Sacral chakra - relationships, illnesses -II

 - Part II -

You can see the list is so long that I cant even complete! Now think deeply, who on earth has the perfect balance in Sacral chakra? More details from your life of grown individual will show you also high percent of imbalances and not healthy Sacral sphere:

-      abusive or offensive behavior that repeats more than 2 times from your husband to you; (it may be in speech or action)

-       over sexual desire (appetite) and depraved (perverse) sexual sense in your male partner to you;

-      lower sexual desire, coldness and indifference from your male partner to you;

-       habits of addictions (like alcoholism, domestic violence, smoking cigarettes, drugs and others) in the space of your home from both – your partner and you.

-     Being unable to move forward and change relationship in which you feel unhappy and “used”; feeling like in a trap; feeling weakness

    Now surely many of you would be astonished and ask questions on these points. Take care of this: the above lines are related to women, who experience (take the action on themselves), and also for MEN, who are from the weak side of “abusers” and aggressors here. In this relationship obviously both are connected and both have ill and dull Sacral chakra. This behavior may lead in the future (if stays in quite long period of time) to imbalance in the sacral area as physical illness and also may affect your positive relationship to your mother (sister and aunt)

That’s why the best way is to QUIT such kind of relationship, specially if too long time you gave it a chance without any result or change.

   Another from many important aspects that I want to analyze is about Svadhishtana and flowers. Here are some things you can do in order to cleanse and balance your Sacral area (which are not related on first side, but on deeper levels) The same as Root chakra is taking care of animals (home pets) and wildlife on earth, Second chakra is taking care of plants and flowers; so do you like the following things? :

-         taking care of home plants and flowers;

-         how many potted plants, flowers, cactuses and little tress do you have?

-       Taking care of little garden in your own style –you may use white pebbles and stones, make beautiful decorations;

-       Taking care of little fishes in aquarium at home (remember Sacral chakra is water related)

-        Having a small fountain at home or in garden;

-        Arranging a small garden or balcony area with flowers

-        Having knowledge and using herbs and herbal essences

-        Using flowers and flowers essences

-        Making mindful flower meditation with color;

-        Observing, listening and talking to flowers and plants

-        Participating in environmental causes for clean water resources, fresh air and preventing from pollution

   All of these and more are indirectly connected to Sacral chakra. Is it by chance that all women (divine feminine) LOVE flowers and plants! Their energy intuitively senses the benefits of flowers relations. The truth is, flowers and essences really Help for balancing the sacral energy (inside of your home) and in your body. That’s why take care of the exact flowers. It is so, because flowers and plants are related to “humans feelings” in subconscious level. That’s why we feel so peaceful in garden, as if all flowers are speaking to us, or between them. This is true. Flowers have the amazing ability to cleanse air, and cleanse also the dense “emotional climate” within the area. They work with your subconscious feelings as well, making a net of special color energy around the home space (it can be pale green vivid green, pink, orange, yellow.) this net takes like in a spider web, balls of your negative emotions and store them for while until they are dissolved in the new energy from the net. That’s why many negative feelings are released with your garden and green friends.

Additionally every plant can help in expansion and protection of your aura, you will feel surrounded by love, full of peace and joy.

   Animals that are related to Sacral area are: fishes, koi fishes and domestic cat. Totem animals: butterfly. Its easy to know if your sacral chakra can be in danger or imbalanced – if you have one or more points from the one listed above (in relationships with female family members) or if you don’t take any interest in plants or flowers, herbs or essences, if you don’t like gardening or don’t have one or 2 potted flowers at home, don’t like water much or your personal hygiene is not so good.

Easy way to determine imbalance in Sacral chakra is in the visible form of concrete illness in this area:

-         if you have irregular menstrual cycle (not on exact date)

-         if you have too long or too short menstrual cycle (for example  8 days is too long, 2 days is short)

-         if you tend to have problems with ovaries or intimate area (for man with testicles and semen)

-         if you are prone to cysts or cancer of ovaries (womb)

-         if you have any discomfort or illness of womb, ovaries, kidneys;

-         if you have problems with your urine and very delayed discharging of urine or very frequent need of urine discharge;

-         if you stay long time dehydrated and without drinking water

-         if you drink water too much during the day

-         reproductive issues, increased sexual need, nymphomania or impotence

  These are some of the main issues related to second chakra. Very important is to say that Sacral chakra relates to ability to “RECEIVE joy, love, sharing and understanding from your intimate partners to your SELF.”  The wise quality is mindful receiving of JOY; self-love. That means in this chakra, you know how to receive (which is interconnected with Vishudha (how to give joy, love, respect). Another thing you need to master is nurturing you inner Goddess (for women) and realizing power of Divine feminine (for both men and women).

Svadhishtana symbol are primordial waters and ocean before the beginning of the world. This is like the ocean world that we swim as fishes, unable to see its end or beginning.

    Qualities that you need to master in Sacral chakra are: feeling of self-love, ability to feel joy, ability to share your inner emotions, ways to disperse negative emotions (like sadness, anger), ability to connect with nature and flowers, water related activities and sports, water observation and meditation (on lake, river, sea, waterfall, snow); trusting yourself and expressing your inner desires; not suppressing your emotions or desires; feeling loved, peaceful and safe with your partner in any time; not allowing emotions of others to affect on you.

Energy of Svadhishtana is very intense and warming. It is active energy – it takes care of Emotional Self in higher levels. What you can receive from others emotionally. If you think you are worth of love? You will receive much of love from your partners. From this chakra starts the center of Ego, in emotional sphere, that expands to Solar Plexus and heart (part).

Sacral area represents also inheritance of ability to share love and JOY with others, specially with your partner in life (within marriage). It can be symbolically revealed to you in the inheritance or receiving: - special family or marriage jewelry from your mother; - little yard or garden; - receiving flower or lemon (orange) tree; - receiving earrings from your grandmother (mother of your mother);

And finally remember that everyone has Inner Goddess that should be nurtured! Give yourself a gift –this is quite beautiful expression of self-love. Have a special day to buy new flower for home, or new jewelry. (this is something that is not easily left behind like most clothes). Feel special and beautiful, go to hair cut, and take a nice bath with aroma oil and salt. That’s how your divine Feminine will be awaken.

   Lessons that you study in this Sacral chakra are: - how to build strong relationship (marriage) build on understanding, love, devotion, compassion, sharing, giving and receiving, respect, tolerance; how to work as 2 in One union. This is the universal principal of number TWO. That’s why Sacral chakra vibrates with number 2 –love, union of two in sign of infinity; also sign of masculine and feminine energy (Ying-Yang) circle; two koi fishes. (astrologically all water signs are in this group and could have vulnerable sacral place- Scorpio, Pisces, Cancer, together with all people with MOON in the water signs). That makes a large group.

(Have in mind also that the excessive use of not natural cosmetics and chemicals on your face and eyes has a devastating effect and make your face looking older. Try to use very soft and little cosmetics even “natural”)

Hope you find useful my article, feel free to share it or post your comment below! Thank you, wishing you Self-love and sharing and perfectly balanced Sacral chakra.

If you are interested in this topic, you can continue reading next article about: 
Solar Plexus chakra -relationships, illnesses I

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