This is channeled message with help of Archangel Azrael about boundaries and what are they from spiritual perspective, how they are related to personal power, self esteem, privacy and with shining your light. I divide the message into parts, this is part 3.
Mental Boundaries
To not have mental boundaries means to allow our thoughts ( and thoughts of others) to affect and control you. When we have mental boundaries we establish healthy interaction with our thoughts, understanding why we think about a person or situation in a negative or positive way. This also needs practice, pateince and AWARENESS.
Pay attention to your thoughts when you are around people who you feel unwell or with low energy. What are your interactions? How they express about the world and about you? If you notice that these people are too negative and draining for you, place boundaries.
Being clear in your communication and saying No” to something that is harmful to you, is very important. Dont be afraid to express the truth, regardless of reactions of others. Negative reactions, or expressions of strong negative emotions (like anger, rage, anxiety…) are sings of emotional, mental and spiritual weakness of the person. They are signs that the person is not in control of their emotions and mind. Which is also sign of immaturity. If you are aware of your emotions, you can know why you feel in certain way.
Understand that you are not responsible for the reactions or emotions of others, but only for your own. You need to focus on what is that triggers your negative emotions and thoughts. Then you will be able to heal and release this person or situation.
to understand your interaction with other people you can ask the following questions: ✎
- What this person makes me feel?
- What do I find positive in this person?
- What do I find very negative in this person?
- Why this person triggers my reactions or emotions?
- What is our relationship like? (what is the main reason I `m connecting with this person).
- What I can do to establish healthy boundaries with this person?
- How much time do I want to spend with this person?
- What are the things I enjoy (or don’t enjoy) doing with him?
- What do I find difficult about our communication?
By asking questions you raise your sense of awareness, and in this way you start healing your negative emotions.
About personal power ⍟
Your personal power is the divine Light given to you by the energy of the sun and the whole galaxy. This is your unique light by birth right, and every human is born with it. When you acknowledge, feel and heal this divine Light, you can be authentic and you can be who you came here to be. You can release fear of judgement and stand in your power.
Standing for yourself is also your divine right – so don’t be afraid of conflict, disagreement or confrontation. In this way you show other person your inner power and essence. What are your values and believes and that`s how you establish your boundaries. If you always agree with opinions of others, if you want to avoid conflict, this is how you are destroying your personal power and boundaries.
This does not mean you should fight and argue in a rude and stubborn way. Be mindful of your words and actions, but also stand for yourself and be firm in your believes. That`s not always easy to do. But do it as much as you can.
You personal power and boundaries are your inner castle of Light, safety and protection. That` s how you are warrior of light -you are on the side of Light, and you know that.
Person without personal power – is mostly like a leaf tossed by the wind in all directions. He doesn’t have motivation to go on his own way, but he follws instructions of others and what they say. That`s why you need to take control of your own power, be confident and trust you decisions. People without boundaries – have hard time with their self confidence and self believe. They don`t believe they are powerful to succeed. So, take time to work on your self confidence, be firm in your decisions and words.
(about self confidence I will write separately).
You can continue to part 4 about spiritual boundaries and personal power! ..>
Continue to read part 1 here....
Continue to read part 2 here ...
Nina Nour Bluebell ★
medium, crystal light healer
April 2025 ©
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