Finding your Soul mate -Puzzles II

     Part II ...

     Sometimes what we fear is also connected with hidden desire. In the first aspect -realizing our fears, for example a man is very afraid of “losing someone”, or of betrayal. He didn’t clean this aspect from his previous relationships, and didn’t do shadow work, or from past life experience. That’s  how the fear from betrayal stays in his energy, and will attract now… the person who to reflect exactly this fear. That means if I focus on that fear of betrayal (which can be also in sub-conscious way), I will surely attract that fear to me as situation. That’s also valid for the low of attraction. That’s how is very likely this man to be involved multiple times in situations with betrayal and loss of someone. Because the other side, his partner will be attracted to play the same role, in order to help in growth of the relationship. She will be the missing piece of puzzle – fear- manifestation – elimination, which is needed. Also from her side she will have soul motive to do that. So the relationship can be seen as a play” with certain appointed roles. But what kind of roles you attract and are involved with, depends on where you are in your personal growth and awakening.

      The second case, of attracting our desires, goals and inspiration. This is one aspect that all souls want to achieve. They don’t need to focus on certain person, but rather on their own aim and desire in life, and the spiritual mission. In this way they will attract similar Soul mates. Imagine a person who is devoted to be a writer, or a spiritual teacher. He will write and devote his time to spiritual practices. While he do that his focus wont be to find a partner, even he can have desire for that. If he is persistent in his writing work, and do things in order of – thought -intention -action, it`s sure that he will find on the way person with similar qualities, who can help him in this mission. That’s how Soul mates “best matches” can be found with devotion to your life purpose and mission. If the person is musician, or play in a concert and meets his Soul mate, who plays also another instrument, or he is composer, the life purpose of both will be related to Music. That’s how souls are connected in the Light working. And here there is no matter if the person wants or not. The most important that will happen in the right time and right space for them. Even so that doesn’t mean that both souls wont reflect also hidden fears, or desires of Self. They can do, but the common mission and goal will make their union much stronger.

       Some of the aspects of souls commitment are related to common thoughts (missions), common feelings (emotional level), and common inner feeling (higher sense). You can be together, only because you are focused on bringing up children. Or opposite – you want to be free, or on basis of experiencing poverty together, or on basis of being rich and managing finances together. The same is valid also for all opposite aspects.

     One example of combination of fear and desire in a relationship. That we speak about love, sympathy or close friendship. So you meet a person, who loves travelling. That’s always very good soul aspect. That person may reveal to you special aspect of your soul, related to desire to travel around different places, desire to communicate and observe different people, culture diversities, or desire to travel, meet and connect with people from his own country. The country of that person wont be “by chance”, and you may feel specially attracted to it for a reason. (it could be that it was your birth place in your past life, or that you were in one soul-group with the same person). These are chain-aspects, they often come together. From desire to travel and connect with other cultures, will awaken desire to be more open to others. Open your heart.

Secondly, your higher Self will reveal that you fear exactly that openness, as it makes you vulnerable (to be in front of others). That prevents you from travelling, or meeting new people. Behind all that you are afraid of being hurt or manipulated, which is very common fear. That’s how you are staying in your shell, and you afraid to take step out, so the person-traveller will come to make you open or going out of your zone. That’s how it works.

Also if you have special feelings to that person, like sympathy, sexual desire, then you may fear to fall in love, and to feel sexual attachment. All of that has roots in feelings of shame and guilt from previous experiences.

That’s why if you want to attract positive Light relationship, you need first to cleanse and remove the sub-conscious fears from your mind. 2. The second is to be truly willing to communicate and TRUST in another. (trusting another is equal here to trusting the universe). And 3. To trust yourself (and Higher self) that this is what is best for you now. These are essential aspects in any relationship.

I don’t say here you need to show your weaknesses or to give the keys of power in hands of your partner, or to not react in manipulation. But be more open, confident and trust in the process. This person is part of your souls Journey.

And the forth thing to do is to accept his differences. These are qualities or emotional expression you feel different from you.

So being in a relationship is a journey where two souls are involved equally.

      There are different types of souls. Here I want to observe something very important, that is often misunderstood. About stereotypes and types of behaviour and thoughts in different people. Are stereotypes related to gender? Or are they related to personality? Both is true. There are some gender stereotypes for sure. But more commonly, that’s a wrong perception. Why? For example is it correct to say “ what kind of women men like? Or what to do if you want to attract a man? That’s very nice advices, but the problem is they concentrate on only one general stereotype of MEN. Not of all. Think about that – if you are woman, you are not the same as your girl friend, she doesn’t react in the same way as you in different situations. She likes different types of men. You too. In this way you are quite different.

Thank you for tuning in!

This is last part of my article about finding your Soul mate! 

Be blessed, and walk on the way of Light!

nina Lea-nour *

Angel`s medium

Puzzle Relationships -III

Third part III 

   * Numbers 1, 9, 11 and 10, 19, 28 represent the air-wind element (in personality), the season winter, direction north, color white, symbol snowflake, snow. They are good match to each other, together with some other numbers.

3, 7, 12, 21, 25, 16, 30 – represent the fire element, sun, warmth, summer, candle, wax, honey bees, south, color ruby red and golden, symbol butterfly (volcano, mountain, animal) quality – strength, faith, transformation, efforts, physical achievements; earth elements –fruits.

2, 8, 22, 17, 20, 26 – are face of water element, season autumn, direction, west, amplification of inner peace, purity, connection with inner self, represent the water on earth –lake, river, waterfall, spring, spa, sea, ocean, rain. These numbers interact harmoniously with each other; color dark blue, violet, light blue (aqua aura), purple. Symbol – lotus flower, fish, crystals.

4, 6, 13, 15, (22), 24, 31 – stand for element Earth, season Spring, direction east, amplification of qualities – patience, persistence, discipline, determination; power of awakening, ascension, love for natural world, elements – trees, plants, flowers, herbs, essences; principle of physical and mental healing. (arch. Raphael, Chamuel, Ariel). All non predatory mammals and animals. Symbol- blossoming tree, rose. Power of perseverance, rejuvenation, conservation. Color –dark green, light green, soft pink.

     These are the basic groups. Number 5 is connection of all elements or Light and comes in special cycle of the soul. It indicates repeating a life cycle again and karmic forces. (when something important should be accomplished or repeated.)

* How these personal numbers match?

Now I`ll explain with concrete examples.

    If your date of birth is for example on 6. may. We take just the number 6 and not the year so we don’t make more complications. This is number of earth, east, power of persistence ,awakening, and healing. What are the numbers of match to it? The puzzle numbers are found by any number that feels the space until the sum of both becomes whole number. In case of 6 this is 4, it gives 10. Any not simple number further reduced to simple and matching in the same way is also harmonious for 6. For ex. – 22, 13, 31. The number for earth and water element may also coincide with the same number, so 6 also will be very good. That means – with these particular numbers (personality numbers of date) – 6 will have balanced, good and high vibrations and will be in harmonious match – no matter if relationship is “soul mates” or love. This is the best match for long-term relation, that will evolve and bring creative atmosphere around both. Other numbers wont be harmonious for that, and will “lack a peace” of quality. That means other relationships will be with compromises on both sides. Have in mind, that does not mean that you cant be in love, attached, addicted or feel happy in other relationship. That simply appoints there is at least one peace of weak points, that wont be harmonious between you.

    For someone born on date 22 – harmonious numbers will be 8 (add first simple number to make whole figure), then make 22 simple (4) – all numbers valid for [ 4 ] – that is here earth element. In this way this special number acts like water, and like earth together. It will need stability, awakening and persistence of earth. Harmony numbers are: 6, 15, 24, 22 (with the same vibration).

They are in the same time equal (the same element) or matching the puzzle peas. Element earth is harmonious with Water. (awakening –purification –letting go). As they make one line in the compass – East –West. Element fire is harmonious with Air. They make one line in the compass South –North. This is the ambivalent flow of polarities, principles of Masculine and Feminine, Yin and Yang.

Have in mind, if the figures explained above are the best match, another still harmonious match are all dates of the matching element (for person of Earth – earth and water). If your date is for example earth -6 (element flower), and your relationship is with someone from group of Fire, Air, it wont be harmonious match. Moreover you`ll have many struggles, conflicts –inner and outer – and misunderstanding. The energy flow between you wont be a good match. You ll make this connection going” just with many compromises and in high price of “karmic” lessons.

I hope everyone finally succeed to find their amazing, brilliant harmonious match in love life. Then at least the general energy field of earth and vibrations will increase too much. By just not being afraid to become our real true Self. 

Abide in divine light, dear spiritual flowers, seekers! 

[ nina Lea-noura * ]

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Puzzle Relationships -II

Second part II ~

   Now I want to concentrate about the individual relationships of everyone. From what I knew until now, we look little like a theater for growing souls. We just need to go through changes, challenges, transformations and pain, in order to complete our missions and learn our lessons. That’s the only way. We cant just fly in this “heavy earth plane” in human heaviness, and soar in perfect realm where all goes smooth. Not because we don’t want to! And not because of so often repeated “manifestation” lows. But because we need to struggle, in order to grow and ascend. This is the way of earth energies. That’s why many and most of relationships are not “harmonious”, they are meant to be so. They are our lessons from past (karmic), or for the future building of Self. With each failure we have good chance to “wake up” spiritually and to ascend. If the way is flat and comfortable, no failure and no growth will be possible. All our moves and actions will be even, flat, without cause-effect.

    So the first thing we need to know is, (not self-love) – that karmic relationships exist, and we cant avoid them or go to another way. We need to pay our dept, and nothing is for free on earth. The higher is the soul-level, the more she is prone to have more karmic relationships. (that’s too logical, as then the soul has the time to develop and connect many times). Opposite, the little is the soul level, the less karmic relationships will occur (less debt to pay), then the first levels people will be much more “primitive” and ignorant on spirituality, and may be in much easier flowing life standard and better love match.

    I spoke already much about that topic in other articles. (….)

   What we can do, if we are in higher soul levels and struggle with relationships issues? We need to do the three steps I explained above. Release, let go, forgive the past. Stay centered, be present, connect with your heart, accept yourself. Manifest your true desire.

Relationship match too rarely happens with the first sight love and “first love”. We think many times, “first love” is by “intuition of heart” that chooses the best for us. This is not true. It`s rather “first impulse” and attraction of eyes, than the heart. In these stages we artificially connect the heart –with eyes (mind). This is illusion and often leads to failures, but of course its strong enough as we believe in this created illusion.

    Many people divide the “harmonious relationship” by psychological, astrological, cultural, ethnical, religious criteria. The truth is every person is unique individual and you cant divide him in any criteria. Some popular believes from the past state that harmony is awaken between people from the same element in the zodiac group. In this way they divide group of “air signs” (Libra, Gemini, Aquarius), group of earth signs (Virgo, Capricorn, Taurus), group of water and fire signs…Then by default and many times subconsciously we ask someone unknown “what is your zodiac sign?” if he is not from our group, we are not so much interested. Is this the truth?

   Not at all. If there is something true about that, its more in our mind or created by us. People are far more complicated mixture (cocktail) of many elements in their birth chart, by vibrations of their name letter, date of birth, aura color. How we can possible determine the “match” for that unique mixture? We cant. There are many people to who we can be attracted in our life, from them many people with whom we`ll have some kind of relationship (karmic lessons), and even more to whom we can be “harmonious match”.

      Even so many factors of the complicated soul puzzle, there are very simple rules to find out the better love match. As I wrote about the numbers in the personal birth date, I can say they are one of the most powerful participants in the humans life cycle. They show is many things about ourselves we even cant believe. The date of birth (without the month or year) is a simple number. This number can be taken as a base for the puzzle, to find out the harmonious match. Each number is connected with element, direction, personality, and higher soul missions.

The numbers above 10 should be minimized and made simple. The numbers that “match the gap” of our number in order to become whole number, are actually our puzzle peace we look for.

[ nina Lea-noura * ]

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Puzzle Relationships I

Puzzle relationships series - I

    We know how much people want to find the best partner for them and how many times “harmonious relationships” sound more like a beautiful dream, than reality. Though most romantic people are determined to find their true love match and feel complete.

    I`ll try to explain some simple rules here on how to find the best match for us, what is illusion about it, and what is real, with help of my angels.

Always we want to bring love, peace and harmony in human relationships, specially to romantic ones. We need them to be also full of feelings of devotion, passion, trust, sincerity, closeness, sharing, fun and joy. All of that rarely comes in perfect combinations together. Why is it so?

   One of the reason why is in our understanding about ourselves and our acceptance of life. Another reason is the so important “karmic relationships” and lessons we need to learn from them. In order to have harmonious relationship, first thing we have to look at and change is the way we look to ourselves. Simple questions like: do I love myself enough? Do I accept all things in my life and all about myself? Am I thankful about all people and events in my life? If answer to one of these significant questions is “no”, that means you are not yet on the way of perfect love match. You are not ready and you didn’t prepare your surrounding for such relationship.

   Here are very simple steps to begin.

  Before you do anything, open your heart and let all the energy flow through it. Without open heart center, you cant experience any kind of love or relationship or growth. These are the main steps and principles to follow, if you want to invite love energy for the best partner match –

1. Release, let go, forgive (in this first step you need to be free from all past attachments to your energy body. Cut all the cords that are holding you to person or event from the past. Make this in loving way, release the feelings resentment, anger, distrust, open and heal your heart. Then you`ll experience wholeness again. Forgive anything from the past and let the energy leave your authentic self and just stay in the past as a lesson. Don’t cling and don’t identify yourself with this past energy or past-self. You are new, you are changed, you evolved and went trough transformations. Don’t forget that. Release and be free inside.

2. Stay centered, connected and present.

What that means? To stay centered means to be open to the flow of cosmic energies, and in the same time to keep, cherish your inner values, to love your inner child, to love yourself in first place. This self within you more than any other visible “self”. Connect with your heart every day, then you`ll have open passage to the Higher self and your shining Star –Merkaba. Look around, feel energies, interact with people, understand how they affect your world. Be aware, be still. That stillness (state of meditation and connection with Nature) is the best achievement of your Self. When you release all, then go deep within you, connect with your astral body, with your spirit guides and angels. Then the energy will be free for the way of your desires.

3. Manifest your true call, your love, your desire.

The third step is the final one. After you connect with yourself, feel your soul free, have self-acceptance and love, then you are ready. Manifest is the easiest thing to do, just have in mind –whatever you “manifest” or “desire from the universe”, it will be given to you…but only when you are ready for it. Manifestation will be totally fruitless if you still didn’t complete the first 2 steps. Without letting go, you wont be able to have complete self-acceptance and freedom, so the universe cant give what you want. You need to change all with new patterns. Make new paths and drawing for your life. That means –most probably you need to undergo change, maybe a deep and painful one. Change is very important to help us in any process of growth, specially in our love life.

Then manifest –there are so many ways to do that! Just allow the energy of love to happen in the right time, without too much focus. You can manifest any desire of heart by simple ways of – prayer, ritual (magic), in dates of full moon, new moon, by individual meditation, connecting with your spirit guides and angels, by creation of crystal grids, by planting a tree or a flower. Choose whatever way is good for you. Be sure that once you set the intention, the universe already knows about it. And your angels know even before that.

All these steps even so simple, take time to be completed. You should have the qualities persistence and determination, until all reaches your highest good. 

[ nina Lea-noura * ]

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