Love tree -questions to yourself

   * Following my last text in IV parts about Love tree,  I want to add some suggestions on how to find out if your relationship is real love-tree that will bloom?

Sit in a quite place for a while, and write down on a paper the following questions to yourself. After you answer them you`ll be closer to the truth.

1. Are you thankful for having your beloved (partner) in your life? Why? Write the real reason! (…)
2. Write down 10 positive qualities that your lover possess (…)
3. write down 5 positive qualities that he doesn’t have, but you wished him to have. (…)
4. Close your eyes, breath. Imagine your partner is gone away and wont return anymore. How do you feel? Are you sad? Depressed? Happy? Indifferent? Write down.
5. Do you feel truly happy with him? Why? (…)
6. When is the last time he made a present for you? what was the present? What did he say?
7. When was the last time you made present for him? What did he say?
8. Do you feel loved every day? What are the little gestures of love –words from your partner, that he shows you love?
9. Look at your partner – or imagine him – do you feel love in his eyes?

9.a. what is the best thing about him?

9.b. do you feel more peaceful when he is with you? or when he is away from you?

9.c. do you help him in everyday activities with readiness – cleaning, washing, making breakfast…?

9.d. does he help you in everyday activities? In which one?

9.e. what is the best thing he made for you today?

9.f. what is the best thing he made for you last week, this month?

9.g. what is the best thing ever he made for you? and you for him?

From this short-long essay I tried to observe the many possible aspects of love-mate relationships and what are basic qualities to possess for maintaining and growing beautiful love Tree.

I hope for all of you your trees to bloom and thrive, watered with much love, trust and devotion!

Abide in divine Light! 

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

(* next I`ll write about different types of people, expressed in love relationships – honey bee, butterfly, spider, scorpion, snail, mosquito). 

~ art by: Daria Petrilli