Reason why polygamy cant exist in our society is easy to understand – it
doesn’t meet the values and requirements of society, it has conflicts with
personal morality, and it has conflict with the human ego. (Reference - see information on some still living communities with active poligamy practices - some American mormons.) People usually come
in “marriage relationship” because they want to have legal and socially
approved connections, 2. they want to feel stable in family core, and bring up
children, 3. they want to have life long partner, who to share life responsibility
with; So in such stable, approved status of relationships, passion and long
term love are finally not the most important. (even they are also appreciated
well).
The next point in spiritual and
psychological perspective is that this kind of relationships strive for
qualities stability and permanency, on account of qualities flexibility,
passion, and personal development.
It`s true that such relationships if they
are life long, they have very good point of learning with one partner, and
focusing on the children education. But also they don’t have much space for
personal growth, and they are not flexible. We could say even in multiple cases
– maybe even 90% from all such couples, the energy of life long or extended
monogamous relationship is stagnant and with rather negative influence on the
individuals.
People are meant and “programmed” to have
multiple experiences in relationships with different, multiple partners, in
different life stages. That means any soul has many, multiple Soul mates, as
well as many Karmic relationships (from past lives), and many other experiences
of new choices. This is the spiritual perspective on relationships, which is
out of the social lows and norms, and out of “normal” views of humanity. That
means relationships from spiritual perspective are opposite of what we can call
“approved” , as they are made to bring you different soul lessons, karma
cleansing, self-knowledge, growth and achieving higher qualities as
forgiveness, compassion, self-love, and unconditional (Christ) love. That`s how
the spiritual pattern works. It doesn’t care of social connection or social
matrix. It looks from very higher perspective, the one of Soul lessons.
That’s how such stagnant and stable in
itself family core/ relationship wont be very spiritually stimulating; on the
contrary – the relationships that brings multiple soul lessons – including the
lesson of letting go, releasing old – will be much more appreciated. That’s how
most (I don’t say all, as they are so many different cases!) but most advanced
souls are actually going through many different relationships, partnerships and
lessons in a life time. Or some of them are even just “out of relationships” or
need to find the suitable partner, or not in a stable family core. In most
cases such souls are more able to have time and focus on spiritual aspects of
life in any kind –religion, self-growth, education. While people in stable
family core, are usually busy with many real life tasks and obligations of
life, they wont have much time to be spiritually devoted. Of course there are
different lessons and souls, I speak about the majority.
Something more –the two people need to be
always in alignment with each other within the couple, and never change, or change
simultaneously both, in order to remain in one spiritual plane. That is really
how the spiritual and advanced partnerships will look like! They can be
life-long, monogamous, and spiritually devoted, as two people will be in the
same vibrational level. But how many times people do change in a life time? Is
it possible for growing soul to stay unchanged and in the same level for all
the life? Yes, it is possible the soul to stay in one life long partnership,
and to undergo multiple lessons and obstacles, and to not change” still the
spiritual level – that means the souls are just not reached to the way of
spiritual growth, and they have other ways to learn and expand. That does not
mean the souls will be “bad or good” in any way. Just they wont be on the
spiritual growth way, and not in the life of accelerating the spiritual
potential, path or intuition. As I said that rarely happens , as advanced souls
don’t experience smooth way of growth through relationships.
Another reason is: just one relationship and one partner cant bring to
the soul all needed lessons for spiritual growth. Even more – just one partner
could bring also energy of stagnancy, block changes in life flow, and not allow
life of soul to unfold in its natural way. That is so, because each soul has
already several life experiences that create several karmic relationships
(people from past lives), and many soul mates. And the soul will be naturally
attracted to these soul mates in some stages of life. That attraction can
appear as friendship, or temptation (to go out of restriction of relationship),
or as suppressed attraction that becomes blocked. In all these points it will
remain inactively in subconscious mind. But all things that are inactive there
can become “active” or will be unlocked by special circumstances when subconscious
mind is “touched”.
So all that relationships of past will be
in inactive state and waiting for their “turn” to become part of persons life.
Thank you for tuning in! Feel free to like this article, share it, or post a comment! Stay blessed.
nina Lea-nour *
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