Link between Emotional attachment, addictions, Sacral chakra imbalances and Mother relationship

 In this short article I`ll give you information and details about what is emotional attachment and how it can affect your emotional body and life.  

Emotional attachment is a vital part of life lessons (and karmic relationships) of every human on earth. In this planetary level we experience love mostly through emotional attachment. This attachment is related on an energy level to our Second chakra (Sacral) and emotional body; on a physical level it is related to our reproductive system, sexuality, feeling of pleasure, self-acceptance and self-respect. So, people who have damaged self-acceptance or self-respect will have blocked emotions and will be prone to addictions.  

Emotional attachment is a double edge sword, and we need to understand that. Because this attachment is connected to many aspects like vulnerability, fear of commitment, fear of abandonment, fear of loss of someone, feelings like anger and jealousy, inability to let go. All of them are on the flipside of emotional attachment. 

(Also, it is important to say that these fears may be very subconscious, so we they are buried within).  

  

People who are emotionally attached and have blocked emotional flow (or suppressed emotions), can be easily affected by illnesses or imbalance in their sexual and reproductive organs. Moreover, they are prone to all kind of addictions – like food and sugar addiction, meat, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs or supplements, coffee. The reason why this happens on energy level is because the addiction acts as a substitute of the real missing emotion. For example, if a person has lack of emotional sharing, gentleness, intimacy or sexual connection in a relationship, that can result in his addiction to any substance – sugar craving, bread, alcohol or cigarettes or certain types of movies. Of course that will additionally affect his health, creating an energy Loop in his Sacral chakra and ties to his emotional body. They are substitutes for his genuine emotional needs and sexual expression. This model is quite common today (but it is not the only model of addictions).  

How can someone overcome addiction? ❂

There is no one sided single answer to this question. In most cases, if your addiction (food, alcohol...) is related to suppressed emotions, the first thing you need to do is cleanse and detox your emotional body.  

There are many methods how to do that, you can see my article on the emotional body cleansing here...> 

As the mind and emotions are interconnected (as all things in the human body) - all things that affect your emotions will affect your mind as well (and vice versa).  

What you need in the long term is to practice emotional detachment.  

When you are emotionally detached you are not exposed so much to the energies or emotions of others. You can be more in your own power and control, and your emotional body will be cleaner.  

How to practice emotional detachment?  ❂

One of the ways is to be in control of your own feelings and emotions. (which in reality is a very difficult task for most humans). Another very important practice is letting go. Letting go of any people, places, past wounds and events is a very powerful practice as it keeps your energy in balance. Letting go is not “forgetting” nor leaving someone completely, although it can be. Letting go is freeing yourself from the emotional burden, past trauma and hurt, that is no longer needed in your life.  

Most people are very unaware of how to let go of something. Until then, they will be trapped in their own emotional prison, and prone to all kinds of addictions. In all relationships there are so many unhealthy emotional attachments, energy cords and addictions, which create a need for control, possessiveness, jealousy and anger.  

 

To be emotionally detached, you need to be aware of your personal needs and VALUES, to practice self-acceptance, self-love and self-awareness. They are part of your emotional healing journey.  

  

Healing your mother wound ❂

(for more details read the article here...) 

The picture becomes more complex as in the second chakra people have their emotional ties and relationship with their mother.  

You need to know that the early childhood relationship with your mother can affect (all) your later love life, love relationships and partners and your sexuality. Thats a very big point.  

That's why a very important aspect of your emotional healing and detachment is healing the relationship with your mother and your wounded inner child.  

When you do that, you need to realize and work on your feeling of self-acceptance and how you value yourself as a being in a physical body. Do you fully accept and love yourself? What aspects of yourself are you still reluctant to accept? 

Bear in mind that emotional body healing is a lifelong process which will connect you to your true identity and reveal hidden aspects of yourself.  

Working on your Sacral chakra (and orange ray of light) and your Heart chakra (and green ray of light) will boost the process of emotional healing and releasing.  

Also, you can implement other daily practices like dancing, yoga, painting, being near water sources (lake, river, sea, waterfall), swimming. They can help you immensely to cleanse and detox your emotional body.  

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, reiki healer

May, 2024 ©

List with crystals and properties IV

Here i`ll make short list with crystals and properties which may be helpful.

1.   The best crystals for spiritual and psychic protection: crystals like Black obsidian, black tourmaline, amethyst are the best for keeping also entities or negative cord attachments away from you.

2.   Crystals for emotional healing and attracting love, abundance: Rose Quartz, danburite, chrysocolla, pink opal, fire agate, peridot – they connect you with your inner child and amplify joy of life, open your heart and bring you loving relationships. Also these stones can cleanse or remove past Karma in love relationships. (these crystals can help for forgiveness and releasing emotional pain).

3.   Crystals for grounding, safety, personal power, confidence, strength – Red jasper, Tigers eye, yellow aventurine, green aventurine, citrine.

4.   Crystals for spiritual cleansing, angelic connection, psychic visions, astral travel, dreams – selenite, moldavite, celestite, morganite, danburite, smoky quartz, fluorite (blue, green, purple, white).

5.   Crystals for aura, energy cleansing: Aquamarine, green/ blue fluorite, clear quartz, labradorite, Celestite, Angelite. 

6.   Crystals for cutting cords of physical, emotional body, removing blockages from chakras: tourmaline black, selenite, danburite, moldavite.

7.  Crystals for self-esteem, boosting self-power, confidence, joy of life, material success: citrine, yellow calcite, yellow aventurine, carnelian, emerald, heliodor, aventurine, tigers eye, red jasper. 

8.   Crystals for psychic connection, clairvoyance and opening of Third eye: Azurite, Lapis Lazuli, kyanite, selenite, black tourmaline, purple fluorite, amethyst, charoite, Tanzanite, moonstone. (also for past life vision and regression).

9.   Crystals for healing and rejuvenating of physical body, tissues, muscles and structure, bringing balance: emerald, malachite, jade, nephrite, moldavite, green aventurine, chrysocolla, peridot, turquoise.  

10.      Crystals for connection with sun ray energy and codes, boosting Yang energy, power, opening the Solar Plexus: citrine, red garnet, fire agate, yellow calcite, Amber.

11.      Crystals for connection with moon energy codes, boosting Yin energy cleansing of ethereal body – selenite, moonstone, celestite, opal, kyanite, morganite, aquamarine, larimar. (also for past life dreams, or regression) 

12.    Crystals for connection with nature spirits, elves and faeries, and Tree spirits: amazonite, Rose quartz, peridot, emerald, Fuchsite, Rhodonite, Turquoise.

13.   Crystals for cleansing and amplifying Second chakra, increasing vitality, creative flow, sexual energy, self-love, attracting partner: carnelian, orange aventurine, amber, fire agate, citrine, garnet.

These are the main properties of the crystals that you can have in mind when you want to make programming of crystal. Each crystal is unique, the same as each person is, so you will have special connection with different crystals. First of all, you can meditate, take a few deep breaths (or perfectly early in the morning), then you can visualize the crystal you need to work with.

Sit in a quiet place and close your eyes. Take the crystal in your receiving hand – for most people it`s left. Take deep breath and visualize the crystal as clearly as you can. Try your best, if you cant visualize well, try to feel the energy of the crystal. What does it feel like? Is it soothing, calming, or revitalizing, rejuvenating, raising? What do you feel? This feeling is the first step to connect to the crystal energy.

Be sure that in the same way the crystal also feels your aura and energy body, it connects with you.

Then open your eyes, after the meditation and look to the crystal. It`s good if you massage the palms of your hands, the inner side of your arms or feet with it. Another very good way to connect is simply to lay down and place the crystal (s) on your body, while laying horizontally. Place the piece of rose quartz on your heart, solar plexus or Third eye...close your eyes, breath and connect with the energy. Or you can make reiki for yourself or another, by placing small stones for each chakra. That will have amazing effect.

Clear quartz you can use for any kind of program or together with other crystals in a grid.

You can call on crystal Spirits (or faeries) to work with them on specific energy point of chakra and to bring balance. Crystal spirits are very gentle beings that bring the high realms 7 th dimensional light of the crystal, and work with its vibrations to bring you desired healing or qualities.

Thank you for tuning in, stay on the way of Divine Light! 

Nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium

Reiki master 

Tarot inuitive