Soul types and Stereotypes -III

    Any soul/ person has different journey in relationships and will meet (by plan and by choice) different soul mates. Also any soul will experience multiple types of relationships of opposites and of similarities, depending on what is her main lesson that she needs to learn. Lessons in relationships are often more complex, they are not related only to one quality from just one partner.

      That’s why its not an easy task to find a matching partner. Always there will be lessons and you will need to find balance in the partnership.

Some of the basic qualities that everyone need to master, specially in the higher levels are: compassion, tolerance, understanding, acceptance of differences, appreciation, forgiveness, openness, sharing, unconditional love, generosity, need to help, caring, gentleness, healthy boundaries. These are also qualities that should appear in the world as a whole, and between all people.

Spiritual exercise:

Now you can make a list and think about what qualities, feelings and aspects of self your past relationships gave you? What about the current relationship if you are in? What lessons you have learned? What fears you overcome? What of your dark qualities you faced? Which element was missing in you? Was the relationship one of opposites or one of similarities? Did you have common goals, mission or desires?

Then you ll be able to fully see and understand why these relationships happened.

     I have to mention here something in addition. If my partner is jealous too much, or suspicious about me, that doesn’t mean that I have this quality too. That can mean I`m afraid of exactly that quality – jealousy, which can make a focus and attract it in my relationship. In the same time, if my partner is very dominant, strong, self-dependant, bold, confident, not compromising, that can reflect my own DESIRE or need to have master these qualities. That mean I have lack of these qualities too. So there are always certain aspects in relationship that are the same for both – and my partner can reflect my desire to incorporate these Fire qualities in me, and in the same time, exposes my fear of lies, or fear to not be free.

That`s all on relationship dynamics for now. There are so many more topics in this direction to think about, but for now I stop here.

Thank you my angels and spirit guides for helping me with this information, and thank you arch. Gabriel, Chamuel, Haniel.

Live in the path of Light and abundance!

nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium 

Soul Types and stereotypes -II

   But all of these elements are mixed and this amazing cocktail is visible in this life and shows the past life shades for the person.

      Imagine now a relationship, where the man is type Warrior (fire traveller), and the woman is Mystic traveller (nymph). In this case you are attracting each other on basis of opposites, not similarities. This is quite usual type of relationship. The partnership is manifesting because you probably have very little or lack of fire energy, expressed in domination, confidence, self-power, fearlessness, fighting, overcoming obstacles, transformations, embracing change). You miss most of these qualities and then you need to fill them through the fire element of another person. That’s how the one who is missing an element for his personal Growth, he will meet person with predominant the same element – in this case Fire. Mystic traveller – nymph is usually feminine energy, directed inwards, slow moving, it can have negative traits like uncertainty, hesitant, insecure, avoiding conflicts, closeness, loneliness, or being alone. That’s how they are opposites.

     The union or relationship between Warrior and mystic traveller will happen, not because one of them wants to be “complete” through another (even you can view it that way), but in order to find and develop and manifest the qualities of Fire (or water) in each other, and to study lessons how to deal with the same fire energy in yourself. In this case Warrior will be very attracted to Mystic traveller (nymph) in order to find the missing element in his soul.

      Usually such puzzled pieces made of opposites are very strong and have high sexual energy and attraction. Even so they are not quite stable in long-term. But they are very good for learning lessons on qualities and values. In this case if you are woman, you are attracted to person, who is open, honest, dominant, leader, likes taking actions, risks, and likes to travel. But he is missing water element (gentleness, nurturing, care, inner knowledge, compassion, empathy) You feel attracted to him on sub-conscious level, because:

1.   He reflects your own desire to travel and meet different cultures, going out of your shell.

2.   He reflects your fears to travel and be open to love, be vulnerable or hurt

3.   He will give you the lesson of finding the fire energy within you, that is missing (determination, strength, confidence).

Similarly you will give him the qualities he is missing. This is connection on complementarity.

        On the other side – you can have relationship based on similarity and common energy. This will be amplifying relationship, while the first will be more conflicting and more learning relationship. Everyone has both types, but also will depend on what is the best for the soul. Such connections can be very good in friendship, and in long term relationships, where partners are very close together. In them also you can find missing puzzled pieces within similarities. For example you have a friend, who is the same type as you -Mystic traveller. But she needs to work out and manifest more of her qualities, as she is unstable emotionally, quite slow, indecisive, unable to react in important situations, chaotic, not organized, lack of self-confidence…All these qualities she can find in you as you have enhanced them through spiritual work. That’s how you can teach her, with her willing, how to overcome some obstacles and how to manifest these qualities within her own type of Mystic traveller. So the puzzle of similarities in one relationship is also based on oppositions, dark and light, positive and negative. They need to be focused and worked out.

      Relationship in this case will be good, if both partners find and observe their darker side, understand it, accept it and ask the question “why”. Then they can start to work on enhancing their positive qualities and release fears. But also remember – everyone works for himself. You cant release negativity or darkness from your partners Soul! If he doesn’t allow help or if he is not open. So in journey of Similarities its also important to trust, release negative aspects, allow your lover to help you and heal you.

Thank you for tuning in! Please continue further to part III ...

nina Lea-nour *
angel`s medium 

Soul Types and stereotypes -I

There are different types of souls. 

Here I want to observe something very important, that is often misunderstood. About stereotypes and types of behaviour and thoughts in different people. Are stereotypes related to gender? Or are they related to personality? Both is true. There are some gender stereotypes for sure. But more commonly, that’s a wrong perception. Why? For example is it correct to say “ what kind of women men like? Or what to do if you want to attract a man? That’s very nice advices, but the problem is they concentrate only on one general stereotype of MEN. Not of all. Think about that – if you are woman, you are not the same as your girl friend, she doesn’t react in the same way as you in different situations. She likes different types of men. You too. In this way you are quite different. That’s how within the bigger gender categories male and female there are different types of individual souls. To understand that better, I ll observe here different types.

There are generally four different types, that can be mixed in different proportions.

1. Traveller of mind (or thinker) – Person of element air, wind, crossing limits, observing, moving, communication, expansion of mind, social, focus outward).

2. Mystic traveller (type water, person of depth, psychic, feelings, divine feminine, focus inward)

3. Warrior – traveller of fire – connects with fire, person of action, fast movement, wars, fighting battles, confidence, know what he wants, truth, defender, fearlessness, physical strength)

4. Forest traveller – earth traveller – connect with nature, trees, wisdom, roots, ancestors, link to past lives, stability, financial growth, abundance of material resource, grounding, family, focus inward and out).

That are the same personality types that I wrote about …elements (Nymphs, fairies, gnoms, salamanders). All correspond to special aspect of soul. And that soul aspect is preplanned in the Soul stamp. (in the same way as Astrological planetary aspects are part of the Soul plan). According to your life mission and what qualities you need to master and what you need to manifest, you will have certain element ruling. Of course people are mixture of more elements, but one is usually predominant.

That’s how we can observe now the gender stereotypes through the prism of these types of travellers.

Be aware that all elements have also darker side, we are made of different portions of all elements, of darker and light sides, but we have normally one or two dominant.

So the elements types can relate to general gender stereotypes. For example 1. The Thinker (wind traveller) and 3. Warrior -fire traveller can relate well to the expansive nature of masculine energy, while 2. Mystic traveller (water, nymph, mermaids) and 4. Forest traveller (earth, forest fairy) will relate well to divine feminine and women stereotype.

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nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium