How to practice Self-love? II

     Another aspect is to realize that your mistakes and flaws are part of your lessons and they are part of your life journey. Don’t be self-critical, self-judgmental. Most souls who feel so, they are already judgemental to all other people. That’s why detach from judgement. Be free in this way, accept your mistakes, or down falls only as steps and lessons. Don’t ignore them, but accept the lesson and go on. Most people who practice self-love are aware also of others, and do practice empathy and compassion. They cant see the life only as joy, even that will be one of the big bonuses for them in higher levels. But they need to expand, which happens with transformation.

    Self love needs practice and devotion, its not just a word. It doesn’t need just thinking, but doing. Another important aspect is also – don’t let yourself to be judged, or not valued, or to be affected by others, who don’t see real You. There always will be such people (specially in lower levels). That’s why self-love is also about having healthy BOUNdaries and respecting freedom of others. Be as you are, say what you think and feel, in a way that don’t harm another. Be strong in your position and don’t be afraid to speak the truth. Show your truth self, and don’t be ashamed to show your self and mission to others (regardless if they feel, love or understand you!). That’s how you are powerful being. You are creator. And with that comes another aspect  - forgiving others.

      Other aspects of self-love include the realization of Joy. You have joyful moments (happy moments) in all days throughout life. You just need to feel, acknowledge and connect deeply to these beautiful moments, so your soul experience bliss. Joy is connected also with gratitude for what you are, and what you have now. Always be grateful to the universe and archangels for all in your life. That will bring you many blessings on the way. (See the article …What is abundance?).

    That’s why dear light workers, include real and deep moments of joy in each day: feel the see the beautify of nature, scenery, flower or tree. Be quite inside. Laugh and play with people around you, be smiling inside always. That will appear on your face. Be confident and firm in yourself and proud of your achievements. Be loving, giving and ready to receive!

All joy is awaiting for you to receive just now. Write a list with what things makes you happy. What you love doing? And bring yourself all of these moments. Bring yourself items that make you happy, but set self-discipline to not draw all attention to material things.

Feel the flow of the universe, and how many goods are coming to you, if you are just ready to receive with open arms.

    Feel that you are valuable, precious and deserving of all universal Love. And angels will bring all of that to you. 

Be aware that self-love is not about indulging in only rich material world, and luxuries. Its not about having all what you desire in the outer world, (then you cant practice self-love). Without balancing of all aspects of Self and Soul, you will experience more and more anxiety, more pain, more unsatisfaction.

Stay blessed dear Lightworkers! Follow the way of divine Light!

N*ina Lea-nour *