How to Reclaim your Divine feminine Energy - 6 Principles (part 5)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved.

This is part 5 of the article, to read part 4 click here...

The 5 principle of the divine feminine is being natural and authentic

Divine feminine is connected with element earth and water in their highest form. So, any woman is connected with all earth elements, even with elemental kingdom, fairies, forest nymphs, mermaids, water fairies and elves. Because of that she needs to connect with nature every day to gain her inner power. 

All things in nature - plants, flowers, trees, crystals, animals give a woman energy boost and enhance her feminine qualities. 

Women`s beauty is natural, it doesnt masks, it doesnt need pretence or validation. It needs realisation of its own power and magnetism. When a woman is natural she draws things to herself with ease, without trying hard. That means she is in the flow. 

Woman who is natural radiates innocence, purity and beauty. She doesnt need to pretend, to cover up her flaws. 

 People will know and feel when a woman is natural and authentic, when she radiates confidence without being arrogant. They can sense when woman is cold or distant, or when she is trying to “play games”. What you do is obvious in your aura, if you show your fake self, this is repelling. Honesty, together with calmness and softness is very attractive. Being authentic and honest does not mean being too direct or rude, or saying that “this is who I am”. Woman can be honest while also being soft and feminine.

Who you are as a woman is show by the way you behave, by the way you talk, by the way you walk, by your values and self-respect.

Women who are smoking, drinking alcohol, being addicted to substances, who are not taking care of their look, who are always in a rush, who are always tired...will attract exactly theses kind of men who match their frequency.

Also, women need to put self-care and self-love priority, but that doesnt equal expensive cosmetic or products full of harsh ingredients, or plastic surgeries to change your face. These things are on the surface, they can change part of your "programming", but they cant make your soul different. Whenever a woman protects nature, she will be protected by nature and earth too. 

Women who disrespect themselves, humiliate themselves, have low self esteem and no values, will attract exactly this kind of men. (You need to understand this and examine your past relationships. Ask yourself: What kind of men did I attract until this point?)

This is so obvious but many women don’t seem to see it.

How you behave with others and how you let others treat you tells everything.

If you are insecure and weak woman who doesn’t know her values and without boundaries, you will attract insecure men. (and this is what actually happens today.

We need to understand that very big part of women have forsaken themselves for just being “not alone” and sacrifice for a man, because they think he is the “only option”. This mindset is detrimental and lowers your value and self-esteem further more.

When you meet a man, or date observe him and ask yourself: What are his values and believes? How he treats me? Is he jealous and possessive? Does he act like a playboy? Does he show respect, does he pay the bill? All of these will show you much about the man.

6 principle of the divine feminine energy: Absence, creating space

One of the worst things woman can do in a relationship is to be too available, to be clingy and give the impression of pursuing. This is valid for all relationships. 

Constantly asking for attention, approval, being too available to a man, being jealous -all of these destroy your attractiveness and value.  Be the opposite – take time for yourself, make your special man miss you and approach you first. 

Don not be available, don’t reply too fast. Thats how you show you have priorities and values. 

Doing too much for a man signals your own insecurity and fear that you will lose him. And that men can sense perfectly. Thats why being detached and having your own life is very crucial for a relationship.

Woman needs to be like a flower that opens when the time is right and closes after, then opens again. A flower does not follow the bees to be pollinated, but the bees are going to flower.

In the same way women should just be in their beauty and glow and open up to receive.

As woman thrives when she is calm, relaxed and in her power, so she can give to others. Women are very different by temperament, like flowers have different scent and colour. Some can be more visible, confident, others can be shy, mysterious, introverted, soft, but all of them have the divine feminine energy which needs to be nurtured.

For all women these principles are valid, they will need time alone, time with other girl friends, time for self-care, nurturing, meditation, rest, spa, sleep, hobbies…

Only by having this special time of absence a woman can create space which is needed for the good balance of masculine and feminine energy.

Woman cant give from an empty cup.

Also, for many women who feel alone, or have fear of abandonment, remember that you don’t need to just be with any man, you don’t need to attract all men, but you need to attract the right one for you.

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell 

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026

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How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 principles (Part 3)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved.

This is part 3 of the article, please read part 2 here...

        The 3 principle of divine feminine energy: self-love ♥

Woman who is self loving can only be a magnet of more love.

Self love is felt in your aura. When you love yourself in the first place before anyone else, this is attractive, this is feminine. Men feel this energy. When you don’t love yourself you radiate insecurity, fear and start to please others. This is unhealthy wounded feminine.

   And self-love is not equal to selfishness and egoism, just the opposite – egoism is seen when you are too controlling, jealous, or want too much for yourself. Self-love is pure divine feminine, it is quality of receiving for yourself, nurturing yourself, regardless of anyone elses opinion. 

Egoism comes from ego and the need to act, be seen, be aggressive. Self love comes from the heart and authentic self.

The women in today`s society struggles to attract not just love and healthy masculine protection, but also joy and abundance. Because they cant receive, they can not let go, they always feel lack” of something.

Feminine energy is enough in and of  itself. Even we always need the polarity to feel our difference. Relationships can be seen as different puzle pieces, which we try to match. 

Woman in her feminine energy is self-loving, because her priority is to take care of her energy every day. But self-love does not equal self-care, even it may include it. When you love yourself its about elevation of your energy, its about inner glow and the mystical attractiveness. Its about being totally assured and calm in yourself without seeking approval and validation from others.

If the man doesn’t appreciate you, this has nothing to do with who you are, it `s always about him. He is not at your level, he can be filled with insecurities, as many men these days suffer from damaged masculine energy. Therefore, you don’t need to be surprised if it takes time to attract the exact man who is match for your energy, who can be caring, devoted and protective. Who can give you the feminine glow that you need.

Pay attention that there are many men who have blocked masculine energy, especially in the chakras Solar Plexus, Root and Throat. That means, they have low self-esteem, they are not in their power, they don’t have positive values and behaviour about women, they don’t know how to communicate. Therefore, as a woman don’t blame yourself for anything that men is not able to do for you.

  Just the opposite, have higher standards and higher energy, don’t accept anything like its too much for you. 

Self-love is to take your time alone, to reflect on yourself, to be patient and present in the moment, to focus on your spiritual growth, to cultivate inner peace, to connect with your emotions, to nurture your inner child, to practice gratitude and journal, to have inner joy.

   And also, self-love is to understand deeply what do you want and why, to know why you choose a man to be with, to evaluate him and what he gives to your life.

When you love yourself you put your priorities and well being first. Not anyone else (and totally not your man). You can start to take care of your body, mind and soul, have a healthy food habits and regime, devote time for rest, sleep, meditation, add supplements to nourish yourself, play sport, do yoga, chi gong or any kind of body movement. This is how the divine feminine is more loving, grounded and attractive. Take care of your home, plants or animal, have things that nurture your soul as a woman – create art, write, play music, or develop your psychic connection with Tarot cards, crystals, meditation. All of these are divine feminine practices.

Woman can not give back love if her cup is not filled. She is strong and fragile at the same time, this is magnetic.

Thats why it is pitiful to see women who have unrequited love for someone. This is a self-pity in disguise. It is pity to see women who do all and sacrifice themselves for just a man.

Do not look up to men, but look up to yourself, you are the goddess.

Thank you for tuning in!

To read part 4 click here...

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine feminine Energy - 6 Principles (Part 2)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and loved. 

  ♥ This is part 2 of my article, to read part 1 click here...

  The divine feminine energy is connected with the power of womb, with the creation process, with the Cosmic egg, with the ocean of nothingness, with the black holes, with the space and stars. Feminine is eternal, cosmic, self-loving, expanding beyond all. 

If the sun is the provider of life (masculine) ,the moon and the dark space between the stars is expansion (feminine).

If you are a woman you should be familiar with the void and empty spaces. In our world that means to be familiar and comfortable to be alone with yourself, to be self-knowing.

(Because of the destruction and dismantling of the divine feminine energy from the dark powers, we have fake, primitive and very imbalanced relationships between men and women.

They are related to the dynamic of power, control, humiliation, violence, manipulation, playing games, cruelty…This is how unhealthy our relationships are at this time.

But if you dedicate time to work on your divine feminine energy and take her back, all things will shift gradually on the planet.

From the poisoned waters of fake “feminine” energy, there is suffering and unhealthy masculine. 

You can return back to your feminine power of softness and calmness by being in the present moment, placing boundaries and knowing your VALUE. This is the key to feminine energy.

Then you will be able to attract healthy masculine energy to provide and care for you.

                      Principle 2: Attract, don not chase  ★

Chasing and pursuing is the opposite of being magnetic. You are out of balance with your feminine energy if you pursue. When you chase someone you are saying to the universe that you are desperate to have him in your life.

But remember, the one thing all women are “desperate” about is not a man but the LOVE itself. Women in their healthy feminine energy needs feeling of love, protection, care, safety. 

If you feel you need only a specific man this is result of your mind programming and karmic lessons you have with exactly this person. At this level of reality most women need multiple karmic lessons, which are usually very painful. 

A man in their healthy masculine needs a WOMAN and her energy. Exactly because of her way to give him love, not to sacrifice herself for him.

   There is nothing more pitiful and ridiculous than a woman who is chasing a man, or obsessing over someone. Then she has lost her divine feminine and she has lost the game. She is able only to push away what she needs. 

         The 3 Principle of feminine energy : Letting go

   Let go of old wounds, offences, pains and scars, let go of heart brake, judgement of her, criticism, let go of the harsh reality, the need to be perfect, and mostly let go of need to “chase someone who you think you love. Let go of fear of being alone, of abandonment and embrace them instead. Let go of her ego (but not dignity), of someone else.

This is the way to healthy detachment, creating boundaries and being in your feminine power.

You need to master the art of letting go as a woman. In reality men struggle to let go even more – but women don’t realise that. They struggle more with obsession and why? Because a man feels and is attracted to energy through his physical senses mostly : seeing her, hearing her voice, touching her, smelling her scent...All of these are attributes of divine masculine. But feminine is higher psychic senses – so women actually needs the energy of Love, safety and protection more than a specific physical man. (and thats total true).

He needs her real presence through connection, dating, seeing her, listening to her, touching and intimacy...while the woman needs mostly his energy of providing and pursuing.

They are like two magnets that pull together from the opposite side.

But most women did not master the art of letting go. They are clinging so much to the person they feel is safe” and the right for them, that they become not attractive, repelling, and without dignity.

Then this is the way to lose their VALUE and self worth.

When you stop loving yourself, taking care of yourself in all levels, being in your feminine energy and receiving, then you become like “object” and can be easily humiliated and manipulated.

To be able to let go, first you need to know in yourself that you are already beautiful, unique, special and precious as you are now. No need to do anything or prove anything to anyone.

You are a prise and a jewel, you are the pearl that others desire.

And more – to let go and detach you need to work with your fears from the past, fear of being alone, being seen, being vulnerable, being strange, being abandoned…This is the first step to divine feminine.

Know that beauty is always internal and energetic, not external.

But what is on the inside is reflected in your physical presence.

Women who are too active, controlling, restless, in their masculine energy, over giving, without emotional connection, not calm, can not attract men. (or not healthy masculine men).

You need to know how to let go of people (places, situations, past drama), that don’t resonate with your own level of vibration, and who are not valuable to you.

So, don’t ask the question : do I love this man? Or how much do I love him? Better ask the question: what value this man brings to me? How he makes me feel? Do that for each person in your life who you actually know.

Moreover, a woman in her healthy feminine energy does not afraid of being alone or being abandoned. She is afraid more of losing herself, or losing her value. This is the drama of the woman.

But the man is afraid of losing the woman more.

If you are too pleasing, too available, submissive, sacrificing, over giving, active, then she loses her natural feminine magnetism.

She will lose her value.

So, one of the most important qualities of divine feminine is self-respect and self-worth.

This is shown in knowing your values, believes and principle, don’t letting anyone to cross your boundaries. (especially without consequences). Knowing your self-worth. Then you will be wanted and pursued.

Thank you for tuning in!

You can read part 3 here...>

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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How to Reclaim your Divine Feminine Energy - 6 Principles (Part 1)

 

This article is channeled with the help of my guides and angels and archangels Haniel, Jophiel, Chamuel. I`ll clarify what is feminine energy and why it is very important for every woman to be in her divine feminine power so that she can be fulfilled and feel loved.

                     How to be in your feminine energy?

Feminine energy is rising on the planet at this time of turbulence,  big energy transformation is happening, which will affect all relationships and also Divine masculine energy.

   Feminine energy is not weak, submissive, too passive, accommodating as many people may think. Just the opposite, this energy has huge creation power within. 

Feminine energy is about softness, calmness, gentleness, receptivity, inner peace, self-love, self-care, nurturing, grounding, loving, giving love, soothing.

Divine feminine is in each woman, as each woman is here as representation of the goddess, Lunar goddess, maiden, priestess, mother. She is so deep and multifaceted, she is complex. (much more complex than the masculine energy) so it is not easy to be understood.

 Divine feminine is mysterious, attractive, seductive, and in the same time soft and authentic. She is magnetic without pretence and arrogance, without explaining herself. She is the creation of the world from the void within the cosmic egg.

Understand her and feel her in yourself, and know -you embody  divine feminine. This energy has qualities of water moving and shaping the stones around in soft and persistent way.

Every woman is like different source of water, holding power of the nature and universe – the laws of attraction and laws of unity. One can be felt like lake, peaceful and serne, other can be like sea, ocean with big waves of emotions and depth, one can be like a river (flowing freely through obstacles of life),  other can feel like snow - holding power of purification and detachment, true winter. 

To embody the feminine energy you need to let go of principle of constant "doing” and embody the being and presence.

If feminine is about letting go, masculine energy is about fire – transformation and destruction, total change.

To understand this energy look closely to the elements of water and Earth. Both are calm, nourishing, accepting, being in themselves.

They don’t rush to change, but they accept change through letting go.

Here are some feminine qualities which you can observe:

Soft, gentle, more passive, calm, receptive, self-loving, soothing, letting go, nurturing, emotional, flexible, changeable, psychic, intuitive, slowing down, attracting, seducing. 

The masculine energy from another side has the qualities of fire and air – quick, active, explosive, restless, sharp, transformative, providing, passionate, activating, protective, logical, giving love, supportive, creating change.

The masculine energy is pursuing, the feminine is being pursued.

Feminine is like a pearl or a gem – shining and enough in itself.

In this list of qualities there are no oppositions, but different modalities – of the spectrum Yin and Yang.

                  Softness and how to be soft and calm 

One of the most attractive qualities of the divine feminine is softness (calmness). Anything that is soft doesn’t need to fight or to prove itself – it just attracts protection and care. Most women sadly have lost their softness in the world of constant fast movement and false matrix models of how “feminine” should look like, which is fake and untruth.

But feminine energy is empowered through softness not through being sharp. Calmness is not being dull, indifferent, or being taken for granted. Calmness is being totally assured in your own inner peace, your own power to get what you need, your power to be vulnerable without losing yourself.

Softness means many things on many levels. You let your emotions flow like water, your are calm and you don’t resist or reject your emotions. Just the opposite – you validate them and you observe why do you feel so? You understand your emotions because they are beautiful messages of your body and heart. They should not be avoided but accepted and seen.

When you feel your emotions you can observe from higher level and not react. (which shows losing control).

There is no more ugly sight than a woman (or man) who has lost control over her emotions. It looks repelling.

So, in order to be magnetic and attract love, you need to be calm, present, collected, grounded. You need to release all inner fears and doubts, don’t react to anything and be in your power.

But that needs a self-training and need for self-development for every woman. That required self awareness which doesn’t happen overnight.

                    Ask yourself these questions:

- What triggers my emotions?

- What triggers this specific feeling of (anger, anxiety, sadness)?

- can I remove myself from the source of this emotions?

- How can I return back to my calmness and softness?

The feminine energy is related to the great Void. Its mystical, magnetic, pulling, seductive. It contains the darkness of the unknown, its unresolved puzzle. Therefore, she cant be easily known or possessed. She is like siren and mermaid.

This is part 1 of my article, please read part 2 here ..>

Nina Nour Bluebell  ©

medium, psychic, healer

August 2026 

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Ancestral Karma, patterns and karmic knots -what do you need to know -part I

 

Ancestral energy and karma we carry is one of the most important aspects influencing our lives on many levels. That`s why it is so important to understand ancestral karmic patterns and how they work from generation to generation. Here I write this article with the help of Archangel Jeremiel and my angels. 

   Ancestral karma is imprinted in your DNA as etheric energy codes, they are with you in this life time, and sometimes when you are reborn in the next life within the same family line. That means, you have inherited certain imprints (negative and positive) that are activated within you from the day you are born. But mostly the ancestral patterns start to play more visibly after the age of 11-12 (when the child has his first expansion of the Root chakra).

Ancestral karma can bring you lots of divine support and luck, but also can be a cause of downfall. If your energy is too dense and if you are not able to understand and untie some karmic knots.

If you are first born child in a family (or if you are only child), your soul has chosen you to carry the karmic blueprint from the lineage of your father mostly. That means you need to look for and recognize elements and repeated patterns in the relationship with your father, and partly your mother, and to know how they are affecting you. This can be valid also for the inner emotional state, outer look (if you resemble your father or someone in his lineage), for the way he deals with people around and his general attitude. This doesn’t mean you will not be totally unique individual, but you need to search for similarities, and points of conflict between you and your father.

Look into the whole lineage of your father – his father and mother, his grandparents, and see how they lived and what is the furthest point you can reach to.

   ★ The first child, boy or girl has special connection with the father and has stronger etheric cords with him, which will support him in his life time. The same is valid for the 3 or 5-th child in the family.

If you are first born girl, you carry the blueprint from your father`s line, and you are here to balance your Divine feminine energy, as well as working on healing the feminine energy in the whole lineage. You need to look into the patterns and relationships you have with the women from the lineage of your father (his sister(s), mother). What do you find? Write it down, even if it doesn’t make sense. Also, if you are  girl you need to work to enhance your feminine qualities and bring them to light, and you will have wounded feminine energy, or wounded inner child in both lineages of your father and mother.

See some proofs in family dynamics about that. That can be dominant or overcontrolling father and grandfathers, suppressed divine feminine, suppressed emotions and so on? 

You need to understand and observe repeated patterns, believes and behaviours in all women in your fathers side and mother side. What are the wounds, fears and trauma regarding your feminine energy and its expression in your family. Secondly, you need to heal the relationship with your mother, cut the negative ties, re write soul contracts and forgive.

If you are a first born boy in your family, you will carry the karmic blueprint of your father and have special relationship with all men in the family (both on his side and your mother line). In this case you are here as your soul choose to work on your Divine masculine qualities and divine warrior energy, acquiring self-discipline, resilience, protection, defending others, giving support. Notice that, if you have to work on these qualities, they are already out of alignment for various reasons in your family. Many people in the society have wounded inner warrior energy.

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, crystal healer

September 2024