Solar Plexus chakra -relationships, illnesses I

   Solar Plexus chakra – relationship – friends, colleagues, social performance; far relatives; soul mates (not intimate)

-         relation with element – body nutrition – fruits and vegetable (organic)

-         damaging relations of Manipura – sugar, flour, oil

-         animals of Manipura – Bear, Koala; hedgehog

-      power of receiving social significance (profession of your desires); fame; qualities of friendship;

-        damaging energy in M. –bad use of power to harm and humiliate others.

-        Relationship with your children. To them – what you are able to give them, mindful receiving from children – mindful giving (fulfilling desires or very spoiled children). Parents without connections. Children and syndrome of obesity. How children become fat? ( teaching of ego – total receiving for self, self-satisfaction and weight).

-        Children and receiving their signs of needs (childhood behavior). Children manipulation on parents. Are we under control or “controlling”?

-        Boys and girls reactions and understanding;

-        Manipura zone – refrigerator, table for food; how the mindful eating affect us. Should we give all what a child wants? Does a child knows best what is good for him? Difference between growing free and growing without values (control)?

-        Should we control our child and how much? In which areas?

-        How to make a conversation with the child?

    I ll observe here the Manipura chakra and its relationships. Manipura is very special center (as all in human body), related to first appearance of Self in form of active powerful Self and Ego; This is the place swirling in shining yellow color (sometimes with golden outlines). Manipura is higher on the spiritual ladder, but still maintains the power of Receiving goods in the physical world. Mindful receiving is the core of all warm chakras. How we can receive in balanced way, without to fall in “greed”, longing for more (feelings, safety) or money. Manipura connects us with our inner power to act in order to fulfill our desires.

Some of the important instruments and aspects of Third chakra are:

-   Professional independence; achieving the profession (work) that corresponds to your desire, needs and knowledge;

-       Personal power and ways to affect others (here you reveal how you can affect on other people or “manipulate” them which has negative outline

-         Power over your feelings (self-control); feeling emotional body of others (some people say they actually “feel” with this chakra.

-         Feeling of victory and success from your achievements

-       Feeling of pride and need others to accept you and appreciate you as your true Self;

Some of the important aspects of Manipura are:

Quality: acceptance, self-control, generosity (to accept your success or your failure in equal manner)

Feeling: desire for change (desire to act for fulfillment) to be present in social areas, with others

Desire: self-improvement; add and improve personal qualities (positive), eliminate the negative ones, overcome fears;

Relationship: with friends, colleagues, and children (your own or others)

Elements: fruits, vegetables and nuts (organic healthy food)

Achievement on earth: mindful eating, healthy nutrition, positive relationship with children; transformation of life path;

Now I`ll start by observation and analysis of some very important aspects of Manipura balancing – namely relationships. First relationship as always is with your Self – in this yellow center this is active self-power; Self-esteem and courage to do things. The following are some signs and behaviors to show you imbalanced Manipura.

As Manipura is related to the way you behave, react and view your children (and all children in general), the imbalances can be visible with your relationship with children: 

-        if you experience bad or harmful relationship with your child (children) no matter girl or boy (for example aggressive behavior and offensive language of your child in family);

-       if you are afraid about your children more than normal way – for example have sleepless nights or feel threatened;

-       if your child has the leading role in family (you fulfill all your desires and needs) and has role of manipulator;

-       if you feel exhausted and bringing up children don’t give you joy or strong feeling of love.

-        If you don’t feel attached to your child(ren) for some reason and you react indifferently or cold to his love, sharing

-        If you cant manage the time you spend with your children and never feel to have enough time together

-       If you don’t know how to behave with your child and are too emotional to him, allowing him freedom to do what he wants.

-       If you feel you lost control on your child and have feeling he/ she is not going in the right direction, or he has wrong values;

-        If you are aggressor or abuse your child – emotionally or physically, or want to show him he is worthless and without human value;

-     If you don’t encourage the abilities and talents of your child (and his interests) regardless of fact if you are interested in the same or not;

-         If you are sharp and intolerant to your child expressions in young age (for example hair style, the way he wear clothes), and you have conflict on that;

-         If your child don’t feel loved from you, or you don’t feel loved from him; and if he feels not comfortable sharing personal things with you;

-         If you feel all of these above” points are related to your close “friends” and soul mate, specially if you don’t feel comfortable sharing with your friend, and when you feel he/ she doesn’t share with you all, or hiding from you;

-       If you don’t appreciate, love and express love to your friends and soul mates frequently;

-         If you feel you are alone and without friends and no one appreciate you;

-      If you see only the negative side of people around you without any good quality;

-         If you feel away and not accepted in social group of your co-workers;

-         If you cant find similar “lines” with anyone of your co-workers;

This so long list refers to only things that reveal relationships – with your child and with friends and co-workers. I want to clarify that just one of this aspects is enough to lead to illness or imbalance in third chakra with the time. The process always takes time to unfold.

If you are interested in this topic, you can continue reading the next part here: 
Solar Plexus chakra -relationships, illnesses II

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