Soul Types and stereotypes -II

   But all of these elements are mixed and this amazing cocktail is visible in this life and shows the past life shades for the person.

      Imagine now a relationship, where the man is type Warrior (fire traveller), and the woman is Mystic traveller (nymph). In this case you are attracting each other on basis of opposites, not similarities. This is quite usual type of relationship. The partnership is manifesting because you probably have very little or lack of fire energy, expressed in domination, confidence, self-power, fearlessness, fighting, overcoming obstacles, transformations, embracing change). You miss most of these qualities and then you need to fill them through the fire element of another person. That’s how the one who is missing an element for his personal Growth, he will meet person with predominant the same element – in this case Fire. Mystic traveller – nymph is usually feminine energy, directed inwards, slow moving, it can have negative traits like uncertainty, hesitant, insecure, avoiding conflicts, closeness, loneliness, or being alone. That’s how they are opposites.

     The union or relationship between Warrior and mystic traveller will happen, not because one of them wants to be “complete” through another (even you can view it that way), but in order to find and develop and manifest the qualities of Fire (or water) in each other, and to study lessons how to deal with the same fire energy in yourself. In this case Warrior will be very attracted to Mystic traveller (nymph) in order to find the missing element in his soul.

      Usually such puzzled pieces made of opposites are very strong and have high sexual energy and attraction. Even so they are not quite stable in long-term. But they are very good for learning lessons on qualities and values. In this case if you are woman, you are attracted to person, who is open, honest, dominant, leader, likes taking actions, risks, and likes to travel. But he is missing water element (gentleness, nurturing, care, inner knowledge, compassion, empathy) You feel attracted to him on sub-conscious level, because:

1.   He reflects your own desire to travel and meet different cultures, going out of your shell.

2.   He reflects your fears to travel and be open to love, be vulnerable or hurt

3.   He will give you the lesson of finding the fire energy within you, that is missing (determination, strength, confidence).

Similarly you will give him the qualities he is missing. This is connection on complementarity.

        On the other side – you can have relationship based on similarity and common energy. This will be amplifying relationship, while the first will be more conflicting and more learning relationship. Everyone has both types, but also will depend on what is the best for the soul. Such connections can be very good in friendship, and in long term relationships, where partners are very close together. In them also you can find missing puzzled pieces within similarities. For example you have a friend, who is the same type as you -Mystic traveller. But she needs to work out and manifest more of her qualities, as she is unstable emotionally, quite slow, indecisive, unable to react in important situations, chaotic, not organized, lack of self-confidence…All these qualities she can find in you as you have enhanced them through spiritual work. That’s how you can teach her, with her willing, how to overcome some obstacles and how to manifest these qualities within her own type of Mystic traveller. So the puzzle of similarities in one relationship is also based on oppositions, dark and light, positive and negative. They need to be focused and worked out.

      Relationship in this case will be good, if both partners find and observe their darker side, understand it, accept it and ask the question “why”. Then they can start to work on enhancing their positive qualities and release fears. But also remember – everyone works for himself. You cant release negativity or darkness from your partners Soul! If he doesn’t allow help or if he is not open. So in journey of Similarities its also important to trust, release negative aspects, allow your lover to help you and heal you.

Thank you for tuning in! Please continue further to part III ...

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angel`s medium