this energy look closely to the elements of water and Earth. Both are calm, nourishing, accepting, being in themselves.

They don’t rush to change, but they accept change through letting go.

Here are some feminine qualities which you can observe:

Soft, gentle, more passive, calm, receptive, self-loving, soothing, letting go, nurturing, emotional, flexible, changeable, psychic, intuitive, slowing down, attracting, seducing. 

The masculine energy from another side has the qualities of fire and air – quick, active, explosive, restless, sharp, transformative, providing, passionate, activating, protective, logical, giving love, supportive, creating change.

The masculine energy is pursuing, the feminine is being pursued.

Feminine is like a pearl or a gem – shining and enough in itself.

In this list of qualities there are no oppositions, but different modalities – of the spectrum Yin and Yang.

                  Softness and how to be soft and calm 

One of the most attractive qualities of the divine feminine is softness (calmness). Anything that is soft doesn’t need to fight or to prove itself – it just attracts protection and care. Most women sadly have lost their softness in the world of constant fast movement and false matrix models of how “feminine” should look like, which is fake and untruth.

But feminine energy is empowered through softness not through being sharp. Calmness is not being dull, indifferent, or being taken for granted. Calmness is being totally assured in your own inner peace, your own power to get what you need, your power to be vulnerable without losing yourself.

Softness means many things on many levels. You let your emotions flow like water, your are calm and you don’t resist or reject your emotions. Just the opposite – you validate them and you observe why do you feel so? You understand your emotions because they are beautiful messages of your body and heart. They should not be avoided but accepted and seen.

When you feel your emotions you can observe from higher level and not react. (which shows losing control).

There is no more ugly sight than a woman (or man) who has lost control over her emotions. It looks repelling.

So, in order to be magnetic and attract love, you need to be calm, present, collected, grounded. You need to release all inner fears and doubts, don’t react to anything and be in your power.

But that needs a self-training and need for self-development for every woman. That required self awareness which doesn’t happen overnight.

                    Ask yourself these questions:

- What triggers my emotions?

- What triggers this specific feeling of (anger, anxiety, sadness)?

- can I remove myself from the source of this emotions?

- How can I return back to my calmness and softness?

The feminine energy is related to the great Void. Its mystical, magnetic, pulling, seductive. It contains the darkness of the unknown, its unresolved puzzle. Therefore, she cant be easily known or possessed. She is like siren and mermaid.

This is part 1 of my article, please read part 2 here ..>

Nina Nour Bluebell  ©

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

All rights are reserved