Inspiration. One of the best and maybe hardest way to enjoy your partners love
is by inspiration. Being together and sharing can make you both inspired for
creating new things. That’s wonderful way to grow, and be happy together;
Inspiration can be about anything that you enjoy doing together –music, cinema,
art, photography, spirituality. Sometimes of course your inspiration will be
“crossed” – that means you`ll not be in the same sphere, but ll complement each
other; if your partner is for example director, you could be an actress; maybe
your love-mate is photographer, and you love to be a model; maybe your partner
is a poet and you love to read poetry! So many combinations are there for both
sides…that just by simple desire and inspiration they can do much. Inspiration
is the impulse of life and water source.
Another source of inspiration in this
respect can be the common believes (religious views). It`s not obligatory at all
your partner to share the same believes about God –universe with you…but your
relationship will be much more cohesive (in stronger union) if he does. Sharing
common religion and believes is not an issue from yesterday. This is old well
thought respective in love life –still highly important in many societies world
wide. Some people professing a faith of their ancestors, wont be able to accept
their partner in life to have another faith or religion. There are many strict
rules and closed societies; (Muslims can marry Christians but they never
consider them “equal” moreover only man is allowed to marry woman Christian,
and not opposite). Catholic Christians wouldn’t marry any other denomination,
even belonging to Christ (like Orthodox, protestant). The same can be said
about Jewish, Buddhist, Mormons, Hindus…As we see all that so called
“prejudice” exist in the modern world. Many people would say now – we are free
enough, we are above the religion views and values, we have love as highest
principle. Love is most important –this is true. But its not enough in the
physical world –we have to admit. Love is given in multiple forms and lessons,
and not as perfect flower- which is sent down as gift from the sky. Love comes
with sweet and bitter experiences and should be grown personally by anyone. Its
not a perfect flower from God – in this way we would be angels and wouldn’t
need a physical body. That`s why, I have to say – the prejudice of the
religious societies and norms for marriage life – have their right ground. Love
is most beautiful feeling, and we all like to enjoy thinking and discussing it,
or write poems about. But its more beautiful always in words and in theory,
than in physical world and deeds. All people are amazing poets and have oratory
gift to express about love – in words, speech. When it comes to deeds,
accomplishment and prove in reality, things are much different. That’s quite
normal to be so, as physical world is always heavier and more complicated than
the world of imagery. What you dream can become true one day – but rarely in
the same shape of your dream.
That’s
why be aware of some statistic about failed and successful marriages between
people from different faith. Make a simple research and don’t close your eyes
in front of the truth. We can see plenty examples of not only broken interfaith
relationships (which you expect to be tolerant), but many of just of different
social, countries, races and so on connections. Sadly is truth. Reasons are
many, and I wont discuss them here; There are always a nice example of good and
strong love-mate stories of the same interfaith kind – but only when both
partners don’t have dominant religious views (or extreme religious principles).
In
other cases – if you are Christian woman for ex. – and have specially negative
views about Islam in general, condemning violent actions, beheading and role of
the women in Muslim society, you wont be satisfied with the strong Muslim
partner with the dominant religious views; surely your relationship will fail
soon with pain, even if he is the prince on the white horse for you.
Religion
and believes matter and are significant for both partners, because of
simple understanding of human values, ethics, morality, forgiveness and all
what is actually included in growing healthy love-tree.
You
need to be on the “same wave”, or in nearly to equal energy level, spiritual
level, in order your relationship to be wonderful and to accomplish your dream.
You can also survive in another states, with pure and open heart, but you ll
feel always something missing.
And
it’s the truth – in most relationships something is missing –if we like to
admit or not. This is because they are given from past lives for our lessons
and growing, and not just to smile and laugh.
If
there is perfect love-mate relationship – there is extremely rarely – in relationship of Soul mates and the so
called “Twin flames”, that are also not well understood here.
This is the final part of my article about "Love tree", you are free to add any comments and questions (or critics too, you are welcome!).
[ nina Lea-nura * ]
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