Link between Emotional attachment, addictions, Sacral chakra imbalances and Mother relationship

 In this short article I`ll give you information and details about what is emotional attachment and how it can affect your emotional body and life.  

Emotional attachment is a vital part of life lessons (and karmic relationships) of every human on earth. In this planetary level we experience love mostly through emotional attachment. This attachment is related on an energy level to our Second chakra (Sacral) and emotional body; on a physical level it is related to our reproductive system, sexuality, feeling of pleasure, self-acceptance and self-respect. So, people who have damaged self-acceptance or self-respect will have blocked emotions and will be prone to addictions.  

Emotional attachment is a double edge sword, and we need to understand that. Because this attachment is connected to many aspects like vulnerability, fear of commitment, fear of abandonment, fear of loss of someone, feelings like anger and jealousy, inability to let go. All of them are on the flipside of emotional attachment. 

(Also, it is important to say that these fears may be very subconscious, so we they are buried within).  

  

People who are emotionally attached and have blocked emotional flow (or suppressed emotions), can be easily affected by illnesses or imbalance in their sexual and reproductive organs. Moreover, they are prone to all kind of addictions – like food and sugar addiction, meat, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs or supplements, coffee. The reason why this happens on energy level is because the addiction acts as a substitute of the real missing emotion. For example, if a person has lack of emotional sharing, gentleness, intimacy or sexual connection in a relationship, that can result in his addiction to any substance – sugar craving, bread, alcohol or cigarettes or certain types of movies. Of course that will additionally affect his health, creating an energy Loop in his Sacral chakra and ties to his emotional body. They are substitutes for his genuine emotional needs and sexual expression. This model is quite common today (but it is not the only model of addictions).  

How can someone overcome addiction? ❂

There is no one sided single answer to this question. In most cases, if your addiction (food, alcohol...) is related to suppressed emotions, the first thing you need to do is cleanse and detox your emotional body.  

There are many methods how to do that, you can see my article on the emotional body cleansing here...> 

As the mind and emotions are interconnected (as all things in the human body) - all things that affect your emotions will affect your mind as well (and vice versa).  

What you need in the long term is to practice emotional detachment.  

When you are emotionally detached you are not exposed so much to the energies or emotions of others. You can be more in your own power and control, and your emotional body will be cleaner.  

How to practice emotional detachment?  ❂

One of the ways is to be in control of your own feelings and emotions. (which in reality is a very difficult task for most humans). Another very important practice is letting go. Letting go of any people, places, past wounds and events is a very powerful practice as it keeps your energy in balance. Letting go is not “forgetting” nor leaving someone completely, although it can be. Letting go is freeing yourself from the emotional burden, past trauma and hurt, that is no longer needed in your life.  

Most people are very unaware of how to let go of something. Until then, they will be trapped in their own emotional prison, and prone to all kinds of addictions. In all relationships there are so many unhealthy emotional attachments, energy cords and addictions, which create a need for control, possessiveness, jealousy and anger.  

 

To be emotionally detached, you need to be aware of your personal needs and VALUES, to practice self-acceptance, self-love and self-awareness. They are part of your emotional healing journey.  

  

Healing your mother wound ❂

(for more details read the article here...) 

The picture becomes more complex as in the second chakra people have their emotional ties and relationship with their mother.  

You need to know that the early childhood relationship with your mother can affect (all) your later love life, love relationships and partners and your sexuality. Thats a very big point.  

That's why a very important aspect of your emotional healing and detachment is healing the relationship with your mother and your wounded inner child.  

When you do that, you need to realize and work on your feeling of self-acceptance and how you value yourself as a being in a physical body. Do you fully accept and love yourself? What aspects of yourself are you still reluctant to accept? 

Bear in mind that emotional body healing is a lifelong process which will connect you to your true identity and reveal hidden aspects of yourself.  

Working on your Sacral chakra (and orange ray of light) and your Heart chakra (and green ray of light) will boost the process of emotional healing and releasing.  

Also, you can implement other daily practices like dancing, yoga, painting, being near water sources (lake, river, sea, waterfall), swimming. They can help you immensely to cleanse and detox your emotional body.  

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, reiki healer

May, 2024 ©

Healing the Mother wound, Ancestral Karma clearing - (meditation + Journaling practice)

 Ancestral karma cleansing is one of the most significant topics for many and most humans now. As we are in the year 8 (2024) and experience collective Karmic cleansing, releasing and working with the shadows. 8 is a complicated and deep number, so it has also many challenges.  

What do you need to know if you have wounded relationship, or childhood trauma or abuse with your mother.  

★ Your mother is one of the most significant figures that has an impact on your whole life, if you are aware of it or not. Regardless of what kind of relationship you have (had) with your mother, this is energy that affects many aspects of you as a person, and mostly your future love relationships, the way you express love and your sexuality.

You were inside your mother's womb for many months, and that has an imprint on some of your chakras and aura. Your mother has connection of energy cord with your Sacral chakra (and belly), which has impact of energy circle with your feminine chakras (Heart and Third eye).  

The relationship you have with your mother can affect and reflect your sense of Self and identity in a very special way, increasing or decreasing your self-acceptance, self-love and self-awareness. They are all found in the feminine chakras –mentioned above.  

Most people on the planet will have a wounded relationship either with their mother or their father, and all have Soul contract with them prior to birth.  

That means these relationships have very huge importance for your life and how you develop as an individual. You can be in the “flow” or in resistance in relationship with your parents.  

If you have wounded father relationship, or childhood trauma or abuse (even if you didn't realize it), that will result in formation of energy blockages, cracks or cords in your masculine chakras – Root, Solar Plexus and Throat. Because a father wound creates negative feelings and ripples in your home, environment, and even how you feel about your own country.  

The process of cleansing and healing such childhood wounds is long and requires spiritual efforts.  

What you can do first is to identify this wound, and where it comes from, when it started and what is the cause of this wound. That can be rejection, alienation or abuse when you were young, or at an early age. This identification is important. Then you need to be clear which qualities of your mother/ father are most challenging for you. And what qualities and behavior patterns you liked. Make a list with them and be very specific. This is part of the healing process.  

The next step is journaling, which will lead you to the depths of your subconscious mind. You can write down and answer yes or no to the following questions:  

1. ★Do you feel unloved (or did you feel), rejected, unsupported or alienated by your mother/ father?  

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2. ★ Do you feel abandoned or ignored by your mother/ father multiple times?  

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3. ★ Do you feel that your voice was suppressed by your mother/ father, or you were not free to speak out what you feel and think?  

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4. ★ Did you feel your mother/father wanted to control or manipulate you? 

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5. ★ Do you feel your emotions were dismissed and your environment didn't support emotional expression (cry or laugh)?  

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6. ★ Did you feel at any time strong shame or guilt (in childhood)? 

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7. ★ Were you abused or offended by words or actions by your mother/ father in childhood?  

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8. ★ Did you feel unworthy and unable to meet the expectations of your mother/ father in the past?  

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9. ★ Did you feel self-esteem and confidence damaged in your childhood?  

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10. ★Did you feel like you are too different and not fitting in your family? 

 

These questions will help you to understand better what your wound is and with which parent or both of them. If you answered YES to more than 5 questions, then you have a wounded relationship with your mother or father. You need to ask separately the same questions for both of your parents.  

What you need to do next, is to start making meditation on your Sacral chakra, as here you will have most imbalances and negative ties to your mother energy.  

• 🐈You need to cut cords with your mothe and release all soul contracts with her, including in past lives.  

• 🐈You need to work to cleanse Ancestral karma with your mother`s line and karmic knots 

• 🐈You need to make meditation for forgiveness for 7 days  

• You can work with crystal spirit of Amber and archangels Haniel and Chamuel for forgiveness  

• 🐈You can also plant red, orange roses, which are able to grow intention of karma cleansing.  

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Meditation & Ritual for Karma cleansing with your mother 

You can prepare 1 white candle and dedicate it to cleansing karma and forgiveness with your mother. (You can do that separately for your father).  

In meditation you can say the following words, while your mind is clear and calm:  

“  With the help of my angels and my Higher Self as witness, I now cut, release and cleanse all ancestral Karma with my mother, I release all fear, rejection, negative cords, shame and guilt between me and my mother in all levels and dimensions, in all directions of time.  

I now cut and release any Soul contracts between me and my mother in this and any other lifetime. I cut and release any negative cords, pain, trauma or abuse from childhood and send them into divine source of Light. I ask for forgiveness from my mother and forgive her with unconditional love. And so be it!”  

(You need to do this ritual for 3 to 7 days, depending on what your feeling is.) Then call on archangels Haniel and arch. Chamuel to surround you with beautiful healing pink and white opal light. See how this light flows down from your Crown chakra, down to your body, covering your body, healing and cleansing all your cells, tissues and internal organs.  

Then see shining sphere of pink and white light expanding and spinning in your Sacral and Heart chakra, as it removes all blockages from them. See how your resistance, fear, pain, shame or guilt are removed forever from these chakras.  

Then imagine how you stand in front of your mother, both of you stretching your hands high. Between your hands is a ball of high vibrational orange-golden light. This is light of divine Love and forgiveness. See how this ball is swirling faster and faster between your hands, taking inside all past trauma, hard emotions and memories of conflicts between you and your mother. They are immediately dissolved in the light sphere. Then see how this sphere disappears into the air. You are now free from all the burdens you have carried for so long. 

Do this meditation on special portal dates – Solstice, Equinox, Solar eclipse, full moon, new moon or on date – 11, 22.  

Thank you for tuning in!

Nina Nour Bluebell ©

medium, crystal healer

May 2024 ★