Love mates -insects - III

[ Discover your psychological type and smile! - snail, butterfly, dragonfly ] 

Snail ~

   A snail is amazing animal – its not insect. People-snails possess many qualities , that make them near to water element. Snails personalities are usually introverts in life, they think deeply and have slow nature. All things in their lives are accomplishing very slowly. Snails have sharp mind and their thinking is different from thinking of others. Due to their slow movement they see things from higher point, not visible to others –who are in rush. One of the wisest people – they can have professions like –writers, scientists, work in library, teachers and more. Snails are creative souls; as lovers they are quite lonesome; even they like their solitude which is source of happiness and creativity for them. Relationships of the snails will be mostly hard and painful in love plan. They learn many things with experience –as they rarely take advises; and don’t accept criticism. They live like –out of the planet –in their own closed world. Snails are home-lovers and they spend extremely long time in their home space. They love decoration and doing any home activity – as its not involving moving in the unknown out world. Snails are good in planning, but their steps are more insecure and doubtful, due to lack of confidence. They are not sure which is the right direction to go, and always ask questions to themselves. They are afraid of making mistakes, that`s why they make many. Avoiding others, and living more as hermits, they let only very close people to them. But once you won their heart –you `ll be very pleased with all amazing things of love-life. Snails –people are one of the most romantic, loving, sweet and sacrificing people for their partner. They are not always faithful – due to not enough trust and confidence in themselves. But they love making all atmosphere around their partners full of romance and love; and music. They will give you precious moments, and if you stand together, these people will make you gift of increasing friendship, love and gratitude. They are also striving for perfections and can live with little and simple things – not strive for luxury like scorpion. They are very compassionate, empathetic, sincere and like to put happiness of others first. They are also forgiving -which is rarely found in other insects and spices. Snails will let anyone be content to share one home with them. Negative treats are: sometimes lazy, slow thinking, unwilling to help, self-centered, forgetting the outer world, melancholic, sad, isolated socially.

Butterfly ~

   Butterfly is one of the most beautiful insects…but personalities butterfly are complicated. They have positive qualities, but there are also –dark butterflies; people-butterflies belong to air element – but they are attracted by fire. Butterflies are mostly with gentle nature, love elegance and nice perfumes; they are delicate, lovable, little shy, but…mostly they are very good actors! They like to put different social masks –the more places and people they know, the more different masks they ll put on. Butterflies are not suitable for long-relationships.  They are not faithful, many times people of the surface, don’t have ability to analyze things around, they have nature to “enjoy the moment” –which is good quality – but without lessons learnt. Butterflies come in someone life rapidly, and they also go away rapidly. Before you realize what happens with you –the butterfly is gone. Their love-life is like dream –short and intense, full of fantasies. People butterflies give many promises and say many sweet words to others; they love seducing others, love attention and feel flattered by compliments and admiration of others. But they are not real friends or lovers. They love to show off their beauty; in real most butterflies live lonely life, hidden from others. But they don’t enjoy the loneliness. These creatures need much space, need to be loved by others, in order to bloom. They have intense life, social carrier – many times connected with art –music, singing, dance performance, cinema, theatre... they like stage and want to be adored by others. Their best moments are of acting and being admired. Butterflies have light and gentle character, cheerful, gossamer, smiling and laughing in social circles. They love to attract attention of all other people. Their life is many times not stable –as they cant choose to be in one place, they often move and travel around, live in different places. Most of their promises will be fake to others, but that does not bother them –as their mind is more on surface.

You cant trust butterfly lovers, except for short time pleasures. They don’t possess depth of feelings.

Dragonfly ~

These are the one of the most inspiring and mysterious types of people. They are air –water element. Dragonflies are very sentimental, dreamy persons, who are mostly idealist. They like to be peaceful and love all people. They are also careful with their friendships and don’t let everyone so close. They have around them atmosphere of mystery, secrets and miracles. They are very strong believers and usually love religions and researching different believes. Dragonflies are faithful, but very capricious and not compromising in love-life. they feel hard to find suitable partner and if he didn’t meet their high criteria they prefer to be alone. But not lonely –dragonflies make many social connections, in careful and distant way. They don’t have ability to flirt, and flutter” like butterflies, but they love communication in friendly and open way. They wont promise you at all love” if they cant give to you. Dragonflies are dreamers and they are highly spiritual. Their nature will lead them to discover many strange places, they are able also to connect with higher realms, and see things unseen for others. Sadly dragonflies cant make stable relationships with any other insect than the same kind –dragonfly.

But if they find their soul-mate –they ll have amazing fairy connection full of inspiration, bliss and sharing. Dragonflies create miracle worlds around others, they are travelers and love writing about their travel experiences. They travel also by spirit to many places. They have most open mind, and pure heart; their negative traits: sometimes self-doubt, creating illusions, living in illusion life, naïve, too much trusting, disappointed and hurt from others. Dragonflies are also great philosophers, artists and photographers, as they have unique view of the world.

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

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~ photo by me ~ fountain in Sofia garden 

Love mates -insects - II

Mosquito ~

   People –mosquitoes are well spread around us. They are not visible, type of insomniac people, hardly have rest; very fast thinking, have busy mind, and busy schedule. They are always in a hurry to accomplish something in life. Even so they are not so fluent or successful as Spiders. Mosquitoes study during a large part of their life; they have strong survival instinct; as love-mates are very gentle, give others much time and energy, but feel easily bored and leave relationship. They are mutable, unstable, lose interest easily in others. When their goal is achieved – and they have the partner they wanted to – they just go away. Their nature is of air, flexibility and change. They like to move, to see different places and people; with cosmopolite views, mosquitoes are not bored to discover the world. They often travel and have passion for other civilizations. Often they are scientists; some of them though have hardship in physical levels of surviving, can have challenges in money matters and properties, and even fall in trap of addictions like alcohol. In their love life mos. are strange lovers, they need multiple partners and their curiosity cant be satisfied with only one partner. Often they have crazy life as young, indulge in different pleasure, while their old ages are totally opposite – live alone, and closed. Some of these type people don’t live much long. The best treat of them is their need for discovery, travel and adventure. They`ll meet so many different people and make many friends, that everyone will remember them. Social type. They are also prone to take what they need from the partner and “fly” away, without explanation. This type is close to psychological type of sanguine, always busy, communicating, rushing. They are not deep thinkers, and are attracted more by butterflies.

Honey bee ~

   One of the very special insects in the nature – the golden Queen honey; these people can be many different type – mostly they have fire (and air) element. They are the best planning people, developing amazing sense of discipline and schedule work. They are busy with accomplishing tasks, but not without plant –like mosquitoes. Honey bees are amazingly good friends – as persons; they possess all qualities of friendship – honesty, trustfulness, sharing. You can share totally all with them and be sure they will keep your secrets. The negative quality of them is their selfishness; they don’t really care so much for another –and they love mostly their family –specially the children, who take all their time. Bees are social, but they are very selective, and capricious to people with whom they are closer. They wont be in any society, but prefer people, who have the same qualities as them. Bees have often hard relationships, due to lack of understanding the different point of view. They are not very tolerant to others, but are very faithful. Honey bees also can be multiple types; but mostly they have features of best friends, who you can rely on and trust in any hard situation. They love to help others, that brings relief to their souls. Bees are also very creative and keep their homes in perfect order and clean. For them feng shui energy is principle of the nature, they follow. Bees like to live in houses and gardens and often are very good gardeners. They don’t have time for much social life-out of their circle. Devoted to their duties, many times bees-person is missing the joy from simple things. They have very warm energy, beautiful smiles and lovely eyes. People of honor, integrity and love for order – bees are also not very forgiving or compassionate. They wouldn’t hesitate to leave their dishonest partner, but before that will make deep analysis of the situation and see all good and bad sides. They are usually ready to stay in friendship relationships with their ex-lovers.

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

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~ photo by me ~ garden in Sofia 

Love mates - insects -I

    [ See what type you are, and smile! ]

   Here I`ll reveal some interesting cases of people- acting like insects in their love relationships. What is that mean? I`m sure many will be surprised. Human is part of nature –as all animals, birds, insects, plants. I usually like comparing peoples emotions, qualities and most things with plants and trees world. We are all like plants, growing from the earth energy. I`ll use now little different approach, as it comes to love-mates and relationships. Many times in life we can see some peoples faces so similar to some animal – like bear, wolf, dog, cat –that we make association and compare them to the animal. In literature also authors often use some animal characteristics to describe better the person. Insects are one of the most not well understood, but observed from people species. They are amazingly big variety on the planet. But we know better about some, which we have closer contact, due to their habitat and places they are spread. Insects that I choose to describe specific human qualities in relationships are: spider, scorpion, mosquito, honey bee, snail (even not insect), butterfly, dragonfly.

  Spiders are some of the most interesting insects – I start with them. Mysterious spiders knit their nets in well chosen and observed areas, usually in corners where they are not disturbed from anyone. Their net is in the air and looks as a gentle lace –hanging house. Spiders love working –but specially for their homes. They are confident and fast, seem to be very friendly in first sight –but then exactly they grab the helpless fly in their nets. What are spiders –love-mates?  Spiders are adventurers, people who love more their homes, but specially when they build it. They are hard working, honest, open, and very creative people. They are little lonesome, as they don’t like social events so much –except with the same spices occasionally. Spiders have very good Third eye sense – they are intuitive and make great traps for others. They may seem friendly and open to others, but always there is something hidden –they don’t share with anyone. Spiders love open air, and nature, but also sometimes can be pilled in work at home. They will be taking care of home space –make amazing decorations, nice atmosphere, and always elegant curtains. They are aesthetic, have good sense of discipline and know how to plan ahead. These qualities make them great in many things, so spiders are often successful in life, make money and have nice property. For them priority is the family and children. Spider negative qualities are: they are not honest always with others. They have rapidly changing moods, selfish, little arrogant, arbitrary, they don’t care much for the feelings of others; not empaths or compassionate. They win by using their nets as a trap for other innocent insects –led by their curiosity. Spiders can caught anyone in the net, if well prepared. In their relationships they are dominant, leaders, and like to seduce another. They are hidden in themselves and rarely expose their feelings to others. Their honesty and integrity is related specially to the close people and family. If you are in relationship with spider, you`ll see how he is knitting his net with devotion and love; but on the first occasion he will make a trap from the same net –which you feel safe to live. Spiders are lovers who can do all for their partner –and like to enjoy nice moments with him. But they are not forgiving, nor social –so you` ll suffer if you betray their trust. These are some of the most confident and well living people, who know how to do things and don’t hesitate. They are advanced in matters of the physical world, but behind with spiritual world –with some exceptions. Many times they are introverts, who seek peace of nature and solitude. They have creative soul, and devote to writing or painting. Spiders can be a type of people, who are attached or obsessed with their partners and don’t want to let him go away. That’s why should be careful about them. Because of their strong memory and not so open heart –spiders lovers will not be able to forgive disappointment from their partner; they are prone to revenge, or let you alone –but all will be with bad consequences for you. so good luck with the spider-lover!

Scorpion ~

Scorpion is one of the very dangerous insects – even there is zodiac sign with his image. Even so we shouldn’t be afraid. Scorpions are very intelligent lovers, with much charm, beautiful, attracting like magnets others. Unlike spiders they are very social, love interacting with others, but rarely reveal much about their own world. They keep themselves in a “mystic shadow”. Scorpions also have high intuition, they can be good detectives –but also criminals. As lovers they are very devoted and passionate. They wont betray their partner, but also don’t wait for forgiveness and mercy from them. The methods of scorpions are well known – poison –by any ways –words, deeds, reactions, revenge; They can be charming, radiating light, harmony, but always there is some thrill more about scorpions. They are in center of intrigues, gossips, rumors, affairs…and romance. They love romantic relationships, and will buy roses for their love-partner. Don’t underestimate their dark side; Scorpions are always ready for defense with their poison- or attack whoever don’t like. Some of them are greedy, suffer from eating disorders, love luxury and good food, don’t develop very healthy eating habits. They are people of life –giving and taking. For them is valid –all or nothing. They wont go with little. Be ready for battle, but if you are type butterfly –better to escape until its not too late. Or you`ll be eaten. 

* note: maybe I should say here - all similarities with real people and events are in your mind? (this text is just a funny expression of psychological types the way i see them. don`t take it too seriously, if you dislike insects.)

[ nina Lea-nura * ]

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~ photo by me ~