I
want to write on a special topic today, it may sound so familiar to you, that
even can be slightly boring. About who is your best friend? Who you can
consider as your true soul-mate?
I`m
sure many people write on that, and its really great, as we`ll have many
different opinions in this way.
I
want to clarify, what is meaning of friend first and then –what is a soul mate?
And
I leave a space for you to write your thoughts before me (…)
To
my story – I personally lost many friends this year (– 9 –) which is finishing
a cycle, divine number, preparing for the new beginning. Before that I didn’t
have many friends at all, even little of them I can call true friends, and no
one soul-mate. Then I was thinking, why is that so?
Here
is what I was revealed in meditation from my angels. We cant expect people
around us to be all friends, or always “friendly” and good to us. They are here
to teach you a lesson, to give you something –in time when your energies are in
match, and to take something from you. That is normal for the friends
–connections. Most of people around us are actually this first category –
connections. That mean people, who come in your life in certain time, when you
both need, you share common interests, ideas and like similar things. These
connections are more from the outside – such friends are mainly met during your
earlier life-span (until 31-36, even with everyone is different). You can share
the same views, agree or argue in topics you like, share moments of joy and
happiness together. If you are interested for example in –one kind of music,
yoga, Arabic dance, languages, black and white movies, photography, classical
music, translation, poetry, cinema and so on…you ll meet friends-connections
who are definitely interested in the same. But you ll not meet a person who
will be exactly like you – and have your exact unique energy pattern, and
interested in exact aspects of your likes and dislikes. In this way what you
meet are – different people- connections, each of them is prone to one or
more of your likes and passions; but each will have others unique likes and
passions that not belong to you and don’t match yours. That`s quite normal.
With one friend-connection for example you can share language study and be in
one language course; with another –go to belly dance, with another start
translation and discuss about it, with another write poetry and share ideas
about...The world is colorful and changing that`s why, because we all are
different – as we have unique aura color patterns, unique understanding, unique
passions and likes. Are such people friends? Yes, they can be considered as
friends – connections, exactly because one of their interests is
matching one of yours in the similar life-span period. In this way they are
friends, but…I`ll ask a question here: is everyone from your language course
your friend even he has the same interest as you to study language? Is everyone
from the yoga group, art class, Arabic dance…your friend? It`s easy to get the
answer – no. why is this so? Simply because except outer pattern of passions,
likes and dislikes –visible to others, humans have a soul and spiritual side,
specific energy patterns, aura, soul connections, past life experiences, stage
in a life –path, stage of spiritual growth, practices, feelings, mentality,
sensitivity, social influences, family background. All of these things form the
unique criteria for each person, so we cant be repeated two times as human
beings. We have stamp of energy around us, and we do not let everyone just by
outer visible passions, interests match –to be close to us. In this way we need
some people to be closer, so we can consider them trustful enough. That people
will be exactly the second category – Soul mates.
Soul
mates are not easy to be found and they are not always available in all life
stages with us. Consider that. I want to clarify what are the basic qualities
of the soul-mates which we can look for or recognize them. First of all – sharing.
The symbolic triad of the soul-mate is: sharing –trust – honesty. These are
most important roots of the friendship tree; they also will grow the tree of
Love later; without sharing –any common interest, passion, likes –there wont be
basis for any soul connection –or even love. Without sharing also the qualities
of honesty and trust are prevented from their bloom on the tree. To be honest
means to be comfortable enough and consider other person as trustful enough, so
you can admit and share anything. Any fear of judgment, fear to be left, of
criticism will just spoil the tree of soul-connection. The soul-mate should be
so close to you, that you wont be afraid to say all the truth about yourself;
that doesn’t mean just to “not lie” to the person. That means you should be
comfortable enough to not put a mask on your face in different situations,
knowing that this person is familiar with your inner self.
The
first principle of soul-mates – you can be yourself, be free to express
yourself freely in any moment without fear of judgment. Here is another
dominating triad of the soul-tree: truthfulness - freedom – self-expression.
All these are beautiful blossoms of the tree of friendship. When you consider
someone close to you, trust him, share with him, its easy for you to feel free.
That freedom is important and in the basis of any kind of relationship –even
with yourself. Be free to express yourself, to say what you feel and think; be
free also from negative emotions like Fear, jealousy, envy, criticism,
negative attitude for another. Then you can be sure your friendship is real. With
your soul mates you can share what is in your heart, and not by chance its said
–you can be even silent, they will feel and understand you.
(* Continue to part II - )
[ nina Lea-nura* ]
1213 -9-
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