Part II...
This
inner child is in most cases of human life “wounded” in the past (in your childhood), or in the present moment from harmful relationships. Any person with
wounded inner child, will have difficulties with his future relationships –
specially intimate ones, but also with friends. Now what happens in
relationship is that you give openly and with Love the opportunity to your
partner to “heal” and love your inner child. This child is wounded from the
past, and needs to be healed and nourished. Now the partner (your beloved)
takes this opportunity for healing, and spreads cords to your heart and Solar
Plexus. You trust this process and all seems well. In a special moment – can be
one, two or many years) you realize that your child is not only not healed” but
wounded even more; and that your partner took advantage of your trust and
openness, using your power and love. That’s how person feels betrayed and
disappointed. This is the same feeling like you give someone a precious gift
(from your heart), he takes it and throw it in garbage. So it hurts. That’s how
the inner child of your partner does not connect with your inner child. Then
the “love” is impossible.