Meaning of Responsibilities -III

Part III 

Is the question correct: Are we responsible for other people feelings?

       The question is not correctly put, as there can be several different sides to it. First of all is important to state here: what we understand in being “responsible”? Who are other people? What are feelings? So there are different aspects of that question, in that way we can be quite confused if we try to answer it in that unclear way. Because both answers Yes, no would be wrong. So how we can ask that question, in order to reach the truth?

First we could ask question: Are we responsible for my own feelings? Then you really start to realise where is the emphasise: Feelings – responsible. When we look at the main responsibilities for the human Soul development, we see obligation to our body (physical), Soul (heart, feelings), Spirit (mindfulness, vision, ideas), Creative Self (talents, missions, callings). So we are surely responsible for our feelings, the same as we are responsible for nature, eco-system, forests, our soul mates, relationships, family members. But is that actually so? No, most people don’t feel good in their obligations – as they don’t implement their free will in them. Also because they don’t have higher consciousness about certain aspects. The truth is in order to choose free your responsibilities you need to have certain level of mindfulness and awareness. On the other side, who are “others”? That is very general word, and anyone can be in this category  - family, relatives, friends, neighbours, strangers…Can we be responsible in fact for anyone`s feelings (emotions)? No, that is irrelevant, as we are not living inside this person`s mind, heart, in order to be “responsible”. That’s is the same like to say – I`m responsible for the cleanness of someone`s house? I m responsible for the bad relationship that my friend has with his partner? I m responsible for the crime in my city? Here is the clue – I as individual (mind-heart-body) can not be responsible with my free Will for any of these aspects. But we as a whole, one organism, society, group, family – can be responsible about each other. In this way we are responsible (together) for each others feelings, exactly because all things from one element (in the whole) affects all other elements. That is called state of interconnectedness. That’s how humanity, societies, cultures, family works as a whole organism, it has separate elements (individuals), but is has also Oneness. In this way we need to grow understanding for our Oneness and consciousness how our actions, thoughts and feelings are related to others. All affects all.

Furthermore in this question – there is a direct relation between obligations to ourselves and obligations to others. Or consciousness about these obligations. For ex. People who are unaware or neglect their health (physical body) by smoking or drinking excessive alcohol, or any other way, or by sexual addiction, they cant be expected to be totally aware also of their own state of Soul (feelings) and Mind (spirit); How they can be responsible now for someone`s else feelings or thinking (spirit) or physical health? That is good question, so answer it.

      Also people who are totally not responsible (neglect, ignore) for nature, animals, trees, environment, how to be expected to implement their free will to obligations in their home space? People who cant feel responsible (or neglect) others desires, feelings, how to be responsible (care for) their own state of emotions, feelings, desires? As you see all questions here are interconnected in perfect way.

That’s why spiritual teachers (and archangels) give us always clue to look first to ourselves deeper, to understand ourselves, in order to be able to feel and understand Others. (I would say significant others, because we meet people who are related to our spiritual lessons and journey). These significant others feelings, desires, role, and mind really matter to us. We are responsible for them – but this responsibility includes only things related to our connection and to the extend our influence reaches. In this sense we cant be totally responsible for: bad mood of someone, negative thoughts, excessive desires, jealousy, envy, or others…

So we are separated element as individuals, but this element is included in the bigger mechanism of family, groups, children, relationships, society, country, world. Each of these bigger structures has specific aspects, values, norms and lows. That’s how all is connected – in levels of mind and heart.

We need to reach to certain level, where we`ll implement our free will and desire in all our actions, and responsibilities. We need to be open to growth, and don’t afraid of change.

In this point responsibility will start working.

Thank you for tuning in! Follow the way of divine Light and Abundance!

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Nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium 

The Strength - VIII

VIII. Strength card (World of Manifestation, Sphere of inner Power)

Most often you will see a lion on traditional Tarot decks on this card. Moreover the lion (passions, power) is tamed by a gentle woman –maybe a Priestess. In traditional depiction she is dressed in white robe and has symbol of Infinity above her head. Represents the zodiac sign of Leo – gentle power within ourselves, not manifestation of strength. The spiritual symbol of the card is arch. Michael – love and protection) Various meanings:

-        you will achieve inner power on your path, you will overcome your negative qualities, habits, desires that no longer serve you

-         You have higher spiritual energy, which you will use to achieve your goals.

-         You will be master over your passions and lower desires.

-         You will have the courage, energy, passion and dynamic action needed to achieve what you need.

-         You are on the path of spiritual ascension, which makes you stronger and polishes your inner qualities.

-      mastering balance between feminine and masculine energy and leaving aspects of Ego behind

-         Being influenced by someone with sign Leo

-         You need qualities persistence, patience, inner strength.

-         You are surrounded by people/ someone who are compassionate, and have gentle influence on your life

-        The level of emotions will be transcended in order to go to higher spiritual wisdom

-        Conquer your fears, control your emotions, feel inner strength, realize your positive qualities and abilities

-         Higher level of consciousness, being responsible for yourself

Archangel: Michael

Crystals: ruby, sunstone, red jasper, tigers eye, golden topaz

Associated Major Arcana: The Star

Spiritual quality: courage, strength, letting go of fears, be open to joy  

Spiritual message: I conquer my fears, I control my emotions, I`m filled with power and joy. 

(photo credit: Strength, Fairy Tarot by Doreen Virtue)
(note: Doreen Virtue reverses back the older and original numbers of Strength making it number 11, while Justice is number 8 in her deck). 

nina Lea-nour *

angel`S medium

Heart chakra -relationships, illnesses -III

Part III ...

(...) These are strong principles of Christ consciousness. If you can achieve this state of heart in Purity, you achieve Christ consciousness.

This is the source of Heart center – we can see the basic parameter in it:

Quality: unconditional love, generosity

Feeling: Love, compassion

Desire: forgiveness

Relationship: to all humanity, specially people who are hurt, miserable

Elements: honey, flower essences, essential oils, aromas;

Totem animal: white dove; swan

Other very significant aspects of Heart chakra can be seen in the following relations:

-        care, love, active defending of all natural resources – forests, trees, plants, rivers, lakes, spa, mountain springs, seas, waterfalls;

-     care and active devotion and defense of all animals (domestic and wild animals) specially the one who suffer, homeless or ill

-      care and active devotion to all agriculture and organic growing of foods – fruits, vegetables, corn;

-       care and active devotion for purity of air and all water resources;

Heart chakra -relationships, illnesses -II

   Part II...

    

     This inner child is in most cases of human life “wounded” in the past (in your childhood), or in the present moment from harmful relationships. Any person with wounded inner child, will have difficulties with his future relationships – specially intimate ones, but also with friends. Now what happens in relationship is that you give openly and with Love the opportunity to your partner to “heal” and love your inner child. This child is wounded from the past, and needs to be healed and nourished. Now the partner (your beloved) takes this opportunity for healing, and spreads cords to your heart and Solar Plexus. You trust this process and all seems well. In a special moment – can be one, two or many years) you realize that your child is not only not healed” but wounded even more; and that your partner took advantage of your trust and openness, using your power and love. That’s how person feels betrayed and disappointed. This is the same feeling like you give someone a precious gift (from your heart), he takes it and throw it in garbage. So it hurts. That’s how the inner child of your partner does not connect with your inner child. Then the “love” is impossible.