Angels` message about Self-Confidence and Abundance (part II)

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The next aspect of achieving Self-confidence is...

2. Healing your childhood trauma

 this happens by healing your relationship with your mother (or father), and you need to return and remember and take out of the box of the subconscious mind your most painful moments when you were child. Then look at them from a higher perspective, why has this happened? What provoked this situation, or the reaction of others or my own reaction? What was the reflection on my inner power after this event? Dive deep into these questions and then you will feel very different, as you will uncover the truth.  

Develop your own practices to build up self-confidence - 

That happens by doing something that you are passionate about, you love, and you are very good at. This can be anything – writing, blogging, videos, photography, music, art, painting...anything you really love. By just doing that you automatically connect with your center of power –and rebuild your self-confidence. Also in this process, you will feel joy, inspiration and creative energy, which are the spark of Confidence and inner power. (The truth power always feeds the healthy confidence and creativity; the negative power always feeds from power of others.)  

You need to understand that the patterns of your childhood and energy with your mother and both parents have a strong influence on how your confidence grows. If your mother was a domineering, controlling person, who had mostly negative or critical look at you, then this control is feeding of your personal power. This controlling behavior is able to destroy your inner power at a young age, and replace it with self-doubt, fear and low self-esteem. Critical behavior or high expectations or unhealthy forms of control over the child can make him feel deeply wounded and unloved. These situations are very much spread in our society where children are viewed as “possessed” by the parents like objects, and they are told how to live. This can create a person with a high feeling of unworthiness and sadness, and in other spectrum, it creates a person who is rebellion and always likes to take the opposite side.  

There are many more damage on a soul level, from these wounded relationships in your childhood, than you can imagine.  

The next truth is that your inner power (Solar Plexus chakra) is related to and affects your eating habits, immune system, digestive system and liver. So, there is energetic connection between unhealthy foods, being overweight (or underweight), or having food allergies, with your inner power and self-confidence. (even if you feel that's totally impossible). If the child is overweight, then it is easily understood the cause of that by looking into his/ her parents' behavior. At the same time, opposite is valid too: your eating habits, the way you eat, and the food preferences will affect and reflect your Self-confidence and power. In such a way we are in a vicious circle, which is not easy to break.  

Connection between self-confidence and abundance  

 

There is mirroring and reflection of all qualities that we have in this plane, with the ability to attract things from the universe. For example, if you feel self-love, you attract your perfect romantic partner and relationship and you can have a healthy emotional body. This is the perfect scenario for giving birth to a healthy child and having joy and love in the family.  

In the same way, if you have self-confidence, you will attract more abundance and wealth from the universe, and this will affect your lifestyle and diet. The connection is very prominent, but we need to pay attention to details. There are cases where inner Power and sense of self-confidence can be out of balance, and overly underlined. In this case, you can think of yourself as “the best person”, smartest, but this will create imbalance in your Solar Plexus chakra. You may suffer from anxiety, unhealthy habits, problems with digestion and you can have too much money and wealth, which are out of alignment, and this creates two things – Waste and Clutter. Both these energies are very bad for your mental health and your Solar Plexus, and they can result in – giving too much money, - wasting money in multiple directions, without feeling satisfied, - being unable to enjoy your money, - health issues and unhealthy eating habits. All of these are symptoms of unregulated inner power.  

Abundance – aspects 

To attract abundance and wealth, you first need to Believe that you deserve that abundance, and that Universe will always provide you with what is best for you. This sense of trust and assurance comes from self-confidence. That doesn't mean you think you are “the best”, but rather that you are unique being of Light, as all beings are. The sense of over-self-esteem is very detrimental to the body, and to the mind, it creates reality which is crooked. Thats why you need to pay attention to red flags” about your abundance. Do you have all that you want but you want more? This is greed. Do you have little, and you always feel afraid to lose money or to not have enough? This is scarcity mind. The planet is abundant in all aspects, and all levels. We just need to find our own place and feel how abundant we are. And trust that you have enough power to create the life you want.  

 Nina Nour Bluebell

angels medium,

Angelic astrology

June 2024 ©

Angel message about Self-Confidence and Abundance -( I)

 Here I will write with the help of my angels on the topic of self-confidence and how it is related to mirroring the abundance and wealth for us.  

I'll answer some questions – 1. what is self-confidence and where it is related in our body. 2. What is the wounding of self-confidence and where it comes from 3. What are the relations between self-confidence, power, willpower and determination? 4. what is relationship between self-confidence and abundance.

  Self-confidence is a quality and state of mind that we gain gradually while going through life. It is related to many aspects of self and our understanding and acceptance of the environment. Self-confidence is a quality rooted in our structure of belief system, in the way we feel and are able to use our personal power, in the way we accept ourselves as sovereign beings holding power and Light.  

Self-confidence has a coherent connection between our emotional and mental bodies. This quality stems from our Solar center of power – Solar Plexus, and it is affected by multiple outer aspects too.

Self-confidence is related to our early years in childhood, and especially the time of our first expansion of the Solar Plexus chakra. (the Root chakra expands between 11-13 years, then sacral chakra expands in ages 14-16, then the Solar Plexus expands gradually in ages 17,18,19). This time is crucial for forming our inner believe system and understanding how to use the power we have.  

The influence of our parents is significant on the formation of this feeling, which happens after the age of 7. The Solar Plexus develops confidence from the same gender parent for everyone. If you are woman, the influence, believes and care of your mother will be crucial, if you are man, the influence of your father will be the most dominant factor. For developing self-confidence, we need to look into the care, nurturing, Trust, and belief system of your mother, and what is the way she treats, nurtures you and values you. This can tell us most of the information about your state of self-confidence. The trust of your mother to you (if you are female) will show how you developed trust and nurturing for yourself later. The beliefs your mother had about you at an early age (and especially at the age of 17-19) will show what kind of beliefs, disbeliefs are formed inside of you.  

In this fragile time, when your mental body is forming for the first time and has expansion, you need to feel the relationship with your mother and what is the quality of this relationship. For women and men mother plays prominent role in forming of your emotional body too. So, this connection holds keys to the development of your self-confidence.  

As a rule, if the relationship with your mother was caring, nurturing, and based on trust and full acceptance, then the child will develop healthy self-confidence and feeling of power. But if you had wounded relationship with her, and she was commonly seen as dominating, controlling, not giving trust, not sharing, not open and sincere, the child will develop strategy of “pulling inward”, creating a shell around him or hiding, which will affect her confidence later in life.

Now the feeling of self-confidence is connected with self-trust, empowerment, determination and even self-love. / The same is valid for all boys, they will be influenced by the relationship with their father, so they can build healthy self-trust and self-confidence.  

So, the connection with the mother is the first step in all women and girls to find their power-center and confidence. This power has much to do with establishing your creative power, feeling the joy of creating something, discovering your special talents and gifts and feeling accepted and appreciated for them. Feeling that you are trusted and in position of power/ authority, and responsibility from side of your parents is very important for healthy Solar Plexus chakra. If your relationship with your mother is wounded – you will feel very vulnerable to share things about yourself, your will have “wounded self-trust", you can doubt your own talents and abilities to create, you can be unable to take decision in life, and it will be hard for you to overcome major changes or obstacles in your path. That`s why you need to look at your childhood upbringing and understand the deep patterns you have with your parents and if you are woman –with your mother.  

Because we are already grown individuals that had the effect of childhood trauma or wounded Solar Plexus, we need to re-establish other rules about Self-confidence. We need to rejuvenate the inner power and to re-ignite the fire of your inner child, which was neglected in your early years. How did that happen? If you feel you have such wounded inner child and disconnection to your inner Power (or your mother in general), you need to first work on your 1. developing self-trust.  This can sound close to self-acceptance, but it is more like you feel and understand your own mission, you know what you Want, and you feel aligned with your higher mission. This can be talents, passion or anything that makes you feel the unique human being in this 3-d world.  

Continue to.part II here... >

Nina Nour Bluebell

medium, reiki healer

Angelic astrology

May 2024 ©