We often hear about healing the “inner child”, wounded child and
childhood trauma in spiritual circles. There are many different views on what
is “inner child”, so I asked my angels for more details on this topic. Here
is their message.
★Inner child is identity construct of the Soul –self. It is the state
of Primordial soul before coming to this life (or dense matter).
You need to be aware that your inner child has multiple levels of
existence in different levels and dimensions. The child can also be called
“child-Self” it is made up of all emotional, mental and spiritual bodies of You
(Soul) when you were a child. That period is slightly different for each
person, but usually encompasses the age between 3-4 and 12-13 years. The inner
child Self is one living on the liminal space, or the verge before your mind
being programmed of the duality world and social conditioning.
You can imagine that the inner child lives out of the state of all norms
and conditions, out of the “social prison” and therefore it is out of the state
of understanding logic and mind.
This child lives in pure emotional engagement, in need of love, joy and
communication with the outer world.
Simply put – the child Self lives and accepts all as one, he is in world
of oneness, while the adult self is in world of duality (or negative and
positive).
When we grow older (and after age of 16) we gradually forget about the
state of purity, joy and oneness, as we learn the rules of the social game –
norms, restrictions and conditions. That is our way to survive as social
creatures. In this way we come far away from our inner freedom, and closer to
inner prison of the Soul.
Your inner child consists of your childhood emotions, mind, spiritual
body and all the early impressions of your child-soul. ✪ Your inner child, as
your Primordial soul (which is eternal) is far more complex – it contains the
soul matrix of your “inner children” from all past lives and all stars and
dimensions beyond this.
That becomes totally different concept from what most people
imagine.
The child-Self now becomes strongly connected to your emotional body,
heart energy and sub-conscious mind. Exactly these are the places that hold
most cellular memory and etheric imprints from past childhood trauma.
The inner child is out of all normal organised realities as we know it.
Because it exists in oneness only, he does not understand divisions. (example:
many children don’t differentiate gender, race or religion on spiritual
level). The child is in state of freedom, bliss and innocence –which continues
before the first expansion and creation of the first chakra Muladhara at the
age of 12.
⭐ The child Self is connected to the imagination and the deep
sub-conscious mind and it strives to align your Soul with the soul, emotions of
all “inner children” in our past and from all previous incarnations.
That is a quite important role and at the soul level we have this “inner
child” imprints always within. But at the certain point in life – we feel
abandoned, disappointed and we lose connection with the child-Self. That
happens in when we collect enough moments of abandonment in our cells, so that
we don’t feel the world as safe as we thought.
There are 3 basic fears of our inner child, that are crucial for our
later existence and life view. There are:
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fear of abandonment
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fear of shame, guilt
- fear of pain, control
In the first state these fears come to live in emotional level. The
child does not understand” the reality in its 3D form, but it has feeling and
intuition to it.
This deeper feeling- intuition and premonition we lost when we grew up
in social prison.
Fear of abandonment can play crucial role into the youth and adult life
of the Soul – and it can replay the bad scenarios in many cases. That’s because
child soul needs to remove and cleanse the early trauma, which happens only
with deep healing on sub-conscious level.
Therefore souls often choose people who remind” them (on sub-conscious
level) of the childhood trauma or abandonment.
The child (inner child) is free from social norms of duality – in gender, race and differences, also it doesn’t understand the “time-space” and it if free from the agenda “what if”. The child also doesn’t understand the connection between choice – action and consequence.
The child-self is always connected to the ancestral karma, trauma and
love. Therefore we can find and heal wounded child in all of these concepts. It
holds the matrix and programs of all previous inner children – the way they
felt loved, the way they experienced trauma.
What is childhood trauma? ★
If you have experienced all 3 childhood fears – in the age
before 13-15 (abandonment, guilt/ shame, pain/ aggression) in any level, then
you had a childhood trauma.
This is something like wound of the soul and it needs to be healed in
us. That healing happens in stages, not at once. As we keep our inner child,
but in times we have lost our connection to it –so the first thing to do is to
re-establish our connection to the inner child.
🍍Please continue to part 2 here. >>
Angel`s medium
Oct. -2022/ 15 ©
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