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The
starting of realization of such feeling, if not inherent from birth, is around
the age of 15 years, when the Sacral chakra starts to expand for the first
time. (I`ll write separately about the years of chakra expansions). Then it’s
the time when boys and girls can feel spontaneously attracted to the same sex
individuals. That will seem strange for them from one side, because of the
social restrictions and taboo, but from another they will feel more closeness,
warmth and familiarity to the individual from the same sex. Exactly because in
these ages the barrier of differences between genders starts to appear
strongly. That barrier can be an obstacle to like the opposite gender for some
(even it can result in dislike, or disgust), and can be a challenge to others,
who will be able to start the first love crush to another.
However
the developed feeling of closeness to the same sex in these years might be just
temporarily, and not stay during all life of individual. It can also have
deeper roots, and help the soul to have its personal growth and transformation.
Have
in mind that due to the intensity of the feeling of sexual attraction in this
years, the first love crush in teenagers will be related mostly to sexual
experiences. For homosexual men the feeling of “love” is immediately linked
with “like, thrill and sexual attraction”. As they are people of spontaneous
feeling and Yang energy, they don’t wait to “know” someone until they have
intense feeling. That’s one of the big misconception and division between
genders in the way they express love. For girls usually they will have more
need of observance, deeper knowledge, in understanding the soul of another.
Even so in the teenage years (after 14) everyone has the feeling of sexual
attraction spontaneously. Due to the sacral chakra expansion. In later years
women tend to take longer time to acknowledge, understand and extract the
feeling of love, due to their tendency to analyse. They can also be defensive
and slow to act. Also for them feeling of love” will be more or less separated
from the sexual desire, and related to world of the Soul, and subconsciousness.
That means woman can “love” or like someone even without to have sexual
connection with him. She is more dreamy, and she will need to be possessed, and
be “loved”. That’s why psychologically women tend to have the passive position
in the relationship – one who need to be loved, to be cared, and to be object
of sexual desire. That we speak of the majority, but as we stated here, due to
the complex and unique way of the Yin-Yang energies, there will be women who
are more active, who have predominant masculine Yang energy, even thought they
are not homosexual.
Men
on the contrary, are more connected and familiar to the physical side of love,
which means also thrills and emotions. They can be easily attracted and love
someone, because of sexual desire, even though in later years they realize this
feeling could be not named as "love”.
Even
so the limits between love and like concept are blurred. In many cases until 20
years souls cant differentiate them. Thats because it`s meant to be so.
Conclusion:
The spiritual perspective on
homosexuality is quite different from any social norms, taboos and
restrictions. They can even add more intensity and thrill to the same sex
attraction in some respect. Homosexual desire is related to the balanced
portions of Yin and Yang (masculine) energy in human body. The soul does not
carry the gender characteristics, but when incarnated in the human body, it
needs to acquire specific gender. The (mismatch between the Soul aspect energy,
which is in emotional body and aura, and the physical gender makes the
difference in sexual attraction of the individual. In some cases homosexuality
is inherent (from birth), while in others its more complicated process of
individual and sexual growth, with specific karmic reflections. The soul of a
man can be attached to another male soul, namely because of past life
experience and karmic debt, which can be also planned in the Soul contract.
However the homosexual desire is related to the complex and multi-layered
nature of humans emotional and ethereal body, which makes each individual and
each relationship very unique. In any homosexual relation needs to be created
from two parties with opposite characteristics on energy flow – Yin (feminine,
passive) and Yang (masculine, active). There will be usually found wounded
parent relationship in most of individuals who acquire homosexual feeling.
Usually the men will have wounded relationship with the father, while women
with the mother. (Note: that does not mean wounded parent relationship will have
as a result appear of homosexuality traits in the child. The effects can be
multiple.)
The
homosexual feeling has a complex nature on emotional and physical level, and
its not an illness, but in the same time can be accompanied by traits of
extreme behaviour, which can be viewed as illness. Only the cases of
implementing force, or out of control violence toward another person is
considered a crime (from Spiritual perspective).
Thank
you for tuning in! Be present, and follow the way of divine Light!
Nina Lea-nour *
Angel`s medium
Reiki master
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