Psychological patterns of transgression- VI (rape, sexual abuse)

VI.                   Transgression of rape and sexual abuse

     From spiritual aspect this kinds of transgression is equally "hard crimes", as well as crimes by all lows and social regulations. The hardest crime looks on the surface with similar psychological reasons as “murder”. But the truth is, committing sexual abuse is crime closer to suicide. That comes from the same need: of self-love. In contrast to person who is able to commit murder, or thief (who needs to feel love to others, to give love), someone who is able for rape needs to feel love for/towards himself. He is with the one of the lowest energies of all crimes. He is person in state of blocked heart, not just injured, and blocked Third eye and most chakras are in state of imbalance. Another fear for such individual is fear of death (to lose life), fear of losing someone that he loved (family, child). That reflects in ill mind. All of the people, who commit heard crimes (like murder, or sexual abuse) are already in state of ill mind and escape from reality. They don’t see anymore the world, but they see it from their eyes of blocked heart. Of course they should have lived for long period of time in this state, in order to commit hard crime. Love is the cure, but it cant come in closed heart. That’s why there is no other way for such people, but from themselves, realizing and opening their heart. In the same way, person who commits suicide, has closed Heart center, the picture of whole world around him is collapsed, he view life as empty paper, without meaning. That’s why this person is “lost soul”, that means he cant find his inner self, he lost connection with his Inner child.

    Of course not everyone who have lost connection with his inner child can reach to the bottom. Transgression is question of choice. If you are able to commit murder, or tell lie, that doesn’t mean you will do it. You have choice – to make action or not. That’s why all crimes are question of choice. Not all people that are able to commit murder will do that, also because of cause – and effect. They may not fall in trap of “suitable situation” or experience the negative emotion to high extend in order to do the crime. That’s why I said before  - negative states of mind and what religion consider as a sin (lie, mischief, rage, aggression, beating, greed, gluttony..) can be not labeled as crimes by social law. But they are the root for real criminal actions.

The transgression that has strongest karmic cause- effect is Incest – to have attraction or sexual desire to someone, who is forbidden for you from social law. This kind of crime is also hidden as it speaks about taboo and trauma from past life experience. Many times patterns are repeating, not as we think, all what we experience in past life will be in opposite side now. People who commit incest are like ill who take their illness from long time ago, but they are not aware of it. 

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