* Please read part I ...
Please
stop here for a while and think or write down, how many people you know, who
are soul-mates? Is there anyone?
Now
write down when was the last time you enjoyed with your soul-mate together?
What was that moment and why was unforgettable? What qualities of your friend
you admire and want to have yourself? What qualities you dislike in him?
More
about soul-mates on a higher level. When you have a soul-mate, be sure that he
wont leave you in any time stage of your life (except if circumstances not
force him). The perfect soul-mate (here some people will say I look too “high
in the sky”) –should possess the qualities of Jesus, Buddha, Lao Tzu and of any
ascended master. Most important of them are found in another white triad – love
–forgiveness – support. These are the divine qualities, and please note – not
everyone possess them, or even close to them. What we call “love” encompasses
all beautiful qualities of unconditional love. These love means – joy, free
heart, acceptance, compassion, empathy, tolerance, seeing inside the heart of
another. This is love. The divine aspect of forgiveness is another amazing quality
people didn’t develop. They are torn by so many heavy, dark feelings –
jealousy, selfishness, egoism, envy…so they are not very able to let space in
their hearts for true forgiveness. All is connected in the universe, and this
white divine triad is too – you need first to feel unconditional love in order
to feel forgiveness to someone. You need to invite acceptance in your
mind-heart in order to feel love. When you have love and forgiveness is much
easier to you to give your heart for another –support, help, empathy. Its not
easy to see and feel the real heart of another. That’s why there are ascended
masters who we need to strive to be alike! We always learn, fail, again learn
and fail… and process seem to be endless. But we all study here on the earth
plane. That’s why we are here. When someone is higher enough in energy plane,
he will love, accept and forgive his soul mate; as his heart wont be able to
live in darkness. To support others is another so challenging thing for humans.
We all think and believe – we are so good souls –we help and want to help
others –poor children, old people, orphans, organizations, Red cross, help in
world conflicts and tragedies as with Syria. But even so-we cant feel the real
human –next door. To see in his heart without contempt, nor overbearing, that
we are much higher. To feel his struggle, sadness. ( and many would say there
is no need to). We are created to be selfish, to think first of our own
interest.
Why
in my common prayer to God and angels I finish with words – “thank you for your
love, support and care for me…” The God and angels are able of that total
support, no matter of your sins, and pitfalls. No matter of all, God is there
always with open arms to forgive you! When you feel real repentance – and admit
inside of yourself you did wrong. He and only he will forgive you. But you`ll
be already in your own “punishment” feelings.
Another
important aspect, connected with the above triad of love-forgiveness, is
sharing the painful moments. From my own experience I understood well: people
do not like to stay with someone, who is in moment of depression, sadness,
despair. And exactly then most of people are easily left alone for long time. No
one likes to share tears, sadness and cry, everyone loves to share happiness,
joy, laughter. That `s quite normal. But if you have a friend, who loves you
much and with who you shared many amazing moments of happiness, he laughed when
you smile, and he was close to you, when you won in lottery for ex. – will this
friend also stand with you during your hard time? When you are depressed and
need support? When you need help and good word? When you feel alone? When you
are ill? If no –please consider this “friend” not as a soul-mate. Surely he
does not love you.
Real
soul-mate stands with you in any time – no matter how hard is. He will not
always cry when you do – he may even smile and make you smile too. This is the
most beautiful of such soul- connection. That`s why not all can be your
soul-mates! Even very few –or one. Something more – when he stands with you and
sooths your pain, he wouldn’t want something in return, nor he will think “yes,
she cries now, I hardly can stand this, but as she also was with me that day
before…that’s why..”. Such thoughts are selfish and account –thoughts. Sadly
many people do that considering they are good friends. Remember: real soul-mate
will be with you just because he loves you unconditionally! All other plans –
accounts and chess games will be left behind.
One
more statement I want to make in the end: your true love – or the person who
you love with all your heart – should be first your soul-mate too. He will
possess also some additional qualities, that makes your bound amazing and
unique.
For
the end of this entry, I want to turn directly to you (and to myself): look
yourself in the mirror now. What do you see? Do you think you are good friend
for others? Do you feel you had the same qualities that you admire in others?
Do you love yourself? Do you forgive yourself first? Do you trust you heart?
Are you honest with yourself? All the above qualities I ask now for yourself.
Look in the mirror, be free –as no one is there just your angels! Say the
truth.
After
this exercise and thoughts you`ll know well what you need to work on more. Be
sure that: the best friend of all in your life is and will be YOURSELF.
The
next best friends–connected with yourself –are God and angels. Everyone else
can betray you, disappoint you, leave you, put you down, judge you, not
understand you, criticize you, dislike you…but God and your angels never will
do. Be happy you are on the win side no matter what, if you have your faith!
(*
next entry I`ll explain about the third category – friends-weeds)
Abide
in divine light!
[ nina Lea-nura* ]
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