So the socially approved monogamous model
of stable, life-long relationship is not suitable or even has unhealthy
aspects, due to deeper need of the soul for expansion and spiritual development
– which comes from multiple relationships. Even so, the person will have again
special lessons to learn and to develop to some point, but it wont bring the
inner change, or inner spiritual power, if it stays in a life-long
relationship. This is the same as all kind of changes, which people try to
RESIST. Another thing I want to say is, resistance of change (or fear of change
and from that personal growth), is also the basis of the stable long-term
relationship (marriage). Fear of change and feeling insecure and unstable,
which is the one of the basic social fear in “modern society”.
That’s how by beings in this modern
socially approved stable family core, people start to find ways to “escape” the
social matrix (including escape the lows and values) by many ways. That
suppressed spiritual or any kind of development and change will appear as :
1. inner conflict, not knowing who you are
and what is your mission, obesity, depression, sleep disorder and disorder of
Thyroid (throat charka);
2. Conflict with others – being selfish and
acting mostly from point of personal ego, relying only on personal power, and
imposing your own views on others (believing just your way of life is the
“right one”)
3. Conflict with the inner values – that
may be visible in adultery, deception, telling lies, hiding the truth, not
sharing, being attracted to lust and increased sexual desires (to your partners
or others), or opposite feeling of lack of sexual desire.
These all are results from monogamous life
long relationship, which is in fact a stamp of society on the individual life.
This kind of monogamous model of relationship becomes a stereotype, which brings
social stability and permanent resistance in the matrix.
By making stable family core people cant
easily escape the matrix, because they will be caught in social work,
situations and material world issues, which works like spider web around. (that’s
how social media – facebook mechanism looks like). This is the productive way
to keep the society and average individual ignorant, or to control and
manipulate his desires and needs. Also that can control the image and concepts
of good and bad, and values.
That’s how all society is sure that being
in life-long partnership (marriage) is good and being in multiple relationships
is “bad”, which is very far from truth (universal truth).
The
way people synchronize together in the relationships is significant to
understand the principle of monogamy and serial monogamy. People in time of spiritual evolving, value
the concept of one-and only partner and relationship, because they feel it`s
connected to devotion. They way person is devoted to one partner can be seen in
concept of monotheistic religions and oneness of God. Strangely in Islam the
monotheistic concept is well working with early polygamy practices (or
historical religious polygamy, which is related only to men). Even so
contemporary Islamic societies don’t view polygamy as socially approved, but
still as approved by religious leaders and Shariah. But this practice shows one
very real and row condition that existed.
Devotion to one partner can be very
mischievous, because how many people don’t actually “commit adultery in their
heart?” (as Jesus says…) How many people in reality do not desire another
partner, a different partner, don’t feel unstable, threatened, and how many do
not stay within the life-long partnership only because they fear change or
avoid being alone, financially unstable or fear social judgment, or afraid
being alone parents, sacrifice their real desire for what they believe is good
for children? Please observe well, try to answer by yourself.
Or how many partners changed, or have
different spiritual vibration, or become a different person. Or how many in a
life-long relationship keep the same feeling of love, passion and support? Or
how many stay inside relationship, because “there is no better choice”, or
because they are used to each others qualities, or because of endless
compromises of Self.
Is that the real value of life-long
relationship? No, that’s the social
matrix of life-long relationship – spider web.
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Stay blessed and filled with divine Light!
nina Lea-nour *
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